So your mom passed and hou and your sister got money then your dad got remarried and now you got a step bro and he wants you to use your inheritance on his wedding knowing you got a baby on the way... Yeah screw them possibly in you had given him some but he waned the whole thing😅
So she was manipulated by her mother at 12. What she said wasn’t okay but also not her own words. Likely as an older teenager she’s realizing that it was wrong and you have decided to hold it against her. Unless the more to this says she’s showing up asking for money YTA
She is sick and you have to protect yourself and your kids. She can't help herself and she can get treat unless she let someone help her. it's a very hard spot for everyone.
Ok, in his defence, half of everything and be involved on his company without having to do shit for that company is bullshit. I get getting retribution as he fucked your relationship but thats too much
He is an AH and is just using the divorce as an excuse to not having to commit. If he loved the lady and their child money would not be an issue. As someone wrote you can always make a prenup. The wife got her heart and trust broken so good for her that she got money as a compensation. BUT money do not heal broken hearts or broken trust. The pregnant women is an AH. First steel someone’s husband and then demanding things from the women you wronged?!!
NTA, the ahole is the affair partner and the ex-husband. If you wanted a stable man and someone who takes responsibility don't cheat and don't date someone who cheats. That's baby's future is the adult partner's fault and responsibility
Divorce and take the children. You can start by making a case, collecting evidance and being able to take the girls then. People like that want to have help and its clear she's not at that point. Once someone reaches rock bottom they usually have no choice but to undig themselves. You gave her warnings, now act on on them or shes going to think you were just joking.
It's not about defending the cheater. It's about if there is just cause for her to take his money. Given that she apparently is well enough off without his money it doesn't make sense that she would be entitled to it. As far as I can tell it does not sound like she gave up years of her life to build his business, raise him a family, or make him a home. The basis for taking his wealth needs to be more then "he's a jerk".
Splitting assets happens regardless of the genders. My friend makes 5× more than her ex husband and ended up losing an arm and a leg in the divorce. Your victim complex isn't based in reality.
Its a bad habit which is hard to let go of. My mom for example started smoking when my little brother was old enough to stop drinking breast milk, now my brother is 15. My mom has tried to stop 8 times. It was hard, it took a long, long while but she's been smoke free for already 4 weeks. It takes time to let go of bad habits, all of us have them, maybe not smoking or drinking but there are multiple forms of bad habits.
@@sofiahurtig8903 I know and I understand him, he could vape instead of smoking a cigarette and he tried many times to stop but didn't. I know it's hard but I can't keep on being intoxicated with his smoke
@@Its_Lxmbo you wouldn't have been intoxicated if you'd just stay further away when he smoked. When someone falls to being an alcoholic or smoking, all they need is someone to turn to if they are willing to better their ways.
@@sofiahurtig8903 he literally let out all the smoke on me even when I kept telling him that I didn't want to. Plus, I did try many times to help him since I wanted him to be healthy but he kept ignoring me and actually made no effort at all
If its an overbite, and especially if its 5mm or over, then it is medical and not cosmetic, so you tell the kid they have to have it, cause it will improve their life and prevent injury to their soft palate. I had a 5mm overbite and I was biting into the roof of my mouth and made an indent. Luckily I got NHS braces.
Idk why so many people are against the daughter in the comments. She’s a slt because she slept with her bf? And what the guy is a “chad” for getting laid? A real man would own up to it, he doesn’t have to get with the gf (that would only make the child more miserable) but he does have to pay child support. Could’ve save himself the money if he bought some freaking condoms instead (yes even then they can break, but unless he a r3tard, he knew the risks).
NTA but you should also threaten the aunt for defamation lawsuit as well throw in a restraining order at them to really make sure they don’t cross the line. So what if he’s not showing it , doesn’t mean he’s not in pain he’s keeping his head up for his kids . Imagine if his wife didn’t pass away & seeing how her family members are trying her husband she would be cutting ties .
The fuck? The system can absolutely force her boyfriend to give child support and should if that baby is born. He consented to sex which means he knew the ramifications just as well as she did. I swear some of these mothers are fucking ridiculous. You can tell her that she has no right to do this without lying to her. Stop making it so easy for these men to do whatever they want and then walk away from consequences!
Woah woah. Nowhere in the video did the parents say he cant be forced to pay child support. They said he cant be forced to step up, as in actually being in the kids life.
the "father" is probably 14 or 15 himself.... Stupid kids making stupid decisions. You expect the "father" to support a kid on fast food paychecks? This is why planned parenthood used to exist... to help girls who fucked up. Thankfully, the orange con man fucked up the system, took rights away from girls, and 16 years from now, you're going to see a CRAZY amount of severely fucked up kids, raised by severely fucked up kids. Just imagine if he were to win 2024.... he would probably get to appoint 2 more ultra-conservative judges, and you think it's bad now.. just wait. Vote blue, or our democracy dies.... I remember that a conservative bible thumper said "I just don't know what will happen if Biden wins... I fear the world might end." Or, ya know... we could have the most booming economy with the poor people footing the bill for all the tax cuts for people who don't need it.