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one of the several first vids i watched on narcissism, someone stated that we are all narcissistic by nature, some more, some less. i choose to be on the less side, actually the less the better. I feel no need to become a lessor person, due to a lessor persons actions. exclude toxic person from your life, and continue being you.
@@lilfairycupcake Yes we all have some traits by nature. I actually wrote about that as I started to place my own needs first. The difference being I don’t manipulate, gaslight and tell lies. 💙
its something you mention leadership. narcissism has become a normal part of every day society. the bit ch of it is its totally accepted, encouraged, and embraced, as normal. what better way to destroy everything? family's, poof! self respect, poof! respecting others, poof! integrity of any kind, poof! all we need now is me, and money. people have become so mistrusting of one another that animals have become replacements for people, also totally encouraged, and accepted as normal. this is what we have stooped to, and to stupid to realize it.
I always found setting firm boundaries, and telling them to f off and not associating with them anymore when they break those boundaries, works wonders. If you want to drive them nuts, ignore them. They aren’t worth your time, and you cannot fix them. They refuse to acknowledge there is anything to fix.
I'm so scared of the manipulative traits becoming a part of me. Please give us reassurance that this can be taken care of and avoided 🥹 I'm still in therapy and I've been thinking about the idea of this video a lot. I just haven't come across many discussions about it. Most of the trending videos are either victim or abuser focused. The path forward for either needs to be discussed more I think. Both are still alive. Both need to move on healthier if they've already been on the healing path. Right?
It’s about discerning the healthy traits as opposed to the toxic traits. We all have narcissistic traits in us, but doesn’t mean we have full blown NPD disorder. We have to learn to develop healthy boundaries and putting our needs first, and if they aren’t respected letting people go, but that’s not done in a manipulating way, it’s for wellbeing and sometimes survival. There are many articles on my website and it’s completely free to register at www.smileyblue.org/
In the words of Apostle Paul, “No! May it never be” Why would I show someone the same evil that an abusive person showed to me? I want nothing to do with that evil.
The message is to discern which traits are healthy and which traits are toxic. I have just written an article about it on my website. Sometimes for our safety and well-being it is necessary to dissolve relationships, its important to develop self love and worth for ourselves, and prioritise our own needs over others.
I’m so glad to hear that, do visit our website as we post lots of articles about narcissistic abuse. One up today on this subject and it’s free to register with us. 💙www.smileyblue.org/
@@smileyblue1 It’s one of my very own 😃👍🏻… I’ve had the pleasure of collecting all the narc badges, so am well versed and have been an Intuitive coach for a while now… it’s all part of life’s tapestry… It’s not rare, but of course there’s different strengths of narc… but most families have one or more, it’s what leads us to have relationships with them it’s an opportunity of spiritual growth…. Very painful but worth it!
@@smileyblue1 “No shit, no roses”… suffering IS the teacher, but yes especially if it becomes violent it is brutal and dangerous… life can be so very cruel, but i try to stay in the positive lane 👍🏻✨
You are so beautiful and full of wisdom I had to learn all this the hard way ..didn’t know anything about narcissists ..my dad was one and than I married one 😔 but healing up slowly now ..are u on Instagram..sending u blessings ☀️
I learned the hard way too, slow learner! I am on Instagram @smileyblue1. If you like our work it’s free to register with us at www.smileyblue.org. I look forward to welcoming you.
@@smileyblue1 I just noticed your replies aren’t being seen either (just like mine)…. I haven’t a clue why pressing on a message you want to reply to doesn’t tag their account (it just tags your own account which never gets seen by the messenger 🤷🏼♂️ haha🤣 did any of that make sense!?🤣🤣
Truth! My female friends especially one; has gotten so snarky and critical since my friend’s cousin became obsessed with me. I know she’s jealous and I offered to introduce him to her before he got a crush on me but she said no.
*This woman is a gaslighting narcissist herself. She tortured people her whole youth and now ahes someone who pretends to be a survivor. Divine being lol. She deletes disagreement comments such is her bigotry. Aggressive unpredictable pretentious aggressively average plain jane.*
*No that's not true. You're your ACTIONS. Stop gaslighting your audience in the name of coaching. Scamshamcoaching gaslighter fake abuse survivor. Stop deleting comments and i am taking screenshots. If you delete my comments ill upload the deleted comments as screenshots on my page and tag you so learn to swallow critical evaluation.*
*That's actually incorrect. Those comments snidy or otherwise are meant to better you but you in your egotistical arrogance despise the advice. Advise a fool and fool will hate you fits on you .*
@@smileyblue1 *You didn't experience any abuse. Stop repeating soap opera comments. Every English girl is either abuse victim of survivor of some sort. Just stop it. End your cancerous mindset.*
@@smileyblue1 *you shouldn't be a coach. You're perverting the mindset of untrained individuals. Lillian women of western European NGOs go into other countries and pit genders at war in the name of protection against domestic abuse. You don't deserve to spread chaos anarchy entropy . You're doing SATAN'S WORK by destroying gender relations of other races .*
I disagree, those are the people that need someone like you in their life…just remember who Jesus spent time with. Somewhat difficult for the believer but totally beneficial to the unbeliever. Just something to think about
Ok I need some advice . I have memory fog ( for about a year now ) but , I’m pretty sure someone in my house is snooping in my things - stuff misplace or missing , and today he noticed that I knew something was missing in the house - he said yes I moved it and wanted to see if you would even notice , that and I feel like the insults have picked up more ….. the person I am referencing is I think a potential narcissist but I’m not sure of my own thoughts anymore
