I'm Lubna, a 17-year-old sharing accurate Islamic content with a touch of psychology. So get your cup of tea, maybe a snack, and join me for insightful discussions about Islam and personal growth.
This was an amazing video. I was thinking whether to take a girl to prom or not but deep down in my heart i knew this is haram. So your video helped me avoiding a sin that will just lead to broken heart and nothing more. May Allah bless each one of us.
ياريت لو تعملي مقطع عن الرفقة مع الجنس الاخر بالمدارس والجامعات وطريقة التعامل بينهم وحدودها وانه مافي شي اسمه رفيق ورفيقة مدرسة او جامعة وتخطي الحدود والمزح بينهم
Exactlty, islam don't recommend to go on date. Instead ask for her guardian and talk to her in her home in the presence of her parents. Don't go out for date its still a date.
Good is what is deemed good by the Sharia, and bad is what is deemed bad by the Sharia. The two parties are allowed to get to know each other in public after the engagement ofc.
I just wanted to take a moment to express my deep admiration for the work you’re doing on your RU-vid channel. Your content is both enlightening and inspiring, and I appreciate the way you present important Islamic topics with such clarity and wisdom. What I find particularly admirable is your commitment to preserving Islamic values, especially wearing the hijab with pride and grace. It’s truly refreshing to see someone sharing knowledge with sincerity and purpose. Keep up the great work, your efforts are making a real impact, and I look forward to watching more of your videos.❤
Does having crush on someone means that iam waisting my feelings? and from your personal perspective ,do you have crush on someone or u rather save all your feelings for the right person when he comes at the right time.
Wallahi sister as a girl myself , I think you’re absolutely gorgeous, inside and outside Allahumabarik. And your advice is good and real , I definitely agree with you, I hope Allah sends us our naseeb and let us get into a halal barakah relationship soon Amen. Like my comments and I will reply if I’m married yet, im 20 years old now.
ابغى أكون ملتزمة في غض البصر وما أطالع أولاد عشان اضمن ما اطيح في اي معاصي لكن الڤى صعوبات في بعض الأوقات ،ابغى نصاءح منك لأني أحسك من نوعية البنات الي ما يطالعون شباب وملتزمين فأتمنى تفيديني💕
“How can you really get to know someone without dating before a proper halal marriage?” Real answer: you can’t. This video does a decent job at explaining this. Make du’a for a righteous spouse. Think about the questions that you can at least use to filter things, things that people wouldn’t really lie about, things that dictate people’s preferences. Engage in sincere istikhara. Involve family members of the opposite gender. ESPECIALLY for women, involve your male family members if you can!! Men know men, they can vet another man very well in a reasonable manner. May Allah SWT make it easy for all.
"i want you to see him as a person who's sick" It never crossed my mind to look at it this way, I GUESS YOU CAN REALLY LEARN FROM SOMEONE YOUNGER THAN YOU. Thank you very mush indeed, THANK YOU.
Nice video. You have clearly pointed out that this shortened life doesn't deserve useless relationships, especially if it's against Islam. The understanding and the true belief of hearafter can create an islamic doctrine in our hearts so we can know exactly what's good and evil, and also to focus on having good deeds.. may Allah bless you, sis.. i like to see more of you
if someone stays away from haram relationships Allah will give helal and a beautiful relationship, just need sabr and dua. (I promise u are not gonna regret it.)
thank you a lot, i cant describe how i was struggling in this topic, to find a meaningful explanation,and Subhan Allah this video camed to my recommendations at the same day i was struggling the most about this topic, i felt its not easy for me to ask my parents about it because i would feel embarrassed, and alhamdulillah who showed me this video, i really can not explain how you helped me, thanks
What if im afraid to hurt the guy's feelings its really bothering me cuz i really want to get rid of this haram dating but at the same time i could imagine how much im going to hurt him pls can u answer me
If you truly love and care about him, you would want the best for him in the afterlife. A bit of a heartbreak now is better than a punishment later on. Doing the right thing isn't the easiest, but it's all worth it at the end. Any sin you leave for the sake of allah is the right thing.من ترك شيئا لله تعالى وآثر ما ندب إليه وحض عليه عوضه الله خيراً منه
I think the family point is a huge one knowing that if you trust your family and let them help you, its almost like Allah found a way through them. Family SHOULD be the place where you have a sense of comfort and openness and something like your first relationship is not hidden.
It’s hard for muslims in the west to find someone to marry. After sometime they get desperate and resort to apps and non-halal forms of dating. Marriage is declining globally unfortunately. Fitnah. Good video
موضوع مهم ، خصوصا ما يحدث الان من ، feminism * redpill , لتدمير مشروع الزواج ، وجعل الجنسين في صراع..انا اؤمن ان الزواج رزق من الله فلا داعي للقلق كثيرا ..
Can u tell me please what a girl should look for in a boy like a good decision?and if your liking someone or having someone in your head u wanna marry what were like things that u liked and decided for it that u wanna marry this person??