Long -Term- Relationship is dead globally all due to smartphones. No one meets women anymore face to face like before smartphones came out. Cold approach is dead too. Today women don't even look or smile anymore on their cell phones 24/7 on dating apps for hookups. No wonder why men have given up!
God told me get off Facebook. Like for real. I feel alone there regardless. I started my fast today and I keep hearing 60 days. I want to get my priorities straight. Focus on my kids and myself. I’m a single mom in my middle 30s and I’m turning angry over the fact that I’m just never fitting in when God wants me to know I do matter. I am important. I’m on a Daniel fast now
Thank you for breaking the silence! I've been seeing my time slip through my fingers for years due to social media sknce the covid pandemic. I'm current studying law and I'm planning on deleting social media so i can get the best social experience from uni and also to improve my performances. Also it made my mental health and relationship with God weaker and i need to strengthen them up.
I felt the Lord me to draw close to him. I tried several times deleting my apps only to return back to them shortly tonight I deleted them all again and I’m hoping to never return to it. I was on every platform addicted to Facebook Instagram TikTok Lemon8 Snapchat Threads 😅
I have been 4 + years off social media and I find out, who I thought were my friends are not truly my friends, I lost everyone but I dont have fake friends now. I maybe alone but there's no drama, nothing but positivity and light and I live with intention now and each day. It's taught me so much about myself over the years. I needed to be my own best friend 1st and I wished I learned this earlier in life. ✌️ 💛 🇨🇦🤌
You know, I deleted Facebook and Instagram a few months ago maybe almost a year ago. My two top reasons 1. So many sad stories that from having previous rough years of losing 3 important people in my life to death in 3 years in a row it just brought me back to those tough times. Made me think about who will be next when it’s someone who is even closer to me etc blah blah just sad to see so many people suffer. 2. Seeing how insta models are everywhere on there and it made me feel sad that I was not there and was struggling with weight and instead of feeling encouraged I just felt so discouraged and far away from being healthy or thin. After I stopped that I was able to focus more on myself and not think of so many sad things all the time. I don’t know, I want to have it again but mentally it was TOUGH idk I didn’t like having the pressure of posting stuff or seeing what other people are doing like I didn’t really care or cared for anyone to know what I did on the weekend etc.
Social media causes a lottttt of mental health drainage. People on social media have lost their humanity, speak rubbish things , a lot of racism (about gender, religion & races) , it totally drains our mental health, it just makes our mind to scroll over more and more. I even realised that I lost my ability of concentration and patience, I used to compare to each and every individual and most importantly I lost my ability to manage time!!!
I know this is an older video but if you want a place to express yourself, you can get a journal. You can write in it, draw, anything you want. And it doesn't need to be charged either. Take Care friend. God bless you. 💜🙏
i use to be addicted to instagram and snapchat but as i got older and started to reliaze that social media s nothing but highlight reels and no one really cares or you see people not suppoerting you and all kinds of things that just mess up your mental helath. i get on instagram for like 30 minutes and get off. im mostly on youtube and sum what tiktok but illl never stay on social media all day like that. its not healthy at all!!!!!!
I LOVE that you said God called you to get off social media. I felt the same. I’ve been a week without Instagram and it’s great. Instagram isn’t even that great and is just constant comparison. I’ve used this time to focus on school and grow closer to God and I feel like I can finally hear him better now. I use that extra hour to talk to him and read the word and pray in the morning and at night rather than scroll. I was having trouble putting my phone down when going to bed because of Instagram and tiktok. I feel like I’m breaking my addiction
One thing that hit my mind with the fact that this is first video i see of Sage and she mention that she is a model and i thought how many people around the world have same big goals and same situation like earning a living and socialising but each one have their own attitude towards them.
thanks for sharing such kind caring words of wisdom and encouragement here sister in Yeshua Jesus Christ.u look amazing by the way very beautiful woman with all due respect here.& must ask how do u do a 21 day daniel fast im new at all this fasting stuff.God bless you shine his face upon you im a subscriber here now shalom :)& im getting much closer then i was on deleting my facebook etc not a easy thing to do though
I just deleted all my socials and didn't tell anyone. It's so peaceful. I did it because 1. To become closer to God. 2. To actually live in the moment & not live for social media.
I am psychologist and I can no longer use social media... And plus if you love a abundant life In real life people on social media not going to show you love .. 😭😭 since I deleted social media I bought a house and got married and started a small business....
I feel like this is Gods calling for me and I unconsciously just deactivated my instagram because I feel the same. I have 77k followers and I felt the obligation of posting. I am on a new journey of building and strengthening my relationship with God. Thank you for this♥️
You’re definitely not the only one. This video was made a year ago & I just seen it today, and I resigned with what you’re saying so deeply. God bless u
I go back and forth like a drug addict. I just deleted IG and Threads today, because I’m banned from talking on both 🙃 I just got back on social media last Friday after being off for a month. Every time I get reported for what? Idk. I just delete the apps and go on about my life.
such a vulneral talk, thank you for sharing. i just delete my account too. i see how much i was holding onto a persona that ive created to be validated by others. i dont need that validation, we dont need that validation. sending love for everyone!
It’s been 22 months since I left social media. I have no regrets at all. I got sick of people gossiping, drama, negativity & people faking their lives & friendships and sharing everything that should be private or craving attention with provocative pictures & selfies. A number of things I realised: 1. People who added me as “Friends” didn’t really care about me. They were “So called Friends” 2. When I was going through my hardest times, including anxiety, upset, trauma and stress, Nobody was REALLY there for me or reached out to me. 3. Certain posts or videos get blown out of proportion or completely taken out of context even if it’s nothing negative. 4. People lie about the amount of friends they REALLY have. Who in the REAL world has 100s or 1000s of friends WHO?? 5. Communication is very one sided. The same person had to make the first move to start a conversation as the other person doesn’t make an effort themselves or just can’t be bothered. 6. People lie about their lives, they only show the positive side of theirs lives which doesn’t show the real truth about the person. You can’t tell and don’t see if someone is REALLY depressed, upset, isolated, lonely, feeling suicidal or what’s actually going on in their actual lives. Even if people post how they really feel, people don’t always care. 7. It makes people fake and insecure. It’s not just school kids or teenagers in college or university, but adults as well are being fake & insecure. 8. People compare themselves to others just to get more “likes” & comments. 9. Social media has increased loneliness, isolation. Anxiety and depression which can be severe. 10. Due to social media and the increase in technology, it’s causing destruction & destroying peoples lives in the sense of their is no sense of unity, community, love and nobody wants to help each other. If they see someone doing something constructive and productive and they’re doing well, people will laugh at them in an act of ignorance, and cannot wait for them to fall down. 11. Having a proper conversation or being real is considered not normal and people think it’s creepy. People don’t like having real conversations 12. It’s made people to be narcissists, self entitlement, ignorant, prejudice and bullies. 13. People can say things or make comments that are abusive, racist, sexist, ignorant, prejudice, misogynist, homophobia, xenophobia, discrimination openly online, rather than to your face. 14. I have seen Boys & Girls take provocative, selfies / pictures to get attention from so called friends / strangers, sometimes in a negative way, for example, woman having their chests hanging out, body image, men & women showing off muscles, six pack & more. 15. With social media & the young generation with regards to friendships, people feel that if they add someone as friend request and they accept it, they automatically think that’s “friends for life” people need to realise that’s not how friendship really works. 16. People will not hang around with other people WHO DON’T have social media. They look at those people as boring, lame and not cool. I never had TikTok, Twitter or Instagram. Glad I didn’t sign up to any of them. Facebook was the only social media platform I had and it was recommended to me back when I was in my 20s. I only use RU-vid as I can look at interesting things like cooking recipes and motivation videos and music videos of festivals & concerts and more fun stuff. I enjoy going out in nature, going for walks, bowling listening to music and learning new hobbies and watching movies. Since leaving it’s been the best decision of my life. I enjoy life more, I can now enjoy doing the things I do or want to try without being judged or told what to do without being made to feel guilty. I feel more happier and a massive weight has been lifted off my shoulders. I think if social media disappeared forever, I can guarantee people will spend REAL quality time with friends and family. People will know who their REAL friends are and that they will do things together and have a good time doing it. I also feel that people will have proper conversations and listen and engage.
You got that right and also used to be in that life but really wasn't all that plus had technical problems with the site that got out of hand hopefully I didn't reveal too much especially about things that I shouldn't deal with considering now with Cancel Culture and Karens out there along with the PC and SJW crowds out there which if your targeted by these types social media like FB and Instagram is definitely not the places to be let alone post things on.
great answer truly well said brother i still have my facebook & few other apps but may delete here soon whatever Yahweh God shows me to do & pursue i will surely do.God bless you this is very inspiring all u mentioned here
@@bobbyleck9196 Also can say great answer and speaking about this topic may want to look into other videos about either Stealth Wealth, Stoics and videos titled People Not To Trust.
