“TWiSTED Parenting” is a method developed and implemented by Avi Fishoff to guide parents of children in crisis.
Avi personally trains and guides hundreds of families from all over the world. All parents are required to have their own Daas Torah fully involved to pasken any shailos that may arise. Avi has many hundreds of haskamos of leading Gedolim. All services are FREE of charge.
Disclaimer: Lessons should not be applied without proper ‘individual’ guidance for your specific situation from a leading expert in the field of crisis, in conjunction with the hashgachah of your personal Daas Torah.
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May I comment? Part of what brings him closer of just the fact that you are feeling a feeling about him, positive or negative, it's still an emotional connection
Not EVERYTHING. There are real parameters that can be determined by a true daas Torah who is also a gadol in these matters, not just pots and pans. These indeed are holy neshamas that have to be understood and put into proper perspectives to determine the halachos and approaches
Thank you Avi for everything you do! 😥 I wish my parents would listen to this 😓 To all of the parents who are doing this, I know it's hard and painful, but 'YOU CAN DO THIS 💪' (so is your child in a lot of pain 💔)
You are a liar a murder, you are the most disgusting and dishonest idiot I have aver see in my life, you are cruel and you are the opposite of humanity. idiot.
They say over when the Satmar Rebbe ZTL first became Rov in Satmar he went for a Shabbos walk and bumped into a Yid who was smoking on Shabbos. He wished the Yid a gut Shabbos. The yid took a huge puff of his cigarette in return. The Rebbe then invited the man to come to Shalosh Seudas to his house. The man taken aback took up the offer and later went to the Rebbe for seuda. This man eventually became a Gabai for the Satmar Rebbe ZTL. Zichro Yagane Aleinu
What you should really take from that, is treating everyone like a human being, like he's important, not like he's an animal because he isn't Shomer Shabbos.
Interesting didnt know this detail that he went back in to do tshuva, thought he went back cause he couldnt take the impurity. Thank you for this, your clarity in thought brings holy concepts down to earth. Your ahava for klal Yisrael is transmitted through the screen. Listen up people Awesome keep it up!
It’s VERY SIMPLE! The Tzadik Reb Yoel FOUGHT BAD IDEALISM, not THE PEOPLE WHO NEBECH FELL FOR IT!!! Therefore many big Zionist yidden were helped by him!
B'H Wonderful presentation. The empowerment of Yoseph HaTzaddik via Yaakov Aveenu's unique love for home is an instruction- I hope to never to forget!!!
This is one of the most captivating and motivating speeches I ever heard in my life. I can't begin to express how much you inspire me as a father, a husband, and an educator. BH we finally found someone who is so passionate and who is not afraid to speak the truth. May Hashem bless you, and give you continued success and strength to help all of Am Yisrael find the their true connection in the most refined way. I am certain that this is the path that will lead us to the coming of Mashiach, במהרה בימינו אמן!!!!
So this is the letter of the Lubavitcher Rebbe that Rabbi Avi took the title from "THE HOUSE IS ON FIRE & OUR CHILDREN ARE STUCK INSIDE"!!! h/t @Chabad.org l.facebook.com/l.php?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.chabad.org%2Ftherebbe%2Fletters%2Fdefault_cdo%2Faid%2F1264%2Fjewish%2FThe-House-Is-on-Fire-and-Our-Children-Are-Inside.htm&h=ATPxH_X8a3DCRcTbd7WGvLHu3nhh828EsW1jZMmebjbzwStkkKJt20gh3137kUMtQL-2QaG1BrUq9hO1IsR8HHYnT1pUinTxyk6aEQdIXR6OfLg6SL83bD_bL11tpSqNIyH4lLM-9TibkxkZooQ
wow this is such a powerful video. the message hits right where it needs to, deep in the kishkes. my view has been forever changed, and i thank you tremendously. i believe that every lubavitcher needs to hear this message, and i plan on sharing this video with everyone i know! thank you so much!
B'H A presentation way overdue. Meeting the child/adolescent/young adult where he or she is is crucial. Growth for these 'niduchim,' will not necessarilly be linear - patience patience patience is a key ingredient towards collaborating with these individuals to help themselves become self- empowering with Hashem's Help.
Great cause! One thing however, you mention the rebbe said to give an aliya to a "מחלל שבת בפרהסי׳" ר"ל, the rebbe would not do anything against halacha, the definition in halacha of such a yid is complicated and I'm sure there was reason not to define that yid as such. Greatly appreciate the cause and your hisaskus in this and the general message etc. and which much hatzlocho but please be careful how you talk about the Rebbe, thank you.
Kudos Rabbi fishoff. At the core of your teaching is an idea that is central to the philosophy of Chabad, that is, the creation of neshomos predates, and precedes, the expression of hashems will through Torah and mitzvos. This is an incredible concept. The love that hashem has for the soul of a Jew is not predicated on observance of mitzvos-its a stand alone value. If people in Chabad tuned in to this idea completely, they would see their own children, that are not observing all the mitzvos, in a similar way. This is an idea I've thought about deeply And try applying to my own family. It also helps to ask oneself-is my kid obligated to keep up appearances for my sake, is that truly a Torah inspired value or just ghetto society-inspired.
