I was never super close with my big brother (we were step siblings and he was just upset that his dad remarried) so I didn't really come out to him. I told our parents and just started insisting on my prefered name and pronouns and I think he got it. He was always a little weird around queer people (because his mom left his dad for a woman). But it really broke me when I got kicked out. He just said that he thought it sucked and was upset for me, but that I brought it on myself. We haven't really talked since, outside of saying happy birthday to each other. I miss him, cause even if we weren't close, he was still my brother.
makes me think of my littel sister's (5) reaction to me being trans: Me: "i am a boy and want to be called kai now" my littel sister: "NOW WE NEED TO CRAFT A D!CK FOR (deadname)" but in my home languege so it was something like "NU MOETEN WE EEN PIEMEL VOOR JULIA KNUTSELEN" i still lach when thinking about it lmao
this genuinely made me sob so hard, i can’t even explain how much i really want something like this to happen for me. when i came out, my mum accepted me but my dad and brother didn’t, and still don’t to this day. it’s been two years. i would give so much to be able to hear words like this from him. my parents keep telling me to put in more effort to get a stronger relationship with my brother, but it’s really difficult when he calls me my deadname and refers to me with female stuff all of the time. i’d honestly give my entire life up just to hear my dad and/or brother call me by my correct name and pronouns.
am full-on ugly-sobbing to this like both my parents are transphobic and i don’t have any older siblings and this is all i’ve ever wanted and needed to hear. i wish it was real, but i’m glad this video exists. i love you all 🥹💖
Im not trans (Non-binary) But this audio was literally freaking wholesome. I hope the trans people who came across this audio felt comforted too. <3 (Yes i am 1 yr late, so?😭) Edit: 2 months later I discovered I am trans (ftm). 🥲
Y’all im trans masc (pre-everything) and im terrified of how my parents will react. Does anyone have tips (for context my parents are pretty good with the whole lgbtq thing buti tried telling my grandma and she thought i was joking, I’ve been scared to bring it up ever since )
I don't have any siblings but I I have three close cousins and all three are females and I really trust my older cousin and I was planning to come out as a trans man to her and this asmr really made me feel like as if she has accepted me as her little bro😭❤️
Im trans and my family aren't supportive of me but today my mum got my a binder bc my old one was to loose even if it is one from shein its the most support ive received from my parents so this means so much❤
I feel like if I tell my brother that I'm trans he won't except me, and my brother was the only positive male figure I ever had growing up so I'm terrified to come out to him (: Thank you so much for making this adio
As someone who is a trans male, this really made me smile, ive come back and listened to this so many times and felt supported each time, I know my brother will never truly support me when I eventually come out publicly and start my transition but as of right now I'm very glad videos like this exist for people like me who don't live in a supportive household, thank you so much for making this. I've probably made a comment before but considering I recently realized my identity I wanted to properly thank you
Thank you virtual brother ❤️ the amount of stress I went through trying to mumble my mom that I wanted to buy boxers at 19.. I had been thinking of maybe being nonbinary or trans a while before that and I feel like those first pair of boxers helped me to start transitioning. Now I'm working my way to get to the hospital to get my T's at age 21.
I got my first pair of boxers at age 14, but my mom realllllly hated it. She only let me buy them because they were Sonic the Hedgehog boxers and I really love Sonic, but she hated it whenever I wore them. I even hand washed them to take extra care of them. I wore them for my 15th birthday, but she saw them and made me change into girl briefs and threw my boxers away. It made me sad, they don't even sell those anymore. Luckily, I wear boxer briefs again now and she doesn't throw them away. She still doesn't like them, but I bought them with my own money so I guess she can't throw them away? I don't know. Maybe she lets me wear them because girl briefs litterally do not fit my body. I'm 19 now.
When I came out as trans to my family literally nobody supported me and they basically shunned me and outcasted me, eventually I had a talk with them about it and they’ve been slightly better about it. They still aren’t happy about it but they respect my decision, except for my brother we used to have a really good relationship before I told them and now he absolutely hates me. I cried a lot listening to this and it made me feel so much better, thank you
I'm gender fluid and I like wearing boys and girls clothes depending on how I feel but I always choose the boy clothes and sometimes I wear girls clothes so I might not be transgender but I can understand a little bit of how it feels
Ok this made me cry fr because my parents don't like people in our family or friends being Trans and want me and my siblings to wait till our brains have fully developed which isn't until our 20s and I pisses me off because I an non binary and they say it's not a real gender
//Talk of S3xual assualt, incest, underage// When i was 3 years old, my oldest brother and grandpa sexually assaulted me, and my oldest brother still hints at it to this DAY of wanting to go further than just touch. My oldest brother (the sexual assaulter) is transgender, she came out a few months ago to me. I knew i was under this spectrum of being trans at 9 years old. I knew i was trans/non binary/demiboy at 12. I came out to my mom at 13. Everyone, and i mean EVERYONE, assumes I say im under this spectrum because of my trauma (which i have more trauma other than just the sexual assault). I do think that some of it is that trauma, but i don't believe ALL of it is. This, on a personal feeling, made me feel as though you were the oldest brother that i never got. My second oldest brother brushed me off (he does support me but he just didn't care much of the courage it took for me to come out). The thing that lightens my mood though, is my mom is pregnant with her fifth child, and that child will always know me as their older brother, and that, that is something i look forward too. I won't have to worry about being misgendered because that kid won't be raised like I was, that being gay is a sin (my grandmas put that into my brain until I realized i was gay), that kid will be raised to have two trans siblings, a bisexual sibling, and a pansexual mother. That kid won't have to worry if is okay with moher and father if they're accepted to be pansexual and transgender, that kid won't have to worry like i did, and that relieves me like nothing else. That kid will have a big brother that will be there for them when they need it, and i will do my best to protect them unlike how I was. (Sorry to rant)
Oh my gosh, I can't believe it took me this long to find this! I'm so glad I did, because you did an amazing job! Thank you for filling this script ^-^ I'm definitely checking out more of your work!
