This channel is devoted to narcissistic abuse awareness and recovery, parental alienation and Complex PTSD. Jill Wise, otherwise known at The Enlightened Target, is a lifelong survivor of narcissistic abuse. She was raised by a malignant narcissist and married to a malignant narcissist. She has lived through the extremes of parental alienation and understands the complexities of Complex PTSD .
Now that Jill has healed from the years of trauma from Narcissistic Abuse, and has rebuilt a wonderful relationship with her child, she uses what she has learned from her experience to spread awareness and help others who are dealing with these issues. She is a Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach, if you are interested in Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coaching please visit her website linked below or send her an email at theenlightenedtarget@gmail.com
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Tytyty so very much I wish you knew what it feels like to hear you explaining acts of cruelty our mothers have bestowed upon us all i literally feel reborn every time I hear you’re exclamation of those insidious acts ty
True! I've been walking with Christ a while. I am an overcoming covert narc by the grace of Jesus Christ. At around three or four years of age, my cousin sexually abused me by touching my private part with his hand. This caused me to go in shock and have a nervous breakdown. Seeing my family had an occultic background. Many demons entered from that abuse. As I grew into an adult. My mental state was still one of a small child. I would rage behind closed doors when my hubby did not read my mind. I married two narcs. I am not attracted to non-narc men. My exes were strong enough to deal with what I put on them because they had no empathy, and neither did I. In public, I put on an excellent performance of kindness. But, inside I was a beast and just mimicking good behaviors. Also, in public, I was very quiet because I was busy observing others' behaviors. . If one crossed me. I would quietly start attacking and trying to utterly destroy them, but in an unconventional manner. Now, I don't hate humans like I used to because of Jesus. One day at a time. Jesus Christ is Lord.
However Kids subjected to the reactive abuse they witnessed the “victim” engaged in due to the abuse of the narcissistic partner will think the victim is the problem. It’s a mindfuck
I sometimes wonder if my girlfriend is a narcissist or has narcissistic tendency. We argue alot. Maybe because I have stop bending forward and backwards for her all the time. Early in our relationship, I noticed when we ended up In arguments, and I pointed out her behaviour, because it hurted me. She always took it as I was bashing her. When we ended up in arguments, she always say. Why you always leads to arguments. When I finally snap at her because I couldn't take the constant drilling, patronising and blaming way, she became the victim. Often she said when I point out her behaviour. "You are the saint, I'm such a horrible person" "Now you got your revenge" Or "You won, are you happy now" I always found that puzzling, because previously relationship, I just wanted to solve our issues, so it benefited both of us. But my current girlfriend, it is very black and white, about winning or losing or about revenge, no grey zone areas
I've found I had to just grey rock and quit being a sucker. If they want to play petty games and act childish, I will too. Then I will grey rock. Especially after their smear campaign, sabotage, threats, and wanting to return all your gifts back. Or suddenly acting like they are done with you and its over.
Im 36 years old and i know that theirs more narc single mothers than dads in that babyboomer generation. Moms told a lot of our weak babyboomer dads what to do.
Maybe they saw the truth on there children!!! 😮 it happen to me!!! But i love them so much but i want them to grow up with out mommy rescue them!!! 😢 but they are between 20 to 36 so they are old ladies!!!
True. If you don’t read the narcissist s’ minds and don’t act like a doormat well enough, the whole hell is going to break loose, yeah hell is what living with narcissists is.
My narcissist parent had the nerve to get upset with me because she wanted me to buy a car with my hard earned taxes, and i said no. They also wanted me to use child support i was getting to pay for the car monthly. I didn't let that happen. Of course i was left paying their bills and still got upset at me for not having enough money. Im glad im not dealing with them anymore.
My wife to T. I married and loved a woman who already had a child put of wedlock, adopted her son of 10, who had no boundaries, and forgave her past with multiple men...had 3 children with her and a home, but she loved herself and fed her narrative to them, she suddenly left me and tore the family and home...she feels NOTHING while I'm devastated. I blame her family and church friends for standing by her lies and not confronting her. God will judge all who do injustice to others. Her famous sayings: " I did nothing wrong" " I'm being falsely accused" She couldn't be bothered about my feelings in any matter...nit even the children's...if hers is affected. Shameless as a whore.
My narcissistic daughter is going through this now. So paranoid her job had the police to escort her off a six figuer job. I feel she needs to be committed.
