when clay told hannah “i’m not going, not now, not ever” and hannah says “why didn’t you say this when i was alive” that just messed me up i cried so much
There's that one girl that i poured my heart and soul into her, believing I was helping her find the strength to trust and love again. I stayed through her darkest nights, patiently mending the pieces of her heart, hoping she’d see the love I held for her. Little did I know, all the time and effort I spent was not building a future together I was only building a woman for another man. In healing her, I ended up breaking myself, realizing that sometimes, love means giving someone the courage to walk away, even if it’s not with you.
My GOD you deserve your person. Your words gave me chills, and the inkling to tell my best (guy) friend that itll never be more than friends. She didnt mean to hurt you, I am certain.
I’ve been in your position and trust me, it will hurt for a long time my friend, but never stop being who you are. Keep on pushing through this pain and I guarantee you the person you deserve will arrive and come to you. In the mean time rebuild yourself and become passionate on being who you are. Lots of love from another friend who was hurt by helping someone broken❤❤❤
Carl Williams Thankyou for reminding me for this. Last Month. I’ve experience a lot of things. A lot of questions that no one could give the answers. My girlfriend just broke up with me because Im too focused on my studies and friends. We are on LDR relationship. I took the risk. I loved her so much. I gave all the love that I have. She always have my attention but I don’t know why it came to an end. The only way that saves me is listening through worship songs and praying to God. I know not anyone could understand my pain. But im in Good condition right now. I’ll be happier seeing her with the other man she loves. I hope she finds peace and harmony in her heart ❤️ no hate. Spread love ❤️
if you think about it, this song isn't about sad memories. or yearning and longing for the memories you've lost. it's about realizing how much you love someone. all the emotions that create love that you fell towards them as you look at them. you can view life differently. sad things can be happy instead. or nostalgic. for me, this song symbolizes the depth of love one could have. sure, there are old memories. but there is space to create more memories, they might be even better than the old ones. love is an extraordinary concept. it goes beyond an intellectual level, but only if you view it in the right way. live, laugh, love. life's too short to waste time when you can be making memories.
I have been separated from my children since May, and I had this same realization the other day. I was tormented by pictures of them, and furious at how my most precious memories that used to bring only joy had been twisted into the hot-iron pokers used to torture me. And then I realized that all of that was a choice. I was CHOOSING to be hurt by the pictures, no one else was doing that to me. And if I allowed that to happen, If that were the sort of attitude I cultivated, then it was going to hurt my kids when I finally do get to see them again. I imagined myself being a sad little wounded boy: how would my kids react to that? How would that affect them? What would I do in their shoes? Do I want them to feel bad, and pity me? I don’t know how I am going to do it, but I’m determined to make sure they see a strong, positive, loving person who cares and misses them, but (cold as this sounds to write it out) does not Need them.
I feel you I just broke up with the mother of my children and let me say I am torn apart. How could I spend my life with someone for so long only for them to cut me off completely and act like I don’t exist. It sucks loving someone who doesn’t love you anymore and probably never did.
@@lamehoodium3613 STFU fucking asshole, leave her alone, you never know what's going through so stop acting like what your going through makes you cool or edgy or stronger. Just go through it and don't make fun of other people for acting a certain way coming out of a certain situation, just let people go through what they go on their own individual road we call "life".
It hits even harder, when you are actually losing someone who was never really yours. But you had some of this person and now you have none of them. Just the ghost of them in your memories.
It’s 2:30 Am for me just after Christmas, had a wonderful dinner, had some great presents, had a smoke, don’t have a lover but I’m just living the moment
I heard this song when i was in a depressed phase , i still come every now and then to remind myself how far i have come . For the one who’s gonna read this comment i just wanna tell you that it’s gonna get better just don’t give up yet your time will and you’ll flourish just hang on ❤
Isn't it beautiful how each and every single person on this planet holds their own life story, packed with all sorts of dreams, thoughts, ambitions, feelings, problems. No one in the entire existence of this universe has ever lived a life exactly like yours.
I lost my girlfriend 4 months ago now and I put on a brave face to everyone but deep down I'm still hurting, so every evening I drive to or favourite place and watch the sun set over the hills while I listen to this song.
I just realized why I love this song so much. every time I listen to it, it genuinely feels like the first time and it makes me fall in love with it all over again
I am not the only traveler Who has not repaid his debt I've been searching for a trail to follow again Take me back to the night we met And then I can tell myself What the hell I'm supposed to do And then I can tell myself Not to ride along with you I had all and then most of you Some and now none of you Take me back to the night we met I don't know what I'm supposed to do Haunted by the ghost of you Oh, take me back to the night we met When the night was full of terrors And your eyes were filled with tears When you had not touched me yet Oh, take me back to the night we met I had all and then most of you Some and now none of you Take me back to the night we met I don't know what I'm supposed to do Haunted by the ghost of you Take me back to the night we met
*Lyrics* I am not the only traveler Who has not repaid his debt I've been searching for a trail to follow again Take me back to the night we met And then I can tell myself What the hell I'm supposed to do And then I can tell myself Not to ride along with you I had all and then most of you Some and now none of you Take me back to the night we met I don't know what I'm supposed to do Haunted by the ghost of you Oh, take me back to the night we met When the night was full of terrors And your eyes were filled with tears When you had not touched me yet Oh, take me back to the night we met I had all and then most of you Some and now none of you Take me back to the night we met I don't know what I'm supposed to do Haunted by the ghost of you Take me back to the night we met
Carl Williams see but I don’t understand what this has to do anything, I am also Christian and you are supposed to spread gods word but don’t force it upon people, I feel like that makes the whole perspective on religion toxic, if someone is seeking for god they will find it so don’t force it onto someone in the middle of no where... all they put was a crying emoji and you brought up suicide which can trigger someone...
Man I was with her for a year and I messed up and now she's completely gone and I can't do anything, it sucks so much because I really did love her, I never had love before, she gave me a different side of myself and I wish we could be together again because I still love her, it just sucks so much tbh
Or someone you can never have. You have to love them all on your own. From afar. The worst part, they won’t even acknowledge you exist, for no other reason than just because they know it kills you each time you try to reach out and they are silent, then you’re blocked. It’s a real special kind of cruel existence that your then forced to be here day after long day with nothing left to hope for, nothing to care about anymore, and certainly there are the times where you just can’t even bear the reality that your actually living year after year without them that you tell yourself you’d do just about anything to have things your way..yet, there is nothing you can do to make someone love you. Nothing. Some “relief” comes around year 7-8, the brain and body start to anesthetize and anhedonia kicks in, so basically you’re left as a waking dead body.
@@kaybeexo3009 yep, anhedonia is awful, you dont even remember what happy means/was ,let alone how it feels. Its like that particular emotion has been erased from your mind and in a strange way it feels normal. Im bi polar myself, you sound like a depressive. Those who have never felt that deep soul crushing emptiness will never understand it. The type who say to pull up your bootstraps and go for a walk annoy me. I could walk into the most beautiful forest and feel nothing, walk into a room of thousands yet feel alone. Take care.
This song makes me think of my mama & my dad in Heaven. I lost my dad due to him suffering from health problems. He died from cardiac arrest. I was a child when he passed away in 2011. I lost my mama back in 2021 due to her contracting COVID-19 & suffering from a brain aneurysm. I was in my mid 20’s when she passed away. Deep down I still feel like a little girl wanting both of her parents because I I don’t have my parents to talk to, to run to, & they are no longer here to keep me company so I won’t be alone….😢 Now that I have a pet cat this song will also make me think of her (Her name is Precious) because I found her back in April. She means everything to me. In short, she saved me & I saved her by giving her a second chance so she wouldn’t be all alone & struggle to find shelter & food anymore. We saved each other🙏🪽
Why do I have to cry every time I hear this song? 😣 You can really hear the pain in the lyrics... this song is really one of the kind. What art really is.
It relates so much to my last relationship. We both liked each other and it was amazing, then she started ignoring me and pushing me away but we still talked a little, then she completely removed me from her life and got a bf.
13 reasons why put me on to this song and for years it has always stuck with me. forget the context of the show, this song just plain hurts to listen to but in such a beautiful way
@@TBKwolfwolf10 don't bother. S1 is the only one that really matters since it's based on the book. S2 is ok but everything past that is a bad teen drama a la Riverdale
Tessa Maye it's ment to be saddening, he is singing of a person he loved very dearly who he slowly lost, whether it be they just split or died, and now he is dreaming or imaging the first night they met.
This song hits different when you love someone who you can't be with. Ps(29/01/2022) Finally We fell in love, she's mine now, Thanks all of you guys for sharing feelings with me ❤️ May all of your wishes come true. Edited- After 8 months we broke up, things didn't workout between us. Damn, "take me back to the night we met" 🥺
Dare RBN honestly😫 this song reminds me of someone I still love but we don't really talk as much anymore and it really sucks but there's nothing I can do about it
I used to cry at night listening and thinking about her....but now i am empty and i don't even have anyone for whom i can feel those things anymore...kinda hurts more
This is exactly what I thought lol, I fell like reminding rough memories and I want to cry then I remember that everything had always been fine in my life and I find myself kinda guilty, I think I'm weird😂
There's a great band called Beirut that will give you this same feeling of nostalgia for memories that aren't yours. Check out their songs, "Riptide", "Guaymas Sonora", and "Postcrads From Italy" Hope you love them too!
The scene when this song plays in season 2 is so fucking moving that I cried. The togetherness is real and healing. It helped. Also if you really listen to the lyrics, it seems like the show was literally written after this song. Every word relates to something specific in this wonderful and eye-opening show.
Anya Deising I completely agree, it shows unity in strength. Hannah baker was a girl who moved my life and still up till now she is the fictional character that lives with me. It’s a moving show, Tyler deserves better than what happened with him, we all are in a chain of events that change people’s lives and we affect everyone. God I cried like a baby at this so much, It just changed my perspective on things if you get me I can’t explain it😂
Oh, I miss someone.. I lost my lover, my best friend, my everything.. And something. A feeling, just emotion in general. I miss playdates in the park and being carried to bed by your parents when you fell asleep in the backseat of the car. I miss seeing pure joy in someone's eyes when they talked to you.. Like the joy the people you had spoken to when you were little. Your friends at pre school that ran to you when they saw you at the school gate. They'd look at you with nothing but pure happiness that you made it to school that day. They didn't judge, they didn't care, they didn't label. We were all ourselves once, now we're just.. Copies.
unfortunatly, that person is real for me. I dated her in a period were i listened alot to this song, i didnt think much of it, but when we broke up i realised how sad it was lol. So now im just sobbing everytime i hear it
@@EgirlBuni my gf left me and it feels like that. She is my everything now I m just nothing a broken person with empty and unfulfilled dreams. I just want to die, I wish she had rather just kill me instead.
way back 2016 I first heard a song from Lord Huron ever since whenever I go take a walk going home from work I always listen to this.. Fast forward today, this song traveled far, from fans of indie folk music to tiktok and FB reels.
I miss my brother. He wanted this played at his funeral. He struggled with mental illnesses. I listen to try to figure out his pain. I would do anything to have him back on this earth!!!!! Rest In Peace brother.
My mother passed away a week ago from pancreatic cancer , i miss her so much because we were inseparable since my dad died when i was 7 yr old , we used to sleep together, laugh together , she was my one and only companion. This song makes me want to turn back time , and spend another 23 years with her . Im so proud of her for being the strongest human ive ever had the chance to meet.
You are worth everything. don’t go. someone will miss you. Whether it’s your dog, mom, sister, brother, or your online friend. Things will get better I promise
One of my best friends literally tried to kill himself twice in 3 days a couple weeks ago. One of my friends found him and cut the rope the first time, and I busted into his house to stop him the second time. My girlfriend was on the phone with him telling him not to do it, and she held him off enough for me to stop him. He went to a psych ward for 10 days, and came back literally 2 days ago. We show him a helluva lot more how much we love him now, hoping it never has to happen again
Perfectly depicts the sudden loss of my son last year. He died by suicide. “I had all and then most of you, some and now NONE of you”. He was born at 11:18 pm. He was only 23. 😢😭💔
Anyone who sees this..your gonna be okay. I remember crying myself to sleep every night, listening to this song, begging god to take me away. I’m better now, I’m happier. People tell you that things get better and you don’t believe that, but I promise they really will. Just hang in there. 💗
I've been going through this all alone,with covid-19,I couldn't reach out for any kind of support from friends or family...or even through a grief councilor! The horrible part...i couldn't even have a service for him,and still on a waiting list....a fricken waiting list...to have a service and get some kind of closer. That being said,I haven't 'dealt with' my pain...until I heard this song!
