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If a kid is still learning and is too young to understand, there's that. Sadly, that's not always the case. It's different when a kid is doing something that they absolutely know is wrong.
I've been seeing ur RU-vid channel recently. I'm 20 yrs old in college who honestly has a long time before I would be having children. But recently the thought of marriage and children has been bothering me. I feel like I may be never be able to raise children, but I also feel like I would regret not having kids in the future. I loved your techniques. You make it seem that it can be possible. My parents are loving but yelled and sometimes hit me as a kid. I'm honestly terrified of dealing with toddler tantrums because of this reason and because it's such a shaky area to touch upon in a child's mental development, if we are not careful it can cause irreparable damage. But your techniques and the way you teach him things has made me realise that maybe it's not impossible afterall and I could probably consider children in the future. I love how you teach him to do tasks and how you and your husband establish boundaries and teach your toddler manners without hurting him in any way. I do have loads of professional aspirations for myself but you made me realise that children can be a boon and not a bane. Thank you so much for giving me such an unique perspective and I hope ur children grow up happy, smart, disciplined and healthy ❤
Hard way of disciplining is the second step if the first step does not work. They are kids, they won't understand the seriousness with which u tell. Why are u afraid of fear based discipline. Even law in the society for adults is a fear based discipline.
Okay serious question from a first time mom who is raising an only child. When doing this, where is the line between permissive parenting and gentle parenting? This is how I handle his melt downs but I feel like maybe I’m doing the wrong thing? Like is this not teaching them it’s okay to throw tantrums or will they learn that’s it’s okay to have big feelings and then to redirect? Please I’m desperate to know
I put mine in time out {even though I have 5} I like to say the better the mother the better the child. For all the parents out there what your kids see you do and say matters a lot. They think that if you do it it’s ok. So all I ask is try to be nice to your kids and show them respectful behavior in front of them so they don’t do anything bad. How do you guys like inside out 2! ❤🎉
I only see these videos with toddlers and infants. when these kids get older, this stuff doesn't work as well when they know that nothing is going to happen.
Wait until your child gets older. You’re going to get very tired of that. You’ll want a sure reliable way to make sure you’re getting through to him every time, especially when you have her children and other things to do when life picks back up again after the toddler stage. The Bible is very clear on what works.
Well I don’t think you should record him having a tantrum that’s just not okay, but other than that I agree. My parents say that the kids need to have a punishment that they fear, but that is completely wrong. You should be teaching your kids to do the right thing because it’s right, not because they will be punished for not doing the right thing. That’s screwing up their concept of morals.
I think the problem with a lot of parents is they keep it for convenience for their child and themselves there’s no reason a child over to should still have one in my opinion
Thanks this really helps. I want to have a baby but I love my new FT job I worked so hard for that included moving myself and husband away from his more lucrative job that he hated.
I love this! A parent teaching table etiquette. I agree. And it teaches love of self and the environment. We live in such a disposable society including relationships. Well done mom!
Yeah there's only 1 big con to this. When your child hits the age to go to school, when go ahead and do something wrong the teacher will not do that positive stuff. They will either warn them, put them in time out, give them detention or something along the lines etc. Which will lead to mix messages to your child and cause confusion, discomfort and maybe some feeling of being scared. No, I am not trying to tell you how to raise your child. I am simply making sure you are aware of the negative behind the positive stuff.
Sometimes positive discipline is a swift pop in the mouth for calling Mama a b word. At least that's how they used to say when I was little, wonder if that means the old ways are not the best ways😅
Also heavy ceramic plate is harder to move by accident and throw it onto the ground with just a sweep of a tiny arm while plastic is light enough to go flying
Lol I’m an early childhood teacher and to be honest the kids with parents like this are usually a lot more empathetic and chill. It’s the kids who get beat at home that end up acting like criminals, bullying those smaller than them, destroying property, etc. Not blaming the child but this is the reality.
My son started sleeping 8 hours through the night when he was 3 and a half months old, 8pm-4:30/5am usually 5am!His pediatrician was a bit shocked.. fast forwarded he's almost 7 months on the 6th and he still sleeps 8 hours!
I always give my kids real plates, cups and cutlery. The plastic is a nightmare to clean and stains if using anything with tomato sauce like spaghetti bolognese etc. Also the kids cutlery is actually harder to use than normal cutlery
@@LaylalovesUnicorns-rp9ie none of that behavior is ok, kids don’t know what’s right or wrong, or acceptable and unacceptable behavior. It’s up to the parents to teach them
Danm, my mother used to fucking pop them and I didn't like it, one day she put them in the trash 😂 I was fucking mad dude that I threw the tv remote down the balcony
