My girlfriend came to live with me and didn’t want to work anymore. She basically said, why do I need you if I have to work. Not even a wife! - She wanted control and never budge or work on the relationship, her way or the hard way. This is so true! I hope not all of them are like this.
Hello, Mark Do you think the men could have noticed before the marriage that their wives would turn into such Onibabas? If not that would mean japanese women are one the best female pretenders😂
Crass.. thanks for your quick response. Iam trying to find an explanation from that kind of japanese woman. Every woman of that type has an absurd explanation for their behaviour mostly that they are the victims 😂
It sounds like german women without doing homework. 😂😂😂 Thanks for your video. Next time give a hint not listening while training or something like that I almost shat pants😂
When you have a look what kind of sex sells you see what the women/men lack. Hostess club where the main focus lies on giving the men the feeling of being treated as men again, than you see that a lot is wrong with japanese women. Guys dont get married until the women aren't fertile anymore 😂
It sounds like female nature is pretty much the same no matter what part of the world they are from. As a man, why in the world would you give your wife your whole check? Like, how long does it take to pay bills yourself? In the age where you can use your debit card to pay for many things. Pay for things yourself. Go grocery shopping with your wife and pay the bill yourself. At the least, make the woman work a part-time job so she can keep busy. Also, I don't know if they have it in japan, make her sign a prenuptial agreement. If she isn't willing to sign it, that should tell you what you need to know about her. She isn't serious about you. It is good for her to work in to use her own money.
This series has SHATTERED my fantasies of a Japanese wife...😮😮😮 And the closet rudeness & nastiness of Japaness....makes me wonder about their birthrate crisis.
I have only dated a Japanese girl and it was only made possible due to me being able to speak a little bit. It was a nice experience for sure and there's no animosity but it opened my eyes, where previously I guess I didn't really know what I was getting into. Honestly there's so many cultural layers to this, I naively thought that language is all you need to bridge the gaps but it would take an outsider like myself or anyone else an entire lifetime to even somewhat understand it. In general, when marrying outside of your own culture or race, it opens up a whole new set of challenges. Given how hard it is to date and find relationships outside of that, it's kind of reinforced my desire to just not bother with any of that stuff for a good while yet until it really feels right. And like someone else mentioned, I think the kinds of women who would make 'great wives' will always prefer their own kind. I don't personally think there is any issue with that, but I think it's important to realise that we as people will naturally gravitate towards 'what we know.' I know a few guys who got married in Japan and now don't even want to talk about the whole experience, and conversely there are guys who are quite happy. In any case... It's difficult lol
Kids are always number one because they are under the care of their parents. They are the priority of the ADULTS who brought them into the world. And continuing to invest into the relationship is important but that’s secondary to raising dependent beings who didn’t get a choice to be brought into the world. Also, walking throughout your home with shoes you wore out in the street is unhygienic. I don’t know any black family that does that in the USA or UK 🤢
A lot of women from more patriarchal countries will have 100% of the domestic and child rearing responsibilities. And even if they work, they will not have the same professional opportunities (in terms of pay and advancements) that their male counterparts have with the same education doing the same job. And most men aren’t getting married in Japan because it’s just too expensive to have children. What’s important to understand is that the women ALSO don’t want to get married or have kids. Why? Because it’s more of a struggle. Not different to most other countries experiencing the same decline in births.
Yup they do run things especially money. My wife personally could care less if I was hospitalized. As long as I bring home the money that's all that matters
I'm married to japanese woman and I'd say they are just like every other woman on earth except they speak japanese 😂 Once you have kids with them they will change in a way you never thought possible. My advice is to just get a japanese woman who can be a good wife
Agreed , they are fake, heartless, no romance, hunger of money, open legs when u open wallet, close all after u marriage, if you wanna waste ur life, then marriage them
Bro , i am an indian guy , my ex was a Japanese,,,, even though we culturally have somewhat same behaviour at our home ,,,,, i find Japanese girls to be emotionally unavailable and secretive….. also they cheat a lot in relationship,… never again 😅 I am with a South Korean girl now and far happy ….
I can see certainity of all these cases in Japan. After hearing this conversation, I think Indian people are a lot of better than them in comparison of how to treat others. They treat black foreigners same as white foreigners. Guess what they sure have some media which only promote their good behaviours, cultural habits, and image
Japanese women can be very good partners. However, I honestly believe that the type of traditional Japanese woman who would make a great wife falls into the category of women who don't date non-Japanese men. These women marry the types of men who understand how to be with them culturally. Most people are naive and believe that marrying outside of their ethnicity won't come with differences and difficulties. I promise it will. You were raised to believe things should be one way, while she was raised to believe they should be another. So when you don't act the way her father did or the men from her 'tribe' do, she'll assume something is wrong with you. Am I saying people shouldn't marry outside their ethnic group? No. For instance, if you have a Black man who marries a Korean woman, and they were BOTH raised in America, it can work. Why? Because they are culturally the same. They're American. He can't relate to Africa, and she can't relate to Korea, but they both relate to America. Can a white guy from America marry a Japanese woman who was born and raised in Japan? Sure, but it will most likely come with major issues. Plus, there's another significant problem: the types of women in Japan who like foreign men are probably not the kinds of women you'd want to be with in the first place.
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You are definitely a man with morals and I love that. Stay with your own people and building your own and having children that look like you is considered demeaning nowadays. Building with your own race is the most beautiful thing.
at 18:30 in regards to your point that people won't say good morning to you unless you say it first. maybe it's because you are a foreigner so they think you can't speak Japanese so once you greet them they figure out you can speak their language so they respond.
@@yushakakarot150 but remember, these people are my neighbours. They see me on more than one occasion, and they continue to blank me unless I greet them. But it’s not all of them, but most.
Wow that's a lot of hatred there. The tradition is true, my parents were like that, with my American born father and my Japanese mom handling the finances. My father loved the idea of mom handling the money and handling the bookkeeping side of raising kids so that he was able to do his own thing (hobby) as much as he wanted within a comfortable controlled environment. The tradition doesn't have to be so stifling and rigid as you say although I know few women were like that but I even feel they are a minority. Most Japanese women work and I also know a lot of single mothers that work and are raising children on their own. I am surprised men are caught in this ordeal, how did you not communicate those things before plunging into a life long commitment? I think it's more about communication, negotiation and respect.
@@namiokami1111 so you say I’m expressing hatred, while you tell me that it’s true at the same time? By any chance, are you liberal? Only liberals call truth hate.
@@MarksMind I'm not a liberal and I'm only speaking about frequency of your video and your views..So "hatred" may not be the right word as I feel I offended you but more "negative". I'm spiritual if anything why bring in politics to categorize me?
@@namiokami1111 seems like we both got our wires crossed. Apologies. I personally know a bunch of guys living this nightmare. Foreign men going through hell with their Japanese wives. And as I said, with my personality and cultural background, it’s safe to say that having a Japanese wife would NEVER work (for me). My fiancé is the closest I’ll ever get to a Japanese wife. She’s half Japanese, but was born and raised in Kenya with more traditional African ways, which are more akin to my culture.
I have traveled to many countries throughout the years and I have met some fucking weird asses and but more good people but my point is there is good and bad people everywhere in the world. Now the looks thing man I got that a lot in western countries and always was asked If I'm a black guy they use terms that is more on the racial side and my friend from Canada was confused and other friends from other counties because my skin color isn't white or black so they whenever they witnessed these moments It was like wait what and they me and them would question those weird asses. Those people are stupid because many times I would tell them what country I'm from and they would question If It is even a country due to them never hearing about my country so yeah many weirdos. Also starring It can be good bad and confusing. The bad starring is when they have fits tightened or they stare angrily but besides that I would just walk away. I find these videos interesting. Cool video. ^_^
I have dated ladies from different races and religions than mine and I haven't dealt / experienced any money hungry women that is this bad wow. The pocket money and reimbursement part was funny and fucking shameful like what the hell. I have friends we hang out rarely now but back then we hanged out with a guy long story short I think Canada or the US and he let his girlfriend come live with him which was the first issue due to them just dating 1 year or 2 at the time my friends are from different countries to even the US and Canada like he was and they even were like what the hell so It's not even a culture difference and he pays the bills and all while she is chilling like what the hell. To make it even worse when we asked and tried to talk sense to him he defended her saying she's a beautiful nice women we laughed and moved o from that boy and said he is not a man. The worst thing he said was she refuses to have sex with him due to being tired all the time. Some people are just hopeless. I also seen ladies like that also. I think both men and women should be equal work pay bills together and chill because If one is paying everything that's just insane. I hope more fathers teach their sons to be a man because they will never grow up and mature and worse be a pet to someone. Cool video. ^_^
In the Japanese society if a couple get divorced usually the parental authority goes to the women’s side、very different from the other countries is the children’s last names will change to the mother’s last name、in order to make the men won’t see the children anymore since changing last name mean they had become strangers.
The fact is Japanese women are not romantic at all but very realistic、usually won’t show true face until get married. Japanese women are very detailed about the financial matters and a single mistake of calculation for one penny won’t be allowed、at the same time keen at doing all the housework and keep it clean. Japanese men don’t mind marrying into that way but for a foreign man unless you must live in Japan then you have to accept that kind of culture.
If it's an international marriage it can't just be their way. You don't have to give your wife your monthly pay unless you are a weak man. She won't like it but too bad. Decide your household ways of living very early. Be careful of being emasculated by your Japanese wife.
The best thing about being a foreign man in Japan is being fetishized by the women. The worst thing about being a foreign man in Japan is being fetishized by the women.
Bro grow up ... when you have children's with a woman she becomes second you love your children more she comes second.. same with you she love the kids first then you come .. just get married stop complaining
@@poupee6929No he’s right. Children are minors versus the parents who are adults. Children need more time and attention than a grown adult and they didn’t ask to be brought into the world and also need to be taught and educated which cannot be said of the adult parents. That said, if you’re not going to prioritise your children, it’s better to not have them. Get married and stay child free.
What you are saying here is that you are use to live a single life ... marriage is new world to you 😂 that how it has always been ask our fathers, womens control the income,
Thanks for your video Part 1-2-3. I'm never getting married. Period. And definitely not to a Japanese woman. I can understand Japanese men are meek, mousy, and weak towards their women, but foreign guys esp from US. UK, Jamaica etc? What? These dudes are cool and self assured and confident, etc, what? They also bend and bow and scrape in front of Jap women, What?
People mistakenly assume that Japan is a magical escape from problems we face in the west. Very much not true, and in fact while I love going there and immersing in the language + culture I have gained a deeper appreciation for my home despite its 'problems.' Imagine any woman troubles you have back home, then add a million layers of tatemae, hierarchies, deeply embedded ways of doing things PLUS a very complicated language. Still love Japan though but yeah it's just a different flavour of 1st world society lol
Giving your salary to your wife and then having her control you is not a law. Japanese culture also involves women being able to abduct their children from their father without consequences. Can't respect for that.