You know what’s funny about all this? I got accepted into Clemson University and I have a successful career. They still see me as the black sheep of the family.
sometimes i feel like no matter what i did they will never be satisfied. If i dont score well or get admitted to a good university , they tell me that i cant even do such small thing . But when i do, they that that is whats required of me , that is what i should be doing and that i shouldnt be too proud of myself for accomplishing such trivial task. Its as if i will never be enough not matter what i do.
It's strange how our own parents can tell such horrible things to their children. No matter what they are saying you should be proud of yourself and what you had achieved. So please stay strong and know that you are enough. Always ❤
My parents are abusing me physically and mentally. I thought I will get to stay in a hostel away from home after I get into university but it didn't turn out the way I want. Even after giving two attempts I am standing no where in these exam. I panicked and filled wrong answer in the OMR sheet . I didn't tell my parents about this yet but I know they will surely make my life hell. Those scars on my body are still there from previous beatings. But I can't do anything about it.
Is there an opportunity for you to ask for help? Can you call the helpline? I know, just as the video says, sometimes we cannot ask for help for some reason. If so... It may be very difficult but please stay strong. Don't let them break you and ruin your life, because this life is yours. I hope you will be able to achieve your goal and pass your exams soon. And then you will live your life the way you want, a life in which no one will ever dare to hurt you again.
@@bryndenrivers3496 No I can't ask help . I will have to suffer one more year until I get into university. There's nothing I can do about it except taking the abuse. Thank you so much.
@@calmwaves_74 There is no need to thank me. I have done nothing. I wish I could do something. It's the worst in these situations that a child can never fight back. It's an initially unequal battle
Being eldest daughter made myself so perfect got 100%in academics got 1st position in debates, because the 4 times chairperson of muns did 15 Ted talks got gold in badminton got gold in abacus got gold in many games but still my parents think i am useless 😭😭 i really can't understand what they wanted a child or the walking and living presentation which should be perfect how much more perfect a person can be i can't help out if i scored 95 in school and came third why can't they understand that it was board exam of 10th and out of 200 kids i was on third position why can't they understand that i wanted to live my childhood but still killed it in the pressure of relatives mann the cousins you are talking about she is completing ger college am just a 12th grader why cab theg see this that i was born 6 years later then they was born i was the youngest in my whole batch everyone was from 2006 i was from 2007 stilll tried mh best why can't they be happy at what i got 😭😭😭😭😭
I'm so sorry dor you. Everything you said, there is no excuse for this. Children try their best to justify their parents, but for some reason this justification simply doesn't exist. I don't know how selfish one can be to demand something from one's child. Parents (by demanding incredible formal success from their child) often try to show people what good parents they are, but in reality it only shows how bad they really are. Because the only thing that matters is the child's happiness.
it's freaking hard to be an average student in middle class Indian family. every day is a mess, I have mental issues but there is no one who listen. what I here is 'GET GOOD GRADE OR AFTER12 I WILL GET YOU MARRIED OR I WILL SENT YOU TO AN UNKNOWN PLAE WHERE NO ONE WILL BE THERE FOR YOU'. I want to say I am trying hard to live and to be a good child:(
I'm so sorry to hear that No one deserves hearing such terrible words. We know and you know that you are trying your best and you are good child, your parents don't deserve such a good child. Please stay strong and remember that you're doing enough. You are enough, even more than enough, you are great!
Definitely, it is not your fault! Never was. Please don't listen to those people who makes you think that way, because they wrong, they just do not see how beautiful you are
@@seiusido no need to thank me because I'm just saying the truth - you are wonderful person as every hu,an being is and the ones who doesn't see that they are just blind
I'm so sorry that it happens to you but please don't forget that you are much more than their words You are amazing person and you deserve better. I hope you will smile despite their words and actions because your smile are beautiful. You are beautiful. Please stay strong I hope everything will be better soon❤
You know what hurts the most ' It's parents words .'I don't care how other people look at me.And how they judge me .But I care how my family think about me.Everyone think I'm crazy.Because no matter how hard it was I will smile.Even though I'm drowning.I cry when I'm alone.Because I don't want them to know that I'm broken.Because I know no one will care for me.I pretend I'm fine.But my heart is aching.I wanna leave everything behind.I want to say everyone that " Leave Me alone ."But I can't.I'm afraid that everyone will laugh at me.I'm afraid of my parents.I'm afraid of whole world.I'm afraid of myself.
The only thing that matters in this world is you. Don't listen to others. You are important, your feelings are important. It's your life not their So please care for you, love yourself and stay alive 🖤
Sometimes it is impossible to bear all the pain at all. First is the uncontrollable pain they gives us and want as to be according to what they want us to be ,a winner, a champ, a property and being a robot who quits only at their wish and who starts only at their wish. And second the regret of shouting on them and blame us. Now what is remaining is to suicide to get rid of all the PAIN😢. Still they will say at last, it was for our own good. FUCKING NO!!!!! IT'S NOT.ITS NOT.ITS NOT. its for your wish.its for your fulfillment.its for YOU not me. Really the last line was true😢.we are not their child but a trophy which is now broken(into pieces).😖😖
I'm very sorry to hear all these words. And I'm really sorry if this video caused so much pain. Your words are true, but I made this edit only to remind that we do not live for them, but for ourselves. No matter how much it hurts, we still have to remember that they have no right to do this to us. We are not trophies so we're not broken and we don't need to be fixed because we are not fake pieces of gold (how many of us are mentioned here), we are golden just the way we are 🖤
Me: why do people think suc**de is the only option when u're depressed and stressed, please don't do that to urself, u r precious😭 . The world is evil, but once u get through hard times u'll meet the right people. Also me: 🙂 ********************************* i can't anymore, i'm tired
I AM TRYING 😭😭😭😭😭leave me alone!!!!!! Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I am tr…ying They know it’s hard they know it’s too much then whyyyyyyyyyy they know they know they smile too yet Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Why
I refuse to beileve our parents birthed us just to scar us. But thats how it feels like, Im just here to be used however they want. Or be forgotten in the background.
That's the question why the most important people in our lives make us feel this way? I can't understand that. Please, stay strong 🖤 You deserve all the love in this world and it's their problem if they don't see that
Let's promise to our future, we will not be a parents likr this. We will be someone, our kids can proudly say, "i love my parents and if there is a second life i want them to be my parents again "
I wish *my parents told me that you don't need to be perfect, you are perfect for us as you are* But all this happens only in stories, in reality our parents take away our childhood only in the name of making us perfect!!They make us jealous and insecure of our own siblings!! make us feel like we're worthless!! Why can't they accept us as we are!!
When people make a decision to bring another life in this world they should remember that they do that not for yourselves and this living creature gonna have its own life, its own dreams and goals. Children have a right not to do that their parents want only because they gave them everything (and sometimes it's not, sometimes they can give everything except the one thing - love (Isabel as an example))
It hurts cuz when children see their parents tears they feel that it was their mistake and give up on their own hopes . Parents sacrifice for us and we for them . I hope people understand the children also .
It's embarrassing. I hate my family because of what they do, and I fail at everything. Even when I succeed, it becomes like: Oh, this is what is required of you in the first place. You didn't do anything great..."Your brother is better than you, even if he doesn't study, he gets better grades than you." "You are a disgrace to the family" "Why are you not the first, you have to be the first in everything" Even suicide I failed at
This is the problem of other people if they don't understand that our grades do not show who we are. And you are amazing and you deserve to be loved as every person. Please, stay alive 🖤
Im proud of you, you've fought battle after battle and your still here, whatever path you choose to take, i know you'll do great in it, just follow your heart.
i hope you are doing well but yet i want to ask how are you doing ? I don't want to live or die for others , i truly hope that you start giving yourself more importance and live , not for me not for others , but for you . i am never going to meet you and even if i do , i won't be able to know that it's you but still i feel it would be nice to know you i am not going through anything yet i hope you don't give up , hold on and live like a fighter that you are and if you found me offensive or intruding, i sincerely apologize to you have a good day
What hurts the most I that I feel like this every single day My parents tell me how are your grades did you study When I was in elementary I had to read 4 hours a day and study for an extra hour and in middle school was the worst always studying mental health was really bad then I had an anxiety attack the. I had to talk to the counselor every day of the month sitting in a depressing room talking about my feelings which also caused my insomnia to worsen and tbh I haven’t been the same since because in my family you are loved more if you have good grades I used to have straight A’s now I still have some but B’s and get compared to other kids like I don’t deserve to live like this I was also neglected as child also my parents were taught to not show affection and they admit that they messed up on me ( I can’t even ask my parents for anything bc I am to scared that they are going to hurt me)
I'm so sorry. It's so hard to know that so many people have such a horrible experience Parents should be the one who must understand their responsibility for raising a child, be grateful to their kids and not demand this gratefulness for themselves bc sometimes they do not deserve that
they will tell u i scarified my carrier for u. but i if i get a chance to speak i will say i sacrificed my happiness, smile ,childhood , a part of myself
Tbh it’s also not their fault they don’t want us to fail in life like they did Ik some times the way they put things and the way they treat isn’t good but they also have this pressure from society n relatives I think we should also some times feel sorry for them they had one life but they couldn’t live to their best cause they also had expectations to meet but they want us to be financially successful so that we can live our life to the fullest unlike them
@@bryndenrivers3496 sorry but one more thing.. How u got these clips of diff dramas.. Like sometimes I try to edit any trailor.. I find it hard to have short short so many clips... Screen recording nd then setting is so tough, as well as time taking.. How do u did?
