बहोत ही अच्छी बाते बताई आपने.. मगर मै ऐसा करने की बहौत कोशीश करती हू.... पर अगर मै कुछ भी करु पर मेरे पती या सास तारीफ तो दुर ज्यादा ध्यान ही नही देते.... और जब मुझे यह दीखाई देता है तो मै यह अच्छा बनने की कोशीश बंद कर देती हु और अपने काम से काम रखती हूँ.... और फीर कुछ दीन बाद फीरसे कोशिश करती हूं.....नतीजा फीर से वही....और वही सब कुछ😢
Same MERI jaisi Mai b karkar k thak gayi Kuch Nahi Milta...Kitna BHI khayal rake zarurat banjaye bhut koshish karli Maine apna poora best Di ho shadi hokar aaj 3yeasrs hone aare lekin Mai unlog k liye bhut purani banchuki hoo..agey SE aagey Sab kaam khayal fikr apnapan jataya zemedari ki apni MAA Bhai bhen apni Sagi family samajh Kar Sab kardiya lekin Kiya mila our kaam batatey hai order dete h Kuch value Nahi koi important Nahi Jaise Mera hi farz tha Karne Ka unka Kuch Nahi Maine apni SAAS ki itni seva karli bolna Nahi Chahiye but Dil tootgaya sabka khayal fikr seva karkar..na ajtak appreciate Nahi Mili aur agar Kabhi milti b h toh jab koi Nahi rehta akele me halki si tareef milti h...ajtak koi merku apna Nahi samjha Mai Kabhi fever SE PADI Hoti hoo toh koi akar pochta tak Nahi Kaisa lagrah h khud hokar jab Mai batati ho toh sirf halki si smile dekar khete h are re re 😤😤🌛😤😤😤😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😩😫😫😫bhut takleef Hoti h bhut akeli padgayi hooo
Bilkul Sahi mam Kosis Ta har koi karda but need hundi aa important guid karn di jive Tusi karde o Vi relax ways naal really mam Tusi bhut bhut good opinion dene o really so good.
aapne bilkul shi bola mam...agar hm rishta nibhana chahte h...to thoda to adjust krna pdega...mera bhi mood bhi bahut khrab tha subha se hi...meri tbiyat kuch theek nhi thi...or beti ko ready to kr diya inhone ...maine nasta bnaya..inko bhi de diya.. fir late gyi pr mujhse nhi pucha ki kya hua h..pr m jantu hu ki ye aise hi h...to khud pe gussa krke fir maan bhi jati hu...ab aapki baate suni to or हिम्मत si aa gyi...to ab kaam krti hu uthke....hamari love marrige h...pr fir bhi m khud hi sorry bol deti hu...kyuki m inko khona nhi chahti...ye बहुत acche h pr bss dikhate nhi h...😍😍
@@MonicaGupta g monika g...😍😍inki to pkka h...bs m hi kabhi kabhi bhool jati hu...abhi theek hu..mere sawan ke vart h to thodi weekness si ho rhi thi...aap haina sbko badhiya wali dose dene ke liye...😁😁👌👌har मुश्किल ka हल ...
Wow superb man bahut acchi acchi Baatein aap batate hain aapke Video dekh kar man Halka ho jata hai aur Positive Thinking Aati Hai nice mam thanks👌❤👌❤👍👍👍🤗🤗
Mem har kam khud kartey rahou to thk barna buray h or ap nay Jo bhi msz deya is vedeou mi already hi kartey Hou fir........ thanks mem fir bhi accah Lagta h ap ko Sunna thanks
Ma'am aap meri Role Model ban chuki ho. Har Roz at least aapke 2 videos dhekh hi leti hu. Yeh video bhi bahut sahi laga mjhko but 1 baat bataiye Yeh zaroorat ban jau bahut sahi Bola aapne. Hum need sirf khaas logon ki ban sakte hai na.. Par jinse hamara milna jhulna Kam ho baatein Kam ho par relation ho unki need kaise bana jaye.. Please, do reply.. 🙏❣️..
🙏mam,bilkul sahi kaha aapne,mai to jin v logo k pass baith jati hun,unse has bol k hi baat karti hun,pata hai mam mere ghar me bahut sare bachche hai 5/6 saal se le ke 20/21 saal tak k,sab mujh se khub ghul mil gye hain or mujhe v unse khub man lgta hai,un k pass agar mai baith jaun to samay kaise kat jata hai pata hi nhi chalta,mere liye to yahi sab se badi khushi hai,or ghar k bado se v mai salike se baat karti hun,wo v sab mujhe pasand karte hain or agar unme se koi mujhe nhi samjhta to mujhe koi fark nhi padta,😃😃
खश रहने के लिए एक दूसरे ही हैल्प करनी जरूरी है.विश्ववास और भरोसा जरूर करना चहिए प्यार से रहने से हमें खुशी मिलती है🎀🌿🌴🌿🌿🌴बहुत धन्यवाद आपका💜💜💜🙏🙏🙏💛🙏🙏🌟🌟👌👌👌
Hello Mam nice video.. Please ek video is Par b Banaiye ki husband ki bhi kuch responsibilities hoti hain jab ghar me ek Nanha member (baby) aata hai. Change is very necessary with time. Or agar ghar me baby aata Hai to agar Maa apne andar or bahar badlaaw Laati Hai to pita ko b kuch badlaaw laane ki zarorat hoti Hai. 😊 I look forward to your video.
Mam Apki baate to sahi h lekin Aaj K time me Aise behavior se kam se kam pati to Apni wife ko for granted Lene lagte h naki value krte h .its my point of view
Hello mam good afternoon aap kase ho mam aap ki video very nice h sahi bat h hamebhi samne wale k liy soch na hi chahiye or us tarike s apna bartav kar n chahiye kuyki ham jasa karege vase hi milega . Thanks you so much mam 😊🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹👏🙇♀️ me poonam Sharma daman se
Hi .I am 40y lady I want to do some job.i am postgraduate .what kind of job suit me can u suggest. I have also low in confidence to try some teacher job.because of weak in english
कितनी अच्छी बातें आपने बताई कि खुश रहना है तो सामने वाले की जरूरत बन जाइए।। वाह😮😮 मैम मैम मैं भी अपने पति और सास की जरूरत बन गई हूँ।उन्हें भी मेरे बगैर एक दिन भी रहना गंवारा नहीं।। धन्यवाद🙏💕😘💕 मैम
Mam, is video me aapne suggest Kiya ki kesi ki jarurat ban jao..meine sab kiya h ek ek baat ka apne husband and family ki pura dyan rakh h.. ab jab Mera baby hua h mujhe phir bhi kesi ne support nhi kiya h.. ab bhi expect karte h waise hi unke kaam pure ho Jane chaiye Na nhi honi chaiye.. ab mein Kya karu.. jab jab in sabki har baat manti rahu to achi nhi karu to sabse buri
@@MonicaGupta mein aur mere husband rahte h in laws dusri city me. Wo Meri delivery k badme yaha ek din k liye bhi nhi aaye Meri help k liye. Husband bhi koi help nhi karte. Delivery mere ghar Hui kyuki mere in laws nhi aa sakte the.. 3 month k baby k saath yaha aai hu.. kesi ne help nhi ki..baby ghar ka kaam, baby ka kaam plus mein office ka kaam bhi ghar se Kar rhi hu. Mein kesi kaam ko Mana Kar deti hu.. sab mujhe naraj ho jate h
Hello madam... Maine y vedio teen bar dekhi... I mean i love this advice... But as a bahu family ka khyal rakhte rakhte baby or apna khyal ni rakh pati hu... Tbiyat kharab ho jati h thakaan alag Nd fir v saa . Ko shikayaten rehti hain how to schedule... Every thing.. Plz suggest at least any thing m not ur paid subscriber
सबसे पहले तो आप खुश रहना शुरु कीजिए.. यानि जो आपके पास है उसे अल्लाह का शुक्र मनाईए.. पॉजिटिव सोचिए... एक दो दिन अच्छा ही सोचना.. और चेहरे पर स्माईल रखना फिर तीसरे दिन बताना कैसा रहे दो दिन!!
@@MonicaGupta madam ga mai behot khush rahi teen dino tak Or pata ki sab kuch easily handle kiya ja sakta h... But meri saas pure din me ek bar mujhe kuch n kuch tana mar mera din kharab kr deti h unse pyar se baat kro to meethi chhuri ki tarah mayake pe war krti h..... Mood off ho jata h madam... Kya kru...
Mam magr isse ye ni hoga k agar hm kisi din bimar hogye ya or vja se kam ni kr paye to vo firbi expect krege. Or mene ye bhi dekha h jbtk kam kro sb khush or jb jra sa bhi khudke bare socho to hm bure bn jate h.kyuki kam vale jo bn jate h.firbi I'll try everytime
Hello mam.. Main ye keh rahi thi ki mujhe bhut gussa aa jata hai chhoti chhoti baato pe, control nahi kar paati hu gusse ko.. N m married.. Mujhe bilkul b acha nahi lagta ki main gussa kyu kar jaati hu itni jaldi chid chidi si ho jati hu jaldi se.. M very upset for my behaviour mam..😞
Yes mam, Tabiyat thik rehti hai.. Jitni jaldi gussa hoti hu utni hi jaldi pyar jatane b lag jaati hu manaane b lag jati hu.. Gussa isliye aata h ki jese koi baat agar clearly mujhse na kahi jaye, ya jin baato ko mana karu aur wahi chij again n again ho chahe unintentionally hi kyu na ho.. I don't know whether saamne wala person use jaan bujh kar ra h ya nahi..
Hi mam apne Shi kha ....mere sasural me koi bat nhi but mere pit piche ghr k log burai krte h ...or Samne badai ..Meri nand apni sas ke sath nhi rhti h ladai krke ek sal ke ander alg ho gai..or mere ghr vo Meri sas ko or pati ko sikhati hai...me Kya kru me ab pregnant bhi hu
Pr mem fir apna kam apni self rispaikt ka kya kre unke bina mage sbb krte h to bo humari koi value hi nhi krte hum v kuch h ye nhi smjhte bss unhe unka kam unki jrurt hi dikhti h hum nhi
आप किसी वजह से बहुत नेगेटिव हैंं कोई न कोई ऐसी बात है जो आपको परेशान करती है जबकि ऐसा नही होना चाहिए... आप ये बताईए कि फ्री टाईम में आप क्या करती है ? आपकी कोई हॉबी है ?? आप खुद को किसी क्रिएटिव अपने पसंद के काम में बिजी रखिए..
Hello mam, meri shadi to south me hui hai coulture ekdum alag h Mai north se hu..Mera behaviour sabse Acha hai lekin pta Nahi kyu sasurwalon ko humse problem rehti h....MERI SAAS jyada bolti Nahi Kam bolti h sochti h Mai Sab samjh jaun ye ho nhi pata na chahte hue b kuch na kuch Bigad jata hai..husband srf apni maa Ka hi side lete hai mujhe samjhte hi Nahi aur hamesha argument karenge.mai kya karu pls mujhe bataiye?
Monica Gupta MERI shadi 24feb ko hui hai..pati ko Lagta Hai Mai bahut demanding hun actually starting me thoda apni expectations batayi thi Mai..lekin wo hat koi hota hai ye bat so samjhte Nahi..unki maa mujhe kuch b bol deti h to wo unki side hi lete Mera Nahi.
Mem...meri sasu ma mere ghughat na Karne par galat words Bolte h...unka manna h k ghughat Karne SE maryada rehti h...mem...vo had 2-3 din me kalesh karti hai...aur unko vajah SE mere husband aur mukhme takrar Hoti rehti h
Mem 6 year....mera mayka Gujrat h aur sasural up me...mem mere Ghar me sabhi aurate ghughat karti hai...but mujhe ghughat Karne m bahut irritation hota h...mem please help me
आप एक काम कीजिए कि सिर ढकने के लिए एक पतली सी चुन्नी ले लिया कीजिए.. उससे उनकी बात भी रह जाएगी और आपको भी दिक्कत नही होगी यानि वो ज्यादा भारी नही लगेगी...
Mam mai aapse kuchh puchhna chahti hu....mai 23 ki hu or jisse meri ab meri hone vali h usse mai ab pyar bhi krti hu pr uski pehle shadi ho chuki thi unke 3bachhe bhi h but ab unki biwi nhi rhi pehle sb thik chalta tha hmare bich pr ab bahut ladai jhagde hote h kya kru kabhi bacche vajeh hote h to kabhi mujhe time naa dena please btaye
कोई तो ऐसी बात है जिसकी वजह से आप बहुत ज्यादा frustrated है... वो बात क्या है ?? अगर किसी भी तरह का मन में संशय है तो अभी भी कुछ बिगडा नही है !!आप अपने मम्मी पापा से खुल कर बात कीजिए... या फिर खुद को शांत रखिए क्योंकि ये गुस्सा परिवार के लिए परेशानी ले कर आएगा ...
@@MonicaGupta abhi hui nhi h is saal last tk ho jayegi....mai sambhal nhi paati vo achhe h mujhse pyar bhi krte h meri family ka bahut khyal rkhte h pr mai nhi samjh pati ki mai aise kyu krti hu purani baato ko lekr jhagda hota h ya unke baccho ko lekr or vo mujhe chhodna nhi chahte h mam
Mam good evening Mam meri problem ye hai ki mai ek company me sales man ke sath assistant ka kaam kerta hu last 7 month se but mam wo gussa bahut jyada kerta hai poore din hum van me uske sath rahta hu aur wo koi na koi kami nikaal ker shout kerta hai before 7 month dusare sales man ke pass tha mai udher koi problem nahi thi mujhe isne maang ker Liya tha ki mai achha kaam kerta hu 2 mahine tak sab theek tha uske baad ab bahut gussa kerta hai aur mai agar kuch bolu to bolne nahi deta hai jhagra kerta hai baki bahut se kaamo me meri madad bhi kerta hai lekin last 6 month se bahut jhagarta hu pahle jo iske pass ladka tha uske sath bhi yahi kiya tha wo ladka hamare sales man ke pass hum uske sales man ke pass but ab mujhe bhi same problem ho rahi hai bahut jyada apmaan kerta hai mai last 6 month se sonchta hu jane do but wo mujhe ab dhakka deta hai phir shaam me aane ke time bahut achhe se baat kerta hai subah phir problem chalu kerta hai what to do mam we are too much headache please reply soon in details thanx
mam meri engage abhi nayi nayi hui hai mere finacee night me job karte hai and din me so jate hai muze time hi nahi dete and me kuch bolu to wo gusse ho jate hai kal rat mere fiancee ne muze call par bahot gussa kiya aur ese ese words bol gaye ki me bahot hurt hui hu kya karu me
ok mam but amne samne me bol bhi nahi sakti uska gussa hi itna hai me dar gai hu and muze jab kuch kahna hai to me nahi kar sakti me.kese rahundi life time me unlimited love karti hu but pata nai wo kya soch rahe hai
Har chiz manage krni padti job kbhi to change hogi aapko khud ko unke hisab se dhaalna hoga mere hubby morning me offc gye 6'o clock and raat ko 12 bje aaunga Bol gye or aaj to unka B-Day b h.
Mam plss give me ans m having in love with some one i have done bsc nursing and he is not graduated but still he is hvng his saloon but i want to marry him i love him soo much bt Family mrg k liye agree nhi h to ap muje btao me kya glt hu bo bolte h shadi k liye standrd b hona chahiye ap btao m i wrong ?? Meri thinking paise pe nhi h dil h muje psnd h wo bhut bt ghr wale tyar nhi to muje kya krna chaiye plss reply me meri baat dono trf se sochke ans dena plss hlp me i love both bf and family soo wt i have to doo??
Mem mere husband ki me bahut hi saman karti hu par vo nhi karta hum ne bahut koshish ki par vo bahut jhuth bolte hai mujhe se or juaa khel kar karj bahut bna liya ap smjh nhi aata mujhe ki me kya kru
mam mere husband foreign m h mere paas cabl tk ni h m phn use krti hu only watch movies or serials but unhe aisa lgta h m affair h m ik tym ik earning group join kia tha bt bhut unknwn no s cl ane lgi to m use bi skip kr dia tha bcz m dr tha missundrstng n ho so m wo skip kia bt nw m kbhi unpr shk ni kia chahe unka phn busy ho baat kre m unmarried lyf ko marriage k baad bilkul hi piche chod dia tha or kbhi us lyf k bare m n to socha n kbhi use kia chage wo id ho frndz ho kbhi phn lock ni kia. hm open bcz kuc hiddn hi nhi h bt unki language or missbehave k krn m unse distance kr lia tha. or isi distance k krn unhe mere upr shk h bt ap hi btayo jo prsn apni wife ko respect n de galiya d m aise kaise us prsn s baat kru
@@MonicaGupta yeah bt mam tym k sath is relation ko nibhana tough ho rha h bcz unki thinking or soch k krn m vry upset or frustratd kisi bi cheez m mn nhi lgta
ek baat bataiye jab pati aapki kadr hi na karei use sirf apne bhaiyo n unki family ki hi chinta ho. Wife kisi bhi haalat mei hai parantu koi fikr nahi aur agar wo bole kuch toh har samay divorce divorce bole toh kya matlab hua iska.......kya aise insaan ke sang rehna chahiye??
Maaam mre hubby long distance rehte h m Himachal m hu wo working h hyderabad m jb wo ghr ate h chutiyo m mre liye un days se better s Days nhi ho.. Bt jb wo nhi hote i feel so depressed n ek bat or mre hubby apne un friends ki bat jyada sunte h smtimes wo glt baat advice krte h m smjhati hu unhe smjhte B hwo alchoholic the phle ab quit krde h bt smtimes friends k forcemnt P he drinks m kis trike se cmpltly chuda skti hu drinking.. N ek last problem mere jethani hr time mujhe nicha dikhate h humesa indirect ly taunt krte h... Mujhe mere value 0 btate h kisi mre kisi ko koi jrurt nhi h
आप खुद क्या करती हैं ?? क्या आप जॉब करती हैं ?? या नही ?? मेरे विचार से आपको खुद को किसी न किसी क्रिएटिव काम में बिजी कर लेना चाहिए.. क्योंकि जितना खाली रहेगी ऐसी बातें मन में आती रहेंगी...
Maam m alchohol ko lekr ky kru wo regular nhi h drinking ko leke bt 2 3 mnth m ek bar ho jata h sirf yhi esa reason h jo humare bich juth bol le atwa h
