👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽yes!!!! Tell the truth. Tell the truth!!!!!!!!! These guys don’t want a relationship they just want the benefits of relating……. Grown BOYS!!!!!! Where are the MEN!!!!!!!!
This is spot on! I practised this when going on dates with a man recently. Turned out he had bad intentions and was so surprised when I walked away. He seemed to think I was so in to him when I was still evaluating his character and intentions.
Very good advice!! I just stumbled across this video and I like Coach Paul advice he seems real w/ good topics for the ladies. I think ill subscribe to his channel.
I have come across your videos. I so appreciate you taking the time to give genuine information and to hold accountability. To be mature in your delivery!!! Thank you sooooo much!!!! 🌹🌷🌹🌷
Good video, but I truly wish that dating was not so difficult. I wish that people would just act like grown ups and treat people like they want to be treated. Tired of juvenile games. Lately, it feels like you have to take a college course to date. 🤦🏾♀️ Ridiculous
I agree with you Coach. I just met someone recently on a dating app and so far it's been great with the guy I met. We're moving at a pace that works for both of us and he's a talkative man and I'm a good listener. We've been open and honest with one another, so I'm loving the communication aspect right now. I just needed him to know how I was feeling about his communication with me at the beginning, so, if a person doesn't know how you like communicating, let them know early so adjustments can be made, respectfully of course. It can make all the difference. Thanks for all your great advice Coach 🙂!
This guy goes out of his way to come to my nurses station to flirt with me and compliment me, even saying I smell good. But when I ask him out or even try to go to lunch together at the cafeteria, he claims "semen retention" , no women right now, he needs to stay on his purpose 🙄 . How do I get him to see that that's just a fad and he needs to drop that SR nonsense before he misses a good thing? (He's a really great guy, very smart, gonna be a doctor some day). Please note, I'm not trying to sleep with him, just wanna start dating him.
Girl Thank You, its been so long since i left this comment that i completely forgot about it. And clearly Coach Paul had better things to do then help little ol' me 😉. Thanks again Lisha, I appreciate it!! 😊@@LishaArlene
Thank you brother! Took me forever trapped in a narcissistic relationship. Freedom feels so good my peace, joy & self worth. I cut the entire family off to break free. Definitely wanted to run back to him, hormones raging, emotions cloudy, memories hunting me, connection sicking, but I stayed the course though (((GOD YAHWEH))) is my strength. I prayed GOD just free me from him... I been free for 20 years and now I can pick-up or alert/ aware to narcissistic tendencies or traits. Not just in dating, but family members and friends and I know how to deal with their manipulation and persuasiveness. Keep teaching brother Thank you💪🏾👊🏿✊🏿
Thank you Coach P for this wonderful advice...if I hurt a little in the beginning, i summize it's better than hurting a lot in the end, knowing that walking away gives me mental clarity while he or I continue on our growth journey.
Being a little flirty, use banter, engaging conversation but also not being too available. Make him have to pursue a little. Stay focused on your other goals. Don't be so accessible, always leave him wanting more. You're not playing hard to get but letting him know you have other things going on in your world besides him. That will keep him curious and desiring more.
"Maybe we'll reconnect when you're in a better position or a better place." Coach Paul I love that line. Ive been looking for a good cut off line to use over the phone or by text and that's just about perfect. Its HOPEFUL yet FINAL at the same time. Ill definitely be using that one 👍
If you haven't figured it out by now, any man speaking against other men is the ops. It is actually insulting to your intelligence. They tell you bullshit knowing they can game you up real quick. The real question is, are you a wife for the husband you're looking for? These so called gurus don't talk about that. No man is looking for a selfish, spoiled brat. Go get a sugar daddy. It makes more sense than listening to this bozo!
I enjoy your platform because it appears you have females in your family you care about to share hope for us ladies who are serious about dating for a purpose
Thanks Coah Paul! This is very valuable advice. I ended a relationship a few months ago with a man who was on his grind. I felt the best thing to do was walk away and let him do him.
Hey bro frist time watching guy interesting in me i donate plasma every now then assistant manager never ask me out what do you think i will not chase him let me know in comment section thanks for sharing blessings
This is if the guy is a typical Chad or Tyrone type of guy... Not every dude is like this. Although many men need to stop deluding themselves into thinking they're going to change a woman's stance on this issue as well.
What needs to happen for marriages to work is men especially black men need to heal and step up as leaders of family and of community. Marriages are failing by and large because women are left to bear much of the emotional labor and now financial labor. This is simply not sustainable
Thats actually great advice.....To me settling is a mindset and if you truly feel like you're settling, then you're not gonna be truly invested or give your all.....And that will be something that you will know and your partner will know also.... Never settle but understand not settling doesn't mean it will end well....but thats life
