Its tough very tough in the Indian society to take a call and cancel the marriage. We took this step a month back for my sister. It really needs lot of courage. The groom side was asking for costly gifts, groom was indirectly asking for a bike and we were asked to give 3L cash, instead of sending it in an account.
Bahut sahi baat kahi ,beti kisi ko psnd kre aur wo accha bhi ho pr uske sath nhi kraynge shadi lekin apni mrji k anjaan k hawaale kr skte h beti ko aur agr wahi insàan baad me bura nikle to beti se kahnge ki koi baat nhi sab aese he hote hain adjust kro. Bahut parents hain jo padhe likhe hain lekin fir bhi unki soch aaj bhi wahi hai purane jmaane wali . Bhale he preshaan hokr mar jaaye wo beti ek din lekin uski khusi me khus nhi ho skte. Aur duniya kehti hai ki maa baap kabhi mtlbi nhi hote🫤
@@godbless1022-rr5futoh naye jawane ki soch kya hai,jyadatar west ki nakal kar rahe apne desh ke log aur ushe modern aur naye jawane ki soch kehte hai balki kisi aur ke culture ko blindly follow kar rahe hai.Har purani soch hamare purvajo ki galat nahi hai par humlogo ne apne sanskriti ko puri tarah chod diya chahe woh achi ho ya buri.
बेटी की शादी में पैसे खर्च करने से अच्छा, दहेज़ देने से अच्छा उसी पैसे से अपनी बेटी को पढ़ाओ और आत्मनिर्भर बनाए । फिर उसके साथ गलत नहीं होगा और होगा भी तो उसे छोड़ कर अपनी जिंदगी अपने हिसाब से जी सकती हैं।🙏🙏 And मेरे पापा ने मुझे और मेरी बहनों को ये मौका दिया है, कभी भी शादी के बारे मैं दबाव नहीं डाला है वो हमेसा कहते शादी जब चाहे करवा दे लेकिन हम तुमलोगो को आत्मनिर्भर देखना चाहते हैं। पापा को कभी भी हमारी शादी की tension लेते हुए नही देखे but वो हमारे career ko le kar bahut tension me hote hai ye hai mere papa, I love you papa 🙏.
@@harpreetkaur5022aap bhi sahi ho...bhavnamuskan7007 bhi theek kah rahi hai... Ek teesra sach ye bhi hai ki ajkal ki jyaadatar ladkiyan apne sasural walon ka jeena mushkil ker deti. hai...
हिंदू धर्म के अंतर्गत शादी अत्यधिक महंगी होती है दहेज प्रथा नेक प्रथा टीका प्रथा बारात प्रथा जैसी अनेकों कुप्रथाएं हैं जो कि गरीब कन्याओं हेतु एक अभिशाप है जबकि इस्लाम धर्म के अंतर्गत विवाह अत्यंत सरल, आसान एवं बिना धन पैसे के निः शुल्क संपन्न हो जाता है न कोई दहेज, नेक, टीका, बारात अतः इस्लाम धर्म स्वीकार करना मानवता को बढ़ावा देना है
Dahej ki vjh se to meri shadi nhi ho paa rhi bt society aisi ki muze bolte h kaise v boys se shadi kr lo vrna age khtm ho jayega....km se society me to hoga ki flane ki beti ki shadi ho gyi ...kumari to nhi rehi...aise society k beech rehna bhot deficult hota mere father v nhi h ar m 3 bhai behan h shadi age ho gya pr paise hi nhi h ki kisi ko dhej dekr shadi kre ...meri mummy hmesa tension me rehti ki shadi nhi ho paa rhi ..meri mummy ko nid tk nhi aati tension se...padosi bolte kaise v boys se kr shadi....plzz aap logon se ye puchhti ki shadi kaise v ho jati h...sari girls aise hi tb to suicide kr le yaa fir dahej ki vjh se jla diya jata ye shi h.....muze shadi kisi se v kr leni chahiye taki society me samne vale ko dikhe ki flane ki beti ki shadi ho gyi..
Aap shaadi kab krti hain wo to aapka faisla hoga lekin me aapse kehna chahungi ki agr sasural accha na ho (bhgwan na kre aesa ho )to aap jayda sehna nhi bhale he alag hokr khud kaam krke jeena pde pr kisi k upr depend hokr uske julm ko na sehna . God bless u dear😊
Aajkal ladkiya bina Shaadi ke independent bhi rahti hein aur Khush rahti hein. Bacche to adopt bhi kiye ja sakte hein. Ghutan bhari Zindagi se to yahi accha hai.
@@MyNewAge haan pr ghr walo ko ye smjh nhi aata hai na aur ldkiyaan hmesha chahti hai ki ghr wale khus rahe to isi pressure me jo ladki shaadi nhi krna chahti wo bechari bhi kr leti hai . Mene bhi kaha tha apne ghr me ki nhi krni uska nateeja ye hua ki ghr me koi baat nhi krta mujhse,poore relatives me mein buri boli jaati hun aur papa to na baat krte hain na mere haath ka khana khate hain bhale he bhuke chle jaaye to papa ki wajah se mujhe bhi maana pda😔abhi hui nhi hai pr doond rhe aur mujhe pta h ki mein nhi reh paaungi shaadi krke kyuki mujhe shaadi se itna dar lgta hai ki uske naam se he panic attack aa jata hai pr duniya nhi smjhti
Don't worry 1 saal baad iss ladke ki fir 5 lakh mei shadii ho jygi ...RIP komal jis samay sarab peekr mandap p aaya tbhi shadi Tod Deni chiye thi 3 betiyon ke papa ko
Arranged marriages are very scary. Larka achha nikla to you are lucky nai nikle to hell. Only we can predict. Very sad news. Dowery ki demand krne wale ghr me kv shadi na kren. Parents ko samjhna chahiy.
It's the fault of girl's parents. How could they move on with the marriage after the groom's family started demanding dowry? Never marry your daughter in such a family.
जब रस्मे चलती हैं तो वो छत पर कैसी चली गई और ऊपर से झालाग लगाई तो सिर पर घाव क्यों नही लगा, ये सब देखकर लग रहा हैं कि ये मर्डर है 😮 उस बहन को न्याय मिलना चाहिए ॐ शान्ति ॐ ❤🙏
Usey suicide krna hota to husband ko uper la kr or fr dubara vej kr fr nhi kudtti khud akely suicide kr letii jb husband ko dekhana he nhi to to koi leker uper q jaega or ly v gya to dubara usy fr wapas vej k q aisa krega ?
Ho sakta hai in future case solve ho jaye but main apne ghr ka experience bta rahi hu jo k bilkul sach hai mere dever ki shadi hui bahut doom daam se shadi kar k ghr aye next day larki ne fansi laga li yeh to shukar hai k jis room mein usne yeh kiya os room ka lock kharab tha os larki ko pata nahi tha meri nanad ne dekh liya usne shor machay sab ikatha ho gaye jaldi se hospital le gaye wo bach gai. Wo to bachi hum b bach gaye
vidayi ke bad rasmo riwaz ke bad ghbrahat ho rhi thi to uske sath kuch to glat hoga behave glat hoga kyuki sasural me pehle din kyu ghbrahat hogi kise ladki ko
Suicide karna hota to akele karti na ki pati ko lekar jati ... Ladka bhaga kyu jaisa aap bata rahe ho ... Ladka drink karta tha to medical aur dusre narco test m sab aa jaayega ki kya hua Police ko jaanch nispaksh karni chahiye ... Taaki aise cases na ho ...
2lac zabardasti account me daal diye bas yahi baat khalne wali nahi heto inhe ye baat khal rahi hai, ye baat nahi khal rahi ke sasural wale aise kaise fenk denge yaar kya pata ladki ka affair ho us se shadi na hone ki wajha se kood gayi ho pechooo
Samaj me bahut ghatnaye ho rahi samaj ko jahez se sarab se bachana hoga aur is mudde par sabhi dharm ke dharm guru von aur netavon aur rashukdaron ko mil kar paryas karna hoga
Bahan aap rajsthan ke nahe ho sayd. Samaj mi rajat ki leyi bite ki bap ko bhut kuch sahan karna padta ha. Ladke ni socha ha Mira Sade mi. Rs. Kharcha ho gaya aab mi yaha sai chodkar chale jauge to samaj mi badname hoge
AAJ KAL KI LADKEEYA DAARU,CIGARETTE YA AUR BHI KAAMO MAY AAGE HAI,THODI HIMMAT DIKHAO AUR MAA BAAP KO APANI ASALI FEELINGS AUR FACTS BATAAYE,SUICIDE IS NOT AT ALL ACCEPTABLE AS PER HINDU RITUALS, SORRY BETA