I’ve never slept with a friend and I beg to differ that monogamy isn’t normal. It may not be right for all couples but it is for others and unfair to make a blanket statement.
Oh look, more stereotyping. No, we don't all sleep with our friends. Some of us have appropriate boundaries. and I'm in a 35 year monogamous relationship...demonizing our relationship is absurd.
I also mostly listen to porn w. the sound muted. (Though I like it when they're speaking Spanish lol) Monogamy worked for me & my ex-boyfriend. But generally speaking, I don't think there's a "normal." It's simply what feels right for you. I don't get sleeping w. friends - unless you're using the term "friend" to mean "friend with benefits," as opposed to an actual real friend.
Have more sex. Open your hearts and enjoy yourselves and those around you. Personally, I am speaking from a place that is at least 25 years more experience than the men on this panel. The straights have to deal with the female factor and have a whole other list of issues that get in the way of having more sex and enjoying themselves.
A lot of people don't want a load a meaningless s*x with different people all the time, even many men..In fact males are more biologically wired to invest more into thing they have to work for We see courting behaviour in many different species...S*x can be much more fulfilling with someone you have strong feelings, emotional bond and know exactly what each other like...In my opinion the evidence supports us being a monogamous pair-bonding species. Looking at our species and what they naturally do generally is form relationships.Just because gays aren't attracted to females( which is not conducive for reproduction) they still have the basic biological feelings ands needs that most men and women have. They feel romantic love, they feel jealousy and attachments..they can bond(if they developed the capacity and aren't a pathological narcissist or psychopath).. Their brains just developed in a different direction(or pathway) that resulted in them being same-sex attracted. In-fact gays are more diverse in some ways because their brains are a patchwork of different gendered traits, some male-typical and other female-typical.
New sub. Thanks for this. Bright Light Bright Light! Sounds like he is in a good head space. Chemistry with all three of you comes off naturally and relaxed. More of this please, keep up the good work.
With a few little jumps i got to about the 11 min mark. Conceptually, this discussion is an interesting idea, and it actually is in parts, but probably not for the reasons either of the discussants thinks. I think it actually conveys something very unfortunate, sad even, about current state of affairs (if this reflects at all). One fellow is particularly not grounded in any reality but has no apparent consciousness of that, such that the whole conversation lacks substance. This is why, for me, i think there is a sadness to this exchange, if not to those having it. Perhaps ive missed the point and this is a form of confected comedy, a skit basically, but if not i really genuinely hope these guys (one in particular) can grow a bit and get a better sense of who, what, and why they are.
Im a lesbian and dont hate jk. I have never heard a negative thing about gays from trump either. As far as him being against the trans medical industry taking advantage of children, i am passionately with him on that, in part because it affects so many young gay people.
I find James unbearable, the fact he believes he's representative of the majority gay is misguided at best. None of the gay men in my life align with his woke views.
Stumbled on this channel. I wouldn’t know a pop star, much less a failed pop star if I fell over them in the street. Example: 9 or 19 years ago, I visited a perfectly lovely local Mexican restaurant to see if it was ADA compliant as I was scouting out dinner options for a party of 5, two of whom are in wheel chairs. Before I left, I let the restaurant know it would be satisfactory. They responded, “Be sure you arrive early, because it’s Ariana Grande night.” Not joking, I said, “Oh, I’ve never had that. Is it a very popular menu item? Except for the sound of upholstery and the blinking eyes of the hostess, the place was suddenly silent. I did NOT have to surrender my 🏳️🌈 membership, but, I did learn about the remarkably talented Ariana Grande. Don’t ask me to ID her from her music, though. Point is: You’re perpetuating stereotypes. Or, I’m just queer, but, I’m not gay? 🤷🏼♂️😂
I didn’t watch your video because I don’t like how you spoke for every single gay person on this planet on the headline. I get that this is your show, your podcast; But in the real world, you are not a main character (neither am I). I think if you actually asked each gay person what their opinions on J. K. Rowling are; you’d be shocked to find that the majority of us have nothing against her. Her comments were on sexual identity, which is not the same thing as sexual orientation.
@@maxgain4611 No I meant sexual. It is gender when you want to wear makeup or a dress. It gets sexual when you attempt to alter your biology. Just my view.
@@JPabloRL 1) Sexual identity refers to a person's sexual orientation or attraction to others based on their gender, such as heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, or asexual. 2) Gender identity is a person's internal sense of their gender, regardless of their assigned sex at birth, which may align with traditional binary categories (male or female) or exist outside of them (non-binary, genderfluid, etc.). If he cannot speak for all gay men, you cannot speak for most of them too, especially if you are undeniably confused about the matter and subject.
@@andreabeep Darling, put the straw down and focus. I never said I spoke for any one but me. Also, we live in a world with Google, don’t need you teaching sociology courses (I have a degree, thanks). Like the hosts, you ain’t a main character.
Yes you absolutely tell your friend. Save her from what could possibly be a life time of being married to a closeted cheater. Where is the respect for the woman
This is really bad.. Who gave the gay guy the talking stick? He doesn't speak on my behalf.. I like JK Rowling too and agree with her.. an no.. women should not be added to the gay flag. It's enough we've aded the Q+
@@calumlambert Trans-women are not biological Women and will never be. They should be treated as Trans-Women not as Women. They shouldn't be allowed in Women only spaces and to participate in Women's sports. Also, all this non-binary, pronoun ideology is fiction and needs to stop.
The MOST difficult & time consuming thing affecting gay life is nature itself... the way the body expells solid waste. No matter how they sugar coat it, It's interrupted many romantic moments. ❤️🙏
Who is cancelling Pride month? Most people I hear are merely criticizing the events and representations of lgbt during pride parades. But if we are to discuss cancellation of Pride mouth then sure Pride month should be canceled as it doesn’t represent the entirety of the lgbt community and that Some critique the commercialization of Pride events and merchandise, arguing that it detracts from the original intent of the movement. 🙃
we should cancel pride month for sure and GO BACK to the real activism that occured back in the day. It should be LGB+ awareness or history month. Pride is egotistical, doesnt serve humanitys development and is far from activism. x
You’re so wonderful Nemo ! Your Charm is very magnetic! You’re incredible! I was able to watch you LIVE! I“m loving you more and more! ❤ You deserved the Win ! Congratulations!
JAMES BARR I came to respectfully ask for a public discussion and debate on a collection of subjects. Don't know much about you but I genuinely believe you are Narcissisistic arrogant and a danger to society. Id like to give you the chance to prove me wrong!
I'm literally just here to say that your Podcast advert is the most IRRITATING thing I have to listen to on a daily basis when listening to Podcasts. Not only is it actually just an advert for your sponsor, but it's a load of drivel about "I can be more of an individual because this corporate entity gives me pre-written prompts". Absolute bollocks.
Nemo, I love you, but that bit about “fixing” Eurovision, without mentioning Israel’s massacre of Palestinians in Gaza, didn’t wash. Israel should not have been allowed to take part.
Omg about the stage beeing the Swizz flag, when i watched the semi finals and the final i always told my dad ”oh i think Switzerland is going to win cuz of the stage“ and he did not BELIVE me but here we Are with Nemo winning for Switzerland!
Is there a reason we have to reveal our sexuality in Eurovision before we compete instead of after the finals voting ? So to focus in only the songs - not votings cause of blocks , politics or sexualities that’s my point
this is a really stupid on so many levels. Allow me to focus on only two here: a) of course, no one has to reveal their sexuality. What makes you even say that? Who did reveal their sexual identity? And what difference does it make anyway? The point is that everyone ought to be able to be themselves, love who they love and it is no one else’s business, yet, if they or anyone wants to address inclusion of all sexualities in society and to open others up to love and not hate, power to them! b) you confuse sexuality and identity! One‘s gender identification (or lack thereof) does to say ANYTHING about ones sexual preference! You do not know anything about Nemo‘s sexuality simply because they feel neither like a man nor a woman… These are two entirely separate things! On top of that, I feel that Nemo won because it was an outstanding song, an outstanding performance, AND they are an outstanding person with an outstanding voice and range. Even, if you only heard the song on the radio, not knowing anything about Nemo, their looks, dress, or staging during the performance AND did not understand the words, you would know this was a winner!
@@Attirbful I don’t recall calling you stupid or sth or get that much anger towards you buddy - and yeah sometimes it does make a change - I meant it like when you call someone for dinner and ask him how is your food taste to them - would you reveal them eg that was made by your sister or maybe that your dad copied the whole dish etc before ehe judges ? Or you would let him try and judge it without affecting his opinion and then do revelations ? That’s my point - if the song is good enough why we need to make so many revelations - I never said that I have something against the community or that I’m not a member / I only said it’s not cool to affect the score system cause of that - and if many other issues cause it’s not just lgbdq that made almost every years winner since 2014 way predictable and boring
@@mitropoulosgeorge I did not call you stupid, I said your comment was - and it still is. Your reply confirms your position, which appears to prefer to negate realities in life and to forbid others to take a stand for who they are.
@@Attirbful bro I’m l a lgbt myself - most probably bi - that’s doesn’t mean I think it’s fair to use that to win competitions etc - and didn’t say lgbt should compete either - just don’t see it as a competition - lgbt agains straight - they shouldn’t be that show off to prove which is better , that’s not ok
@@mitropoulosgeorge as said, I think the song would have won had one known nothing about who sung it or how they identify. It is you who makes a fuss about gender and sexuality. All over Europe, people apparently thought the song was cool and its message is what needs to be heard. I much prefer this to soulless and vapuous songs about girl meets boy that we have billions of already - or yet another general pop song that we can listen to any time when turning on mainstream radio…!
I dunno if this can be traced throughout historyor anything lol but I grew up in a culture very much like that and went to a girls school and it was also like that…until parents realised lesbians existed and then it became an incredibly homophobic environment :(. There definitely is this idea that 2 women together means nothing is happening between them lol
