Bilkul sahi kaha hai aapne.... Maids ko hum as a helper hire karte hein, but kabhi kabhi to aisa lagne lagta hai, jaise humein usey help karni hai, paise bhi dete hein, usko ghar k member ki tarah treat karte hein, fir bhi uske aane se pehle and uske jaane k baad tak bhi humein attention mein rehna hota hai,bartan khali kar k ready rakhne hein, dusting and kuchh chhota saamaan hata lena sab uske aane se pehle kar lena hai, jhadu pochha karte time vo kuchh bhi hatayegi nhi, matlab vo kabhi jaldi aaye, kabhi late aaye, adjust humein hi karna hai, fir late ho raha hai keh kar kaam thik se na kare, extra kaam ki baat to bhul hi jao, roj ke kaam bhi thik se na kare, and kuchh b bolo to bolegi, aap khud kar lo, mein kal se nhi aaungi... Ye kya baat hui? Matlab paise de kar jaise gulaami karni hai... I am 50+ and 10 saal pehle mera accident hua tha, jisse mujhe spine mein injury hui hai jo kabhi kabhi bahot zyada dard karta hai, isliye meine helper hire ki, but ye attitude to aisa dikhati hai k humein gussa bhi aayega, aur uske chhote bachcho ki vajah se uss par daya bhi aayegi... Log bolte hein, k maids garib hoti hein, unko paise dekar hum unse zyada kaam karva lete hein, vo bechare majboori mein chupchap kitna kaam karte hein, but actually to vo humari majboori ka fayda utha rahe hote hein... Mujhe aadat hai, bartan mein bilkul khane k kann nhi rahe, na bartan bilkul jale, and paani mein puri tarah se bhige ho, taaki maid thik se ghise, fir chiknaai and smell bilkul na rahe, fir bhi vo saabun ka paani kar k 5 to max. 7 min. Mein saare bartan jaise taise dho daalti hai... And jhadu & pochha mein to usey 10 min se zyada time kabhi laga hi nhi bolo... Sochti hu, isse achchha khud se kaam kar lu, but jab khud se karti hu, to time bhi bahot lag jata hai, & baad mei back pain bhi bahot hota hai....
I am also a teacher but in missionary school.So it is not possible for me to manage house chores without maid.I am also engaged in coaching classes but l get a lot of inspiration from you.Superub and keep it up sister.
Absolutely correct..i m also working women...mera bhi chota baccha hai..mere ghar koi maid nhi hai..par me adjust karti hu...pahle mujhe bahut chid chid ho rahi thi ki 10 hr office kaam ko du fir ghar dekhu..aur baccha..meri health bhi baar baar kharab ho jati hai..lekin aapke vdo se mujhe himmat mili hai..aur inspiration bhi... dhanyawaad aapka didi.. 🙏🙏
Haan phele hamare यहां काम वाली the Lakin वो bht late Ana kabhi नहीं anaa ye ही rehta था उसका or घर काफी bada है mera Lakin mein उसको अब खुद maintain krti हूं or accha lgta है मुझे की mera घर अब bht साफ़ rehta hai
Life apni h kaam apna h agar us kaam ko hm krenge apna samajhkar koi bhar wala krega bhar ka samajhkar rhi baat aapke husband ki to aapke husband bhut helpful hai main roj dekhti hu our aapse bhut much sikhti hu our kisi k bolne par ni jai kuch log duniya me jite hi bakwaas karne ko hai😃😃🍬🍬🍫🍫
Hello mam...very inspirational ur working style ... I watched ur videos since 2 months ...I'm a Dr....I think anywomen who is working outside & manage whole their house kids & family members must watch ur vlog...i am very satisfied behind ur reason why u haven't maid ...dusting & otherthings they don't do...at d same time u don't do when she is working...& festivals when u needed them most...they r not available...& then we pay her even we r working most of her work...Ur time management is very much appreciable...early in the morning ...u do all d things...when d 25 yrs ago d women's r working...they also manage all d things like u vthout mad...
आप ने बहुत ही अच्छा सलाह दीया है में भी work करती हूँ but मेने भी सारा काम खुद ही करती हूँ घर का काम करने में कोई बुराई नहीं है आप का सभी वीडियो को मै full watch करती हू
Mujhe bhi same problem hai maids se. Kaam aadha aap karo privacy bhi khatam hoti hi Or jab na, aaye to alag musibaton.. Isliye maine bhi maid nhi laga rakhi. Jab meri pregnancy thi tab rakhi thi.
Hi ma'am.. u r very hardworking lady. I salute u. I really appreciate your work. Aaj ke time m Ghar and office wot ko manage har koe ni kar sakta h . M ek housewife hu or sath m study bhi karti hu . I know dono Ghar or work ko manage karna easy nhi h but .. u r doing very well .
Sahi kaha mam apne . Corona ke pehle main bhi sochti thi kaise manage karongi kaamwali ke bina but corona ke baad aajtak maine koi mad nahi rakhi . Aab life jayda easy ho gaye . Inlogo ka alag natak rahta na festival me help karna koi guest aaye to bartan dekh ke hi inko fever ho jaye achhe khase logo ke samne khud hi bartan bhi dho aur safie bhi karo . Salary chahiye inko pura
You are right. I am also a govt teacher and posted 128 km from my home. Daily up down karti hu aur ghar ka sara kam bhi khud hi karti hu apki tarah silai bhi khud karti hu. Naye naye design banati hu embroidery bhi karti hu fabric pe. Aur ghar me mere husband aur beta h koi help karne wala bhi h phir bhi maid nhi lagayi
Apki ye bat bahot sahi hai ki privacy or apne time pe kam khtm karne ki vjse mene bhi sirf niche ke male ke liye maid lagai hai..dusra tisra floor,bartan ,Kapde me apne ap hi karti hu.. Jaldi time se khtm karlo... Maid ki rah dekho Uske bharose raho bahot toxic lagta hai👍👍 Sp bilkul sahi hai... Subah 6-7me sare kam khtm mera..
Dee, aap ne bilkul sahi kaha, mene khud maid lagai Hui h, or aap k video dekh k m bhi motivate hoti hu, pehle m late uthti thi, bt ab m bhi 5-5:30 uth jati hu, or alag hi energy hoti h mere paas, jb aap kr skte ho, to hm kyu nhi, really amazing power pack ho aap dee,
Ye apki best video h or boht acha explain kia h aapne.. yes mai working mom hu or apko kam krte dekh himmat milti h ki hum b apni family or ghr ke liye karen
Hello sunita g ..mai bhi ek private school me teacher hu ..aur maine abhi June me maid ko hataya h ..same condition meri bhi ho gayi thi jaise apne batayi..muze bhi lagta h mai apne kaam kudh hi Kar lu..also I have started coaching classes ..aur apni padai bhi karti hu khud ko update karne ke liye and so on ...nice to see u ,hear u ..well done
Hum Jo dekhte h wesa bnte h apko km krte hue dekhne k bd jb may km krte ho to motivation milta h ap bahut positive ho or km krne se mind busy hota h or accha lgta h .....ap shi kehti h mental to physical work kro to nhi thakoge
Very well said mam ..Maids ko manage karna bhi ek task hai ..me khud apne ghr ke kaam khud karna pasand karti hu ..kuch logo ko nahi pasand hota, satisfaction nhi milta maid ke kaam se..So better to do it yourself..
Namaste didi ap ki video's ne meri bohot help ki h mera pehla bacha Ka time me mujhe mentally depression ho Gaya tha or me kuchh nai Kar pati thi tap ap k Jaise video's ne meri bohot help ki ab me pehle ki Tarah Apne sare Kam Kar pati hu
Very true maid is maid hum Apne ghar ko weekly clean kare to bhi usse acha karenge. I really like your thinking jitna hota hai karlo remaining Apne hisab se kar sakte hai
Sabhi questions ka jabardast👍🏼jawab diya aapne, main bhi aapse motivate hoti hu, aur khud kam kar apne work par jati hu ,kuch to log jayege logo ka kaam hai kahna hum to masti me chalenge hamara kaam hai chalna🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Your point of view is okay....there are both positive or negative aspects having maid....we have lived life with maid and without maid....First of all....agr hm maid nhi rkh rhe....to iska matlab ye nhi ki hm paise bacha rhe ...na hi ye ki ghar ka kaam krne me koi burai h ....but point is that agr hame kisi kaam ki monetory value h ....to vo jyada behtar h ...for example.....aap ek prestigious job me h.....you get salary for it....but when you do your household chores then you get any money for it....? Ap kahenge mere ghar ka kaam h ..mujhe kyu paise mile....mujhe chahiye hi nhi.... etc. But if we have maid then we pay for it....yaha baat sirf apni help ki nhi uski help ki bhi h ....aap sbhi jaante ve itni padhi likhi nhi hoti ....ve school bank ya company me job nhi kr skti....but what we pay them....they can educate their child ....and make them a responsible citizen....and have a life like us.....when my baby was tender meri job chhut gyi....or meri sari energy ghr k kaam me chali jati ...I don't get proper time for my kids.....I can't trust upon maid for kids ....so start work from home....so that I can care my infant with utmost care..... Secondly....you are a good mom wife homemaker and now RU-vidr too....but you may have some other skills....that are not going explored.... because you manage all household chores on your own..... koi burai nhi h....but agr aapke paas ek house help ho to ho skta h aap achha likhti ho..hme ek achha novel ya poems padhne ko mile....ho skta aap bahut achhi painting bnati ho....or ek Amrita shergil ko ubharne ka moka hi na mile .. ho skta h dance music makeup mehndi parlour pr hme apse behtrin tutorial dekhne ko mile..... definitely ghr k kaam maid kr skti h....but ye jo aap kr skti h....maid nhi kr skti ..... Aapka dusra point of view ki maid k rhne se ajadi privacy bhang hoti h.....ya kaam dhang se nhi hota..... But inke solution h....maid ko per hour k hisab se rkhiye....or fix time pr.....may be you have to pay some extra money for it....but it definitely will help.....then she will work... according to you.....rahi baat privacy ki....to mai aese manage krti hu....agr mujhe sona h tv dekhna h ya aese kaam jisme privacy chahiye vo Mai subha 8:30 se 5:30 Tak krti hu.....meri maid subha 6:45 pr aati h.....or or cleaning bartan se alg dusting brtan lgana or baki chhote kaam bhi krti h.....iska phyada mujhe ye h ....mai apne husb or bachho ko liye or Jyada nutritious or variety of food prepare kr skti hu.....apne bachho ko proper khana khila skti hu....subha subah yoga kr skti hu....and 8 hours ki sound sleep le skti hu.... because ultimately our health help us.... Mai sham ko job or dinner k baad press krti thi.....ek din maid ne bataya ki ve log sukhi roti khate h.....pati nhi h teen bachhe h uske.....maine uska hr mhine ka ghee fix kr diya....ab hmare char jodi kpde vo press kr deti....pr iska matlab ye nhi ki mai nithalli ho jau.....maine us time ko utilise Kiya .....more blogging and for my writing passion....ab simple si baat ho vo press kr skti h.... blogging nhi..... Or definitely ab ve sukhi roti nhi kha rhe..... At last....I have no intention to blame you.....or criticise you....I have mentioned pros and cons....agr kuch bura lage to don't mind....you are well and good.....and decisions is yours to have maid or not..... overall it's your life..... always keep smiling....😊😊
Aapne bilkul sahi kaha maid aadha adhura kaam hi karti hai jesa hum ghar ko clean kar sakte hai waisa wo nhi karti and majburi me maid rakhna lag baat hai but jab tak aap khud kar sakte ho best hai
I agree with you.....maid lagane se achha hae ghar me equipment kharid lo.....maid se jyada flexible option Ho jata hae....I m also a working mother ..I too experienced it,,,,
Bilkul sahi bola Sunita ji. Negative comments par dhyan de kar aap apna moral down mat kijiye. u r doing very well with yr job. Mai v Job karti hun aur ghar ka sara kaam khud hi kar ke office jati hun. Apna kaam khud karne me jo satisfaction hai wah paise de kar v nahi hota. stay always blessed
Di true way mai teacher jaisa answer boht achse explain kiya or boht achse samjh aya and logo ka muh band bhi kiya jinhone itne galat comments likhe heads 📴 to you di ❤️🙏🙏 jawan up to the mark tha🙏🙏🙏🙏 great job ❤️
Well said didi...maine b koi maid ni lgai mere b 2bacche h Or sara kaam khud hi krti hu.... Body b fit rhti h Or stamina b bdta h... Or jinhone maid lgai hui h na aap unki body dekhna kaisa fat chadta h Or us fat ko utarne k liye vo gym me jati h.... Or apne ghar k kaam kro or fit rho😀
Sahi kaha aapne.. Satisfaction nai milta hai servant ke kaam se.. Agar tym n health manage ho jaye toh apne ghar ke house hold work khud manage karna koi galat nai hai...i am also a teacher by profession , recently started watching your videos.. And i feel motivation as well as enjoy too. 👍👍😊😊😊😊
मैं भी बेसिक में टीचर हूँ और मेरी काफी सारी थिंकिंग आपसे मैच करती है। मैं भी मेड से परेशान हो गयी थी।जितना तो वो काम नहीं करती थी उतनी बक-बक करती थी और उसके साथ मुझे भी लगे रहना पड़ता था। स्कूल से आकर आराम कर रहे होते तो वो टपक पड़ती थी।अब चैन से अपने हिसाब से काम कर लेती हूँ।
Jab main Newzealand move hui toh job k saath ghar ka kaam bhi krna pda jab ki india kuch hota nhi tha thoda saa kaam kr k thak jaati thi ab yahan pe to maid impossible hai toh khud ka hi stamina boht accha ho gya hai kaam krne ka and i love to do home chores by myself. Jab se sab kuch khud krna shuru kiya hai bimaariya bhi door ho gyi hai. Aap k video management motivation milta hai mujhe . Mera job 100km away hai ghar se toh main drive krte aapke video dekhti hoo . Love from Newzealand ❤️💓
Hi Sunita, we are almost of the same age. May be you are 1 or 2 years younger to me. I find yours videos very helpful and without self obsessed content.
How to manage housework , with maid or without maid is each person’s personal decision. Giving advice is ok but criticism is not okay. You are doing great and your videos are very inspiring ❤
Completely agree with you.maid is a headache for me as well. I have family of 6 and my job takes 10 hrs a day ... I use machine to ease my wrk rather than maid
You r absolutely right 👏👏👏👏 seriously u r an inspiration 🥰🥰for us 🙏🙏or sabko badiya jawab b mil gya specially un lazy logo ko jo free hone k baad b kaam ni krte or maid rakhte h dikhave k liye 😀😀😀
I agree with u but agar kisi ka ghar kafi bada he to sare Ghar ko maintain rakhrne ke liye majburi ho jati he maid rakhana me or jab wakai jarurat hoti he help ki to koi bhi maid ek din k help ke liye nhi ayegi so aap ese stamina ki kami nhi keh sakti ham ladies ghar or kaam dono sambhalte he but aap achha kar rhi he good luck take care
Very true being a teacher I understand. Bandhan toh lagta hai. Apke bacchon ko kaun pick up karta hai ghar par ya aap unse pehle aa jati hai school se??
Very nice reply, appreciating your efforts. 😊 I am following you since last few days and really gets enery after watching your video. I am also working as a work from home I have office 9 to infinite But i also dont have a maid , because reason wahi Jamta ni hai, yeh kaam karengi vo ni karengi To maine bhi ni rekha hua Sub kud keeti hu , apne hisaab se husband bacche ko dekh lete hai Manage ker lete hai You are good and keep doing it 👍
No! Not at all.... apne ghr ke kaam krne chahiye... mai bi school jati hu or sare kam apne ap hi krti hu... very good... ap bht hard working ho... or apko 1 bat btau... kisi ko explanation mt do... duniya to hmesha hi bolti hu... enjoy ur life...
Camera angle tips jrur le or apni voice ko aur clear kare or fast speech ke saath .. if u wanna check rest play ur video on fast fwd voice option👍🏼👍🏼 .. all about everything is gud
Yes mam aapki baat bilkul sahi h, kuch log kam nahi karna chahate hain isiliye maids k bharose rahate h. Or galat words v use karate hain,mam aap practical ho.
Ma'am u r right mujhe v made logo se bhot paresani hoti hai bt abhi meri majburi hai kyuki mere do chote hai lekin sach batau to mujhe v made logo se bhot paresani hoti hai...ma'am mujhe aap bhot hi acchi lagi mai apki bhot Kam vedio dekhi hu lekin jo v dekhi use yahi laga ki aap fake vedios nhi banati hai aap jaisi ho original ho jo ki ab RU-vid par bhot mushkil se dekhti hai originallity..
Me abi working ni hu but jald teacher ka job milega to wai soch rhi thi ki kese krugi bacha dekhu ya ghr smbhalu ya job dekhu but apki condition dekhar lg rha h mera better h qki mere saas sasur h dono babu ko dekhte h saas b adha kam nipta deti h muje bus khana bnana hota h ..I think me krlugi apko dekhar muje bht motivation mila job k liye ..
