1 corinthians 7:1 better not to marry. (unless you are weak) typically, christian marriages just lead to life force being drained away. You have to love god more than the orgasm. Its not easy...period. You are not wearing his yoke until you put the flesh to death. this is a message to
Girl, I let go of that so long ago! Now, I'm thinking about getting the desire again, but... it's not easy. For me what will be will be by the will of God Almighty 🙏
What about when you thought you heard God tell you who your husband is but nothing ever happened so you believe it was a lie and now you hate the thought of marriage 😢😢😢😢
Make sure it was actually God who was speaking to you. If it was, you have to put actions behind his words. Most miracles done by Jesus in the Bible required some sort of action.
I have prayed, believed,refused the men who didn't know God and been intentional with my purity...am a 25 year old virgin but Born again men never look my side ..may be am too ugly or short for them....I see the girls who are even new in the faith being married off early then us who have been born again for years are all alone..... May be we don't deserve what other's have.. May be are lying to ourselves
There are options if you massively settle ... Look around the church. Five times the amount of single middle aged women over men in the congregations. Also, many of those men are unfortunate, have behavioral disorders, or mentally disabled and are being cared for by family. What a variety of "opportunity". 😅 I rather stay single than be with a man that I don't want to be left alone with... I believe God can do all things but I think he chooses not to take action. That's it
I think the problem is most women think they will only marry a Christian man. Not enough of these men in church to begin with. Pray for the man God has for you. That's all
wow "the odds are more in our favor than against us," and "God won't take that desire, because he gave it to you!" Beautiful sister thank you - wow tears. I am so tired of ministers reading into the text, taking Scripture out f context and then beating singles over the head with it; suggesting that there is something wrong with singles or they haven't found fulfillment in Christ and they need to get more healed that the longing is out of place. Like Hannah the priest accused her of being drunk and completely out of order but her promise was related to kingdom destiny. There is not something always wrong with someone because they are single and truly desire to have a family - maybe they are like Hannah. I wish more were speaking life like you! Ready to encourage and stand with someone in faith. There is a war out there on identity and marriage. This was a word of hope, of faith for our breakthrough. THANK YOU for your words!!
Thanks for the encouragement. To be honest I’ve been waiting for decades 25 years. I cried so much that I can’t cry anymore. I have told God to take that desire away because I felt like I was being tormented for waiting all these years and nothing. I feel like it was a waste. I don’t get approached at all and I’m tired of being overlooked. I had a lot of faith years ago but I became weary and gave up. I don’t even think I have the energy to have faith in this waiting game. It’s really a struggle for me. It’s mentally and emotionally exhausting. Thanks for your video.❤
I am believing with you for your breakthrough!! Don't give up on the promise God has placed in your heart. There is a battle out there on identity and marriage but our God is a BIG God. LORD Jesus bring them there breakthrough they truly wish for a spouse and "nothing is impossible for you (Matt. 19:26) Let is be so Lord bring it Now in Jesus name!!!
I'm standing in agreement with you. You will be a wife. I don't believe God would put the desire in your heart and not give you your husband. Make sure you are putting action behind your thoughts and words. You can't expect Amazon to deliver him to your door.
I’m JUST now coming across your videos and I don’t believe it’s by accident! 😊 I appreciate the straightforward explanations and you backing everything up with the Word of God! I look forward to listening to more of your videos and receiving the wisdom that is being imparted to us through you by the Holy Spirit. Thank you for taking the time to share what you’ve learned yourself. God Bless!
Amen! I thought I was wrong for desiring marriage. I thought I wanted it too much, God did promise me marriage. I was in a situation-ship and I know it's not His will for me to be in. I desire to be with the right person, God has ordained. I will hold fast. I will have faith in my marriage promise.
There was a moment in the Gospel of Matthew where they were discussing the matters of divorce and Jesus said yes but "‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’? I believe the person God brings into our lives it will not be for divorce heartache and cheating for " Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows. (James 1:17)
I just broke up with my boyfriend he stopped talking to me because I told him I wanted to be in a sex less relationship and I had to let him know that I am waiting until marriage. He hasn’t text me or call me. My friends tell me that I’m never going to find a man that is going to wait until marriage to have sex. I have been abstinence for 6 years with no prospects at all. No dates nothing. 🙏🏾😞
I’ve been waiting for a husband for so long that my heart is now broken. I’m 53yrs old, it’s too late for me to marry and have a family so how can I trust His perfect timing? It’s already too late. I’ve tried so hard to stay faithful in hope and expectancy but after more than 30yrs I am worn out and overwhelmed by loneliness. I’m starting to wonder if I just don’t deserve to be loved. Yes, I’m totally broken after waiting all these years, but I’d challenge anyone to wait 3 decades and not feel as I do. Please, pray for me.
Thank you so much for this word. I literally am at the end of my rope waiting for the right man of God. I’ll be 41 at the end of the month and I have tried online dating and I get ghosted all the time. I left the online dating scene 2yrs ago and tried to go back to it but I couldn’t tolerate the swiping and ghosting all over again. I prayed and my mom prayed and I knew that some home how I was holding things up. So I typed it to youtube why haven’t I found a Christian husband yet. You popped up. This message hit the nail on the head. I’m going to go God about my expectations because I have been hoping only. Thank you again.
Keep believing brother just as the women. God has a spouse for you. I've seen some men waiting a long time. So many women are waiting, you are too. May the Lord soon settle you as well.
First time on your channel and this was really good! “It’s still NOT the one God has for you.” Having the desire versus the substance to STAY married I laughed when you said straight bum lol lol I enjoyed the blog reading and wisdom you shared through the Word of God to remind singles on the importance of waiting on God AND allowing Him to change and work on you in the process!
Thank you for sharing this. i am 53 single un married yet and have many times thought : God, will i ever get married? should i let go the desire to be a wife? God bless you
Don't let go sister. If you have a desire, you most likely do not have the gift of singleness. It's not easy waiting but may singles are getting settle. There's been many prophecies and I've seen about 6 or more long time singles get married.
That what I was saying nobody wants me I was married twice, and they both cheated and left I feel well I’m not smart enough. I am not pretty enough and I’m not good enough. That’s why they left.
I want to move and married again some one who wants cheated come home every day like being at home barbecue don’t be trying to go with somebody in the family your friends some woman on the job. Do what he post to do and come home. I have been waiting ever since 1993 and here it is 2024.
I been single every sent 1993 and been living with my daughter 11 years in her house I am tired of waiting now I am 69 now in his word said ask and it all so say you have not Cause not ask something like that I will look 👀 it up I cry I beg every day every week every month and every year and it the same I have a right to remarry because my ex-husband left me with two kids for drugs and other women both of my ex-husband cheated so I have a right to find somebody new in my life
This was a word, so many similarities to the man I just left. Thank you for being faithful to Gods call on your life. This was so much confirmation , God is faithful ❤
My sister!!!!! I would love to talk toyou! I know am in my season and I JUST CANT WAIT! I love how determined you are! And I want to have that preparation walk process free of the wait with your videos, my sister!!! I am blessed to watch your video! I praise the Lord for your life!
