Mujhe humesa se arrange 😢marriage k naam se hi dar lagta tha.pr aaj aapki baaton se mujhe thodi tasalli mili sayad me ab apne liye ek achha life partner dhoond paun jo mera achha dost bhi bn paaye😊
Same mai bhi yhi chahti hn do din phle hi ldke wale mujhse mile hai lade ke samne apni pdhai ki demand rakhi Maine Jo bhi mujhe lga unhone agree Kiya hai aur maine bol diya directly sadi ke liye ha nhi kr skti mujhe bat krni hai aapse phle Janna hai unlog thik bole because unlog mujhe psand kr liye hai bs mai unse Janna chahti hn meri family wale dat rhe the ye sb kyo kr rhi bharosha nhi hai humlog pe lekin Mera bhi hai ki mai bina jane kisi se sadi nhi kr skti bhale hi Rona pde ya dat sunna pde sb bol di jisko jo sochna hoga soche agr mera dil agree nhi krta hai to mai nhi kr skti wo Kam
Thanks for this tip recently eshi Sunday ko ek ladki ne Muje reject kar diya sadhi k liye insult kar k ki me usse kam pada likha ta and delivery boy ki job karta hu 😢😓
@@AnubhavJain😢 Bhai der se nhi honi chahiye Shadi, wrna bohot suffer krna pdta Hai, I m 35 still searching, pehle bohot ache rishte aate the but greediness, beauty and bad decisions K Karan sb gwa diya
. Sahi kaha apne , mein b suffer krri hu , jb wqt bhot nikal jata h toh choice bhot kam hojati h , ya phr majboori hone lagty h hum ek aesa decision lene ko jo hum dil se nai chahaty situation ke chalty hme acpt krna pade ..
@@navyasingh6127 don't sad God bless u apko acha partner mil jayega sab kismat ka khel h mene to kismat pe chord diya sab jisko aana hoga life me aa jayega time pe apne
Hello sir...Sir mere liye ek vedio bna dijiye....meri shaadi arrange marriage fix huyi thi 8 months sabkuch shi chala.....engagement k 1 month pahle mere father ko pta chala ki.....ladke k bde papa ko skin decease h ...gaw k log to kushth rog bol rhe h....per ladke ki family bol rhi h ki ulta sidha khane se hua h aur ladke k bde papa ko vitiligo yani safed daag h ... mere family bol rhi h ki shaadi ho Jane k baad mere ladki k bacho me v ye problem ho jayegi.....to isliye mere father vha shaadi ni krna chahte h ....lekin mai aur ladke ki family krna chahti thi.....papa ne ladke ki family ko v ab mna kar diya h ki vo ni krenge ab vha shaadi....lekin m chahti hu vhi shaadi krna....q ki ek skin decease ki vajah se shaadi ladke se na krna ye mujhe glt lag rha h ....problem ladke ya ladke k papa me to ni h na.....aur jis bde papa ko ye decease h unki maa dusri thi....ladke k daada ki 2 shaadi thi....1st dadi se bde papa h aur 2nd dadi se ladke k papa h ......m chahti hu ki kaise m apne family ko samjhau....aur kaise dono family me sabkuch pahle ki Tarah thk kr du....plz mere liye vedio bna dijiye....
@@NehaSharma-lz9go agle Janam or when i am reborn or reincarnated again obvious old age who wants to get married and complicate your already free life by been with any men and invite trouble that too at this age child👍😁
Mera love merriage hua hai bhaiya pahla saal thik raha but ab mere husband ki soch mere parati gussa alag hi hai bus unke liye unki maa important ho gyi hai har baat pe meri saas ko lekar jhagda krte hai ki thodi si maddat kr degi khud se to usme bhi mujhe sunate hai tu alsi hai aisa hai tu kisi layak nahi meri MAA kr rahi hai roj ka ho Gaya hai ab unke najro me sirf main kaam krti rahun free time me bachhe ko thama dete hai free ho gyi ho to pakad roj mayke ko gaali galoch karna main kya karoon please suggest kijiye chhod dun ya bachhe ko soch ke adjust kr loo😭😭😭
@@ms45026 mtlb ldke ki age to 30-30+ h lekin. Vo totally apni mummy pe depend krta h, uske kapde nikalkr dena, kub bahr jaega kb ni, kya khaega, kiske sth soega, biwi k sath kb Sona h kb ni, couple ki personal life me ghus jati h ase ldke ki maa, kb bacche krne h. Aur vo ldka kuki hmesha se apni maa pe decision pe dependent rha h to vo apni wife ko b force krta h sb manne ko. Life hell ho jati h mumma's boy se shaadi krke asa ldka kisi b age me mature ni hota. Vo married life kaise sambhalega.
Sar Main Aur Mera Pati Ham donon Ne aapas Mein shaadi kar liya tha Uske bad hamari ek Beti Hai Unki Gharwale Hamare shaadi ko accept nahin kar rahe hain unke Ghar wale apni beta ki shaadi Dobara Karana Chahte Hain Kya yah sahi hai❤❤❤😢
Bhai hmare love marriage ke liye family n man rhi h mera partner प्राइवेट जॉब करते h pr mujhe koi dikkt n h pr meri family ko problem h plz meri problem ka solution btaye
Poonam beta, tumhare boyfriend ki cast aur tumhari same hai kya? Tum kya karti ho wah kis tarah ka pvt job karta hai, kis company me krta aur kis pad par hai. Usaki salary kitani hai
@@anandpandey7589 ha sir hm dono ki cast ek hi h vo एनिमल्स के private doctor h fir v hmari family n man rhi hme mmy इमोशनल blackmail krti h kuch smjh n a rha 8sal ho gye unki family tyar h hmari n
Anubhav sir, market me mukhote lga bathe h log. Jo apki videos me h. Whi same pretend krte h.। Or ander se kuch or hote h. This is all about our karmas. What we did in pre birth. According to this. We will get reverse. Ek, do bar ki meetings se judge krna difficult h. Sb pyaari pyaari batein krte h. Reality usse bhaut alag hoti h.। Aj kl log is cheej ke piche. Ye nhi, toh koi or shi, koi or nhi toh .। Na jane kya hoga is yug ka Jai shree krishna 🙏
Sir mujhe ek Salah dijiye ki mujhe ek widow se pyar Ho gya aur hamare relation ko 6 saal ho gye h Ghar Wale kahin aur rista kr diye h main kyaa karoon mujhe guide kijiye
Bhai baaki sab acha likha aapne...down in color kya hota hai???Nazar nazar ki baat hai....har wo rang acha jo dil ko bha jaye.No offences,just a thought.
Aap to ese bol rahe ho k she is down color hoke bhi aap ne pasand karke upkaar kiya ho unpe....esa nhi hota apka saathi apka he sab kuch uska apka he or accha he..
I'm being forced to get married, and I think after a year or two, I'll have to get married. And I always deny them because I couldn't find any girl in such modern era who has family and moral values with a down-to-earth and empathetic attitude. And I can never spend my life with someone who is arrogant and not-underatanding. It's been years I've never seen a girl that I wish to make my life partner. I'm not someone who wants a hot figure or beautiful face, but a beautiful heart.❤
Kya likhe ho bhai. You are a very good person. Q ki itni acchi soch normal insaan ki ho hi nhi sakti. I wish ki aap zo chah rhe ha aapko wo mile. Radhe krishna
I'm one of this type of girls and I think that who will accept me in this form but Everyone definitely finds their right partner, so keep patience You'll get your right partner ✨✨🙌
😮😮 भौतिकत आ की चकाचोद मै सब कुछ नही दखता है एक बात ओर शादी से पहले ईसान जतना सोचता है। वो सब अनुमान होता है लेकिन जब शादी हो जाति है उसके बाद वैसा कुछ नही होता जैसा पहले सौजा था इसे कहते है अनुभव तीसरा जब कोई चीज हमारे पास नही होती है लेकिन जब वो चीज हमे मिल जाति है उसके बाद क्या वो चीज वैसी निकल पाती है जैसे हम सोचते है नही ना यही फर्क होता है अनुमान और अनुभव मै।
गणेश शिव पार्वती जी राधे कृष्णा जी गौ माता जी गुरू भगवान माता पिता जी मेरी जिंदगी शुभ कर दीजिए मेरी बिगड़ी बना दीजिए मेरी भी ज़िंदगी पार्टनर सच्चा अच्छा बनाइए
Arey bhaiya, ase arranged marriage nhi hota hai bahut sari bihar ke family mein, bus ladka ladki aur family mili, phir ho gya engagement. Aap ek video banao, maa baap ko tip do ki arranged marriage krwate kaise hai, kyuki ye apni conservative spch aur toxicity se bahar hi nhi aa paa rhe hai. Aur engagement tutta bhi nhi hai jaldi, kyuki izzat ka sawaal, engagement tutta hai bus agar ladke ki job fraud ho, banki behaviour pr toh ladki ki family ladki ko hi adjust krne bolti hai. Aap plz ek video banao, conservative families ke liye jo sirf photo aur bank balance dekh kr ladka pasand kr lete hai aur 4 relatives ka baat sun kr hi ki ladka aacha hai.
Hann. Mera bhi aisa he question hai. Like ek rishta aaya sb acha laga. Numbers exchange hue. Baat hue. Phir realise hua that we are not compatible. Tb toh Ghar pe bol skte hai ya nai? Ki yh rishta acha ni h. Dusra dekhte h. Phir toh aise kitno k sth numbers exchange karengey.. but m happy ki meri mom conservative type soch ni rakhti hai. I will ask her this question..
Sahi bat h sir apne delulu me jee rhe yaha to bus 5 min dete h Milne ko usme me na ni krna hota ladki ko ladka kr to chalega.. Uske 1 month bad eng aur 2 mnth me shadi ghanta pta chalega ladke k bare me..😅😅😅😅 Mostly arrange marriages aise hi hoti h metro cities me may be thoda liberal ho
Anubhav ji mein apka samman krti hoon lekin pehle wale example mein ho sakta hai ki ladki us ladke se yeah jannana chahti hoo ki khi vo ladka kal ko uski salary ko leke inferior feel toh nhi krega
Absolutely right choti soch wale kabhi sudhar ni skte...will make your life hell...they dont know meaning of respect...i wish could have seen this video before marriage.
@amazing3954 How to decide: - (1) If you can sacrifice your freedom, privacy, habits, choices, hobbies, time, wealth, energy, resources, reputation, peace of mind for your full life, to get s3x a few times, then marry. (Because "marriage makes you complete.") (2) If you accept partner's dominance and remote control on you, his/her bad habits, anger, diseases, body defects, hidden flaws, hidden past relations, opposite nature, no support, mismatching thoughts and beliefs, then marry. ("Couples are made in heaven.") (3) If you agree to kill your own dreams, wishes and goals, and only worry about your children's growth, future, security, health, food, medicines, hobbies, tours, school fee, college fee, coaching fee, pocket money etc., then marry. ("Babies are fun.") (4) If you can fight anytime at home regularly, then marry. ("They lived happily forever after marriage.") (5) If you can fight court case for many years, then marry. ("Until death do us apart.") (6) If you can face vi0lence/harassment accuses and threats by partner, then marry. ("Marriage is based on true promises.") (7) If you agree to be cheated by partner and cannot do anything, then marry. ("Marriage is sacred bond.") (8) If you accept your children can leave you/ beat you/abuse you/kick you out in your old age, then marry. ("Budhape ka sahara.") (9) If you take 100% responsibility for all bad things like losses, failures, shortages, downfalls, injuries, diseases, accidents, deaths etc. happening to your partner or children, then marry. ("Life becomes 'easy' after marriage.") (10) If you agree to lose everything, get nothing in return and still be happy, then marry.
Yr mere gharwale to arrange marriage karwana chahte hai lekin me kasise use ldke ko haa bol du muze kuch pta nhi hoga ki wo kaisa hai kyuki wo start me to accha bankar hi aayega or dusri ke marzi se shadi kasise krlu muze bhi to kuch quality pasand aani chahiye samj nahi aa rha ki kya karu me
All things mentioned in the video will definitely help you to choose a partner....only I doubt it is the time... you can't discuss all this in one meeting..
@@navyasingh6127aap apne parents ko iss tarah ke shaadiyo ke nuksan ke baare mai btaoo... Apke culture kya har culture mai... Choti soch (narrow minded log) hote hai n broad minded log hote hai... Jo broad minded parivaar honge... Woh samay bhi denge milne ka... Broad minded parivaar se rishta jodo... Broad minded matlab... Expensive kapde.. N caro mai baithne wale nahi... Jo sabhaye... Samjhdar... Log ho... Jo economically independent ho... Pr zameeni log ho.
Anubhav ji aapka har episode se Josh aata hain... Main bht bar fail ho shuka hu Kam dhande mein... But try kar Raha hoon..magar Ghar wale choti choti baton mein jhagra kar k Ghar ka mahol kharab kar dete hain.. mujhe bhi failure ka tana martein hain.. mene Jo Jo accha Kiya Ghar ke acchai ke liye sab bhul Gaye Hain.. kya karu...?? Man bht disturbed ho jata hain..
Dear Viewers, Why not we can live without marriage, when marriage becoming Life destroying torturous mistake, I don't want to spoil my 40 years of life for the security of 15 years of old age life after 70 years which is not guaranteed in today's environment which is deteriorating day by day.
Apki pehli baat hi galat hai.ofcourse ek ladki ki salary ek ladke se jyada ho shakte hai. Ye konsa logic hai k ladki ki salary ladke se jyada nahin ho shakti.kaha rahte ho Vai 😢
Muskurahat masallah bahoot accha laga Aj bhaijaan😊 bahot dino baaad dekhne ko mila wo bhi shadi ke topic paar ye hi to hai muskil ghadi😅😊❤ Jaha decision le pana bahoot muskil hota hai aap ki lambi umad ki kamna karta hoon❤❤❤
@@vishalchaudhary817mostly arrange marriage wahi karte h jinka koi bf ban nhi pata hai isliye chances hai ki ladki introvert ho or uska koi past na ho fir bhi ek baar jarur puchna chahiye. Baki answer to unper hi depend karta hai
@@Qualified.CA.Rishab.sharma introvert single hi hogi aesa bhi zaruri nai chances zada hai yeh Manta hu past check kro bhai sabka fir hi shadi krne ki socho vrna court ka chakkar hi kat te rhejaoga
Meri friend ek ldke se pyar karti hai ldka bahut accha hai understanding behaviour sab kuch hai ldki se bahut pyar bhi karta hai ldki se garib hai gaon me rhta hai gaon wali jindgi hai ldki city ki har facility me rhi hai usko confusion hai ki us ldke se shadi kare ya na kare pta nhi adjust kar paye ya nhi kya shadi karni chahiye faisla lene me uski help kar sakte hai kya aap please reply 🙏🙏
Problems unhike beech rahega jinka pyar sachha nahiho warna koi bi bada problems bi problem jaisa nahi dikhega sachha pyar ke beechpe pyar hi sabkuch Kushi hotihe
Mere yha pe hui hai ldki gao aa gyi shehr ki pyar ke chkkr me achche se rhte hai ldki ko aajadi hai bs bahr jakr private job nhi kr skti ek bat khti hn hai me job nhi milega agr sadi krni hai to bta du option km hota hai job ka
Anubhav bhai ek baat aapse share karna hai last year mei khud ek bohot beautiful looking girl ke sath relationship mei tha mei ek assistant professor hu University mei shayad isiliye usne khud mujhe proposed Kia phirr shadi k liye bhi pucha Maine kuch samay leke haa bol dia Par jab uske khoobsurat chehre ke piche ka insaan samne aaya to mei samaj Gaya asli khoobsurati kya hoti hai Dishonest cheating double game aur allegations na jane kya kya Kia usne wo mere liye kisi mental torture se kam nii thaa.........jiske baad maine usase khud break up kar liaa... Mai ab shadishuda hu meri biwi ek insaan ke taur par mujhse bhi bohot Jada khoobsurat hai Insaniyat caring loyal aur ek strong personality hai sach mei apne Aaj Jo kaha wo 1000% sahi hai..❤
Shadi se pehle haar koi ladki disloyal rahti hai shadi ke baad loyalty hoti hai apki patni se pucho ki shadi se pehle uski kya mansikta thii woh batayegi nahi shadi se pehle ladkiyah yahi sochti hai handsome pati ho amir pati ho
Sir ldke log long time relationship me rhne ke bad fir bolta hy ki sadi ni krunga mere maa bap nhi mannenge tum other cast ho bolte hy fir char bate bolta hy ki sb bolte hy ki love marriage nhi krni chahiye ye sb bolta hy use gyan dete hy bahot se lpg usko ki love marriage mt krna jo gyan drte hy uske ghr me koi kiye hy to sir sbhi log to ek jaise nhi hote hy na 😢😢
Hum har insan ko ek tarah nahi dikh sakte....aur na har insan ek jaisa hota hai aur jo ye sab bol kar chod ke gaya.....bhagwan ko thanks kaho ki bacha liya upar waale ne aise dogale insan se
Sir, saadi se phle hi mne apne husband ko mna kr diya tha saadi k ly, but usk baad bhi mere sadi huee unse ab vo na mujh study krne de rhe na job mere family bhi unhi k support m hai sir es riste m bilkul khush nhi kya kru please btay
Sadi se phle hi mharani or pari bna dete h sister sadi k bad nokrani or bhikari bna dete h islea apko bhikari bnane ki tayari m h islea nhi padhne de rhe
bas ek video ya answer de dijiyega ji, agar kisi insan ne kuch galti ki ho, usko baad mein gusse ke waqt nahi sunayenge, galti ke liye accuse na karenge, aise insan ko kaise pehchane?
Aaj iss Internet Social Media ke Yugg main Insan ke Bhavnayein Bikhar gai, Khatam ho gai hain, Pyaar, Loyalty, Dedication to khatam hee ho gaya. Pariwar khatam sa hota ja raha hai, Paisa Haavi hota ja raha hai.
Nhi sir idhar wo ladki ye janna chaah rahi hogi ki kahi ladki ki salary jyada hai to ladke ko joulous wali feeling to nhi aayegi ,kahi wo is bajah se rude behave to shuru nhi kar dega
Hii sir Mena ek bat apsa pochni thi agr muja koi ek galat bat bol deta ha tu sara din vo bat man c nahi niklti jab ka Mena sab acha kiya hota ha 100 diya hota ha phir v log kuj na kuj suna ka chala jata ha tu bat man sa nahi jati kyavkro Esa
Uper wale ne do kaan kis liye diye hai suno aur bahar nikalo...... sabki sari bate n sunani hoti....kaam ki baat dil dimag me rakho baki dusare kaan se bahar...
Hello Bhiya..Hope u are doing great.. Pls help me - my all cousins have settled abroad over since last year's and they are earning good and enjoying more than me. When i look at myself I do feel the urge to go abroad and have a standard lifestyle but since I'm the only single girl child I'm not able to take the descn emotionally. But then I feel like I have accomplished nothing in my life and I get so depressing..bhiya I have done a lot of hardwork still I'm not able to have a good career with great income...I'm just stuck with a medicore salary. Whats the way how can I get over this feeling and decide my path of life? @Anubhav jain pls make a video
Hi Don't feel like this , we don't know what problems they are facing, as people only show a good part of life on social media and in case you want to raise your income and want a good career you can apply for high paying jobs by Indian government which provide job in India and they also send their employees to foreign land for job purpose only for a particular duration. You can give exams like ssc and bank . In ssc there is a post for IB , IAAS etc and in banks you can Target SBI , it also sends its employees to foreign land. Hope so this is helpful for you.
Same here. All my Frnds n younger cousin r well SETTLE in life. They have good job n best life partner. I m highly educated but unemployed n still unmarried . I m feeling inferior in front of them . I m very hard working n desperate about my carrier. But nothing work . I m feeling suicidal but I m only child my parents love me .I m feeling very depressed but Kya kar sakte h
@@sonujain2348please don’t think of sucide that’s not the solution instead of thinking start doing meditation early in the morning you will see a big difference please think positive.🙏🙏
Sir meri bhi arrange marriage Hui hai par woh Aisa hai ki woh mereko har baat me galat sochta hai har baat ka ulta matlab samajhta h Mera partner na hi na hi toh mere parents se baat kare aur jija ji se kabhi baat nhi karte aur mujhe toh bhut buri samajhte hai khte ghr walon se ladai karti h aur mene arrange marriage ki hui h ek saal hone ko aa rha hai kuch thik nhi chal rha
Earlier I was in a relationship for 10 years but when his parents asked my parents for marriage then my parents refused...I met with a boy 8months ago and he is a good friend for me and he knows everything about my past and he proposed me for marriage but I don't love him he is just a good friend for me but he says that we are good friends and I am fulfilling your parents expectations so we should get married... I don't know my heart is not allowing me to do so ... At the same time Iam thinking that my parents will marry me to someone whom I don't know at all ....what should I do?
Life m har baat hmare hisab se nhn ho skti apko khud Tay Krna h agar wo ladka apko smjhta h apke beech bonding h then u should marry him kyuki aj ki date m apko smjhne wala mil Jaye thoda bhi to life aasan ho jati h
Bhai mujhe toh larke se Milne bhi nhi dia ja rha na hi dekha hai baaki sb toh chhor hi do bs itna pta hai job karne se nhi rokega larka good looking nhi hai but Dr. Hai mai kya karu plz suggest
