शादी में कितना AGE DIFFERENCE सही होता है ? AGE GAP of Couples | Counselling 

Age gap doesn't matter if the guy is a teetotaler, well educated and good looking healthy person.

मेरे भाई ओर भाभी मे 13 साल का अंतर है, लेकीन दोनो बहोत खुश है, एक बेटी है उन्हे. जब शादी हुई थी तब मेरा भाई 36 का था ओर भाभी 23 साल की, हमे लगा था की ये शादी नहीं टिकेगी, लेकीन टिक गयी. I think men having more age is well mentally matured and stable minded person.

मैडम जी मेरी वाइफ मेरे से 6 महीने की सिर्फ छोटी है पर हम दोनों में बहोत ही अच्छा सा प्रेम भाव है आदर और सम्मान है, बिल्कुल एक दोस्त की तरह एक लवर की तरह तो फिर ये कैसे कहा जा सकता है कि 3 से 5साल का गैप जरूरी है या 8 साल का गैप ज़रूरी है, जब कि हमारे में सिर्फ 6 महीना का ही अन्तर है ⚘️

जो पढ़ता है वही दुनिया को पढ़ाता है, आज का किया मेहनत कल रंग लाता है.

Na toh jindagi jeene ka koi hard and fast rule hota h aur na us jindagi se judi cheezo ka...

Exactly age is just a number if mindset is matured than everything is good

Why not 10 year gap? If it is about thinkkng process then it can be fixed.

Absolutely correct. Something today children aren’t ready to understand. Biologically girls mature earlier than boys, so it is practical that difference of 3 to 5 be there for a harmonious and healthy relationship.

My gf is 10 years younger than I

3 se 5 mei age gap.. Aur kya boys hamesha ladki se badi age ke hi hone chahiye mam.. Fr gud understanding

Age difference in male and female fo marriage in city area about 2 year. For rural area 4 year is best

Dr.Sudha Mishra ! Beautiful

Mein 31 saal ka hoo, now I’m thinking about marrying but I couldn’t find partner who is going to understand, what should do mam?

In my neighborhood a girl aged 19 years had married a 39 years old Man. A son was born to them, their son at the age of 31 ( now they are 53 and 73 years old) married a 31 years old girl but within one year got divorced. So from this case it us evident the age gap is not important . What is important is true love and commitment. But the question arises if my sister, daughter would marry a 20 years older guy will I allow her happily to do so, probably not? This is bitter truth. So best thing is 2-3 years ago is normal but their should be true love and commitment. Money, looks doesn't matter

Age is just a number

Minimum age 10 to 12 years distance hona cahiye,Esha honey seyacha bacha respected dono ki andar rahega,

आदर्श जोड़े में कन्या को पुरुष का तीन चौथाई होना चाहिए। जैसे पुरुष ३५ का है तो लड़की को २८ का होना चाहिए।

Meri age 65 hai partner ki 46 Hai tto ham kya kare first partner Ex ho gaye 2 shadi hai Hamare me tyo pyarbhari jindagi chal rahi hai Hal koi problem nahi hai Hum loak pariwar ke sath khush hai tto batawo Age Difference matlab kya Hai ???

age number nhai hakkikat h ... ab hm 18 year ki ladki se marriage nhai kr sktte h na ??

Many thanks Dr.madam

Anything doesn't matter in love Age just a number प्यार अगर सच्चा हो तो कभी नहीं बदलता ना वक्त के साथ ना हालात के साथ.!

Mera 12 year ka gap hai toh ab kya hoga?

sabkuch me bara, but paise me bhikari hai to chalega kya madam??? Yeah wo better hai?

Nice Video 🎉

Our age gap 10 years

Thanku 😊

Thank you mam

Manav jivan se mukti mil jaye bs akhri iCha 🥺🙏🙏🙏

Mam agar ladki ki taraf se cheating hui ho shaadi ke 8 saal baad, tho usse aap kaise resolve karengue. Ladka humble aur good person hai tho unko aap kya advice de sakte hein?? Unmein divorce hona chaahiye?? Ladki depression mein bhi hai aur aise bhi ghatna hogaya tho kaise samjhaye? Kya seperate hona sahi hai???

Yeh duniya jhuth ko hi sach samajh ti hai.sach ko koi nahi puch taa hai.

मेरी प्यारी सुंदर स्लिम बिबीजी मुझसे 12 साल छोटी है, मैने शादीके बाद काॅलेज पढाया,योगा करती है,समाजसेवा भी महिलाओंके साथ नित्य करती है, बहोत खुश है हम!

ना उम्र की सीमा हो ना जन्म का हो बंधन। जब प्यार करे कोई तो देखे केवल मन।

My wife is older 10 years of me But we r living happy life ❤

Madam in my observation age is of two types.Physical age and mental age.A person both male or female should maintain the balance between physical & mental age.We often see a male of 30/35 behaves like teen agers.This is also common in females.That means their physical & mental age is mismatched.The reverse is also true.I mean the personality or maturity of a person which matters.So age difference or same age or 3-5 years gap does not matter.In case of marriage we must match personality of both person.

इसमें life partner की विचार धारा बहुत मायने रखती है!!

In today's time physical age gap is not so important... If you're mentally enough mature

10 to 12 age gap is normal

What about the sexual life if age gap is 18-20 years... because when male will be of age 55 wife will be of only 35...

When me and my boyfriend started dating i was 16 and he was 25( we have 9 year 8 months deference) and now I'm 25 and he is 34 and whe are palning to get merried and you know what he looks more younger than me 😆 fit and handsome

Mam help plz My girl 28 and I am 20 we have 8 yrs difference and we understand each other properly and we am ready to wait bcz I want to be independent first so I can take care of her is it ok na ? I mean should we move a step more to be together na ?

The main thing is the understanding between the twos So age is just a number

See agar love marriage he to gap 30 sal bhi q na ho chalta he qki ye unki marji se hota he .lekin agar aarange marriage he to gap nai hona chaheye .bcos as a human being kisne bola ki ladki choti honi chaheye .iska matla life span aagar 70 sal ka he to ladka to 10 sal pehele mar jayega aur ladki 10 sal bad maregi .age gap samaj ne banayi nature ne nai .to agar arrange marriage he to gap nai hona chaheye .aur agar aapko lagta he ki 5 sal chaheye to fir ladki bhi 5 sal badi accept q nai krte .vo bhi aaceptable hona chaheye .aur agar aaisahi chalta raha ki ladka 35 pr shadi kr raha aur ladki ki juldi Kara rahe to ladke ko to aaisahi lagega na ki young model available he to me q aapne age vali se shadi kru isse marital rape case badhte he .bcos Jo matured ladki he usko pata hota he ki kya galat he lekin agar choti ladki he aur uski shadi 35 sal k aadmi se horahi to vo sehem jati he dar jati he .yahi galat he .bcos vo ladki har bat sunti he us aged aadmi ki .isliye ye gande rapist ko choti ladki chaheye hoti he .aur aapne desh abhibhi marital rape ma kanun nai he isliye ye log choti ladki se shadi krte he .aapne desh me 85 percent marital rape hote he .reg ek bhi nai hota .

लड़की / लड़के की माँ / बहन कान भरने बाली हैं या समझाने वाली, अब 90% शादियां इसी पर सफल असफल हैं । शेष पति पत्नी समझदार हैं तो उम्र का अंतर गौड़ हो जाता है,लेकिन यह निर्णय जीवन में आयी अवांछनीय परिस्थितियों के बाद जीवन को फिर से शुरू करने के लिए दो तरफा हो तो ठीक अन्यथा केवल शारीरिक आकर्षण के वशीभूत लिया गया निर्णय साल दो साल में पश्चाताप के सिवा कुछ नहीं देगा। 🙏🙏

I don't want to marry anyone, please tell me how to spend life without marriage.... I am just afraid what will happen in old age i am just 23 now

मेरा 12 साल का अंतर है

Kya baat kartee hain madam same age ke ladka ladki hi sabsey acha match hota hai. Pahlye jamaney me ladke padhye likhy hotey they par ladkiyon ki padhayee kaha hoti thi..? Dusari baat ladka ladki ko control kar sakte ye policy hoti thi...warna kon ladki hogi jo bina kisi ke samjhaye kisi budhy se shadi karegi.

M husband is 13 year elder then me ..but he is very sweet .and we are happy together....

Aap agr sach mein Pyaar Karte ho to koi age wage nhi hota. Ye sab bakchodi hota pyaar agr dono side se hai or nibhane ki himmat hai to ishwar ka naam lo or strt karo apni lyf. Gyaan dene wale hazaar ke bazaar honge apko or aapke partner ko apdono pe bharosa hai ki aap saath mein reh kar ek acchi Life G sakte ho to koi problem nahi hai

Mam after marriage sexual relationship kitna Mayne rakhata hai Please suggest me

21 की लड़की और 35 का लड़का सही है या गलत mam

To those who say age doesn't matter, they should get married to people of ages between 60 to 80 years 😑

Mam,you tell everything on get married.Therefore you are a good marriage counselor.

Age should be for female - 25 to 30 Male - 30 to 35.

At 40 I was considered too old by women of 35 she had not even seen me Or my pic

Aaj k time 3-5 year se jyada gape shi nhi same age ya 1-3 year ka gape thik h kyuki aaj ka khan pan or jo brahmacharya phle hi nast ho rh h uske karn sex m satisfied nhi hoti ldki kuch time bad...

Koi Age difference mayne nhi rakhta ydi love marriage ho to.age ki baat arrange marriage me dekhi jati rhi or dekhi jaati rhegi..😁😁😁😊😊😊

Hlo mam 17 saal ka gap thik rhega ya nhi understanding to bhut achi h to kya krna chahiye

Last may aakr yhi niskrsh niklta h ki agr dono ek doosre se khus h to age gap mayne ni rkhta

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I am 33 working in Bangalore and my girlfriend is 29 but she is emotionally immature. How do I make this relationship work for marriage? I have to explain, guide her every time for each and every thing.

Mere husband our mujhme ३ yr k diffrent hai mai ३ yer badi hu but I m fel very comfortable ,,,lov yu my dear husband,and mere husband bhi bahut khus hai ,,no problem ,,,😘😘😘😘❤️❤️❤️

मुझे एक + 30 महिला मित्र की तलाश है, कोई भी गरीब, विधवा, परित्यता, कोई भी ऐसी दुःखी महिला, मेरे साथ में रहना चाहती हो, तो मैसेज करे,, में जॉब करता हूं, और किराये के मकान में रहता हु, मेरा अपना कोई भी नहीं है, Age 37 Hight 6.1 Whight 76 Jaipur Rajasthan,

Madam me 24 ka hu aur vo 28 ki , abb shadi ka pressure banahe ladkike Gharse, me dikta 27/28 jaisahihu, abb ghar walo ko kaise convince Kare?

Mere khayal see jaisi meri soch h ...age mile ya na mile vichar milne chahiye,,

कोई गेप की जरूरत नही होती है दिल लगा परी से तो फिर क्या पया हो तो बुढा कीसी से शादी कर लेते है

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What happen when Age of Girl is about 40 yrs, then what would be gap?

गृहस्थी को घर का और परिवार का ध्यान रखना चाहिए , संतान को योग्य एवं संस्कारवान बनाना चाहिए फिर चाहे जितना गैप हो। एक आदर्श जोड़ा वही होगा जो अपने उत्तरदायित्वों का निर्वाह कर सके🙏

Kya ma'am 4 year boy girl se chchota ho lekin understanding bahut achchi ho to kya marriage karni chachiye

5/7 to 10/12 years.12 years age ke andar kar lena hi thik hai.

10se12sal.narmal.h

Mam 7 years age gap chl skta hai?? Ldki badi hai. But hum dono k bich understanding love care sb kuch bohot acha hai

प्रणाम मैम, आपको दस वर्ष बाद देख- सुनकर बहुत अच्छा लगा। मै आपका छात्र, बीएड 2012 लखनऊ

18 year ka age gap sahi hai ya nahi hai? Can anyone tell

Maine 28 ka hu o 20 ki but maine dikhta hu sirf 24 ka o bhi mujhe pyar karti per Maine use age abhi tak 25 hi bataya hai, o maa nahi ban sakti uska accedent hogya tha Uterus me problem hua, doctor ne bola ki aap maa nahi ban sakte phir bhi uske liye ready hu.

Mam,, wife 3 sal badii chalegi kyaa... Boy 28...girl 31..match hoga kyaa

Agar ladki...ki age..ladka..se..jada ho to...ladki...ldka se...3 years..bdi ho...to...plz..batayie..🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

सचिन तेंडुलकर और उसकी पत्नी में कितने साल का अंतर हैं मालुम हैं क्या,वह सचिन से बडी हैं

If the girl is 3-4 years older than the boy

Aapke husband or aapke beach age difference kitna h mdm

लड़की की उम्र कम हो, ऐसा ही क्यों सोचा जाता है।

Please suggest me there is 9yrs gap in arrange marriage is it ok or not I'm really worry about know. So much stress in my mind i don't know how to overcome hustle....... Suggest me

Ma'am aap bahut achchha se samjhate h or yhi hona bhi chahiye

मैं 28 का हूं और मेरी पत्नी 18 की है। हम दोनो बहुत आनंदित है जीवन में । 😊

Thank you so much mam 💖😊

teena daabi married a super handsome peaceful guy.......who was of her age ........ next time she married a divorcee who is 13 years elder to her....and not handsome like the peacefull guy

मैम मेरी बहन 27 साल की हो गई है उसका कॉलेज भी कंप्लीट हो गया है और आगे पढ़ाई करने या कुछ चीज़ सीखने की प्लानिंग भी कुछ नहीं है || उसके लिए काफी अच्छे-अच्छे रिश्ते आ रहे हैं लेकिन वह उन्हें ठुकरा देती है यह कहकर कि मुझे अभी शादी नहीं करनी || मेरे पिता नहीं है हम दो भाई और एक बहन है जिसमें सबसे बड़ा भाई है, फिर बहन है और फिर मैं ... हम क्या कर सकते हैं कृपया जरूर सुझाव दें मैं आपका इंतजार करूंगा 🙏🏻💙

जय श्री कृष्णा 🙏🙏

I am 35years old but girl is 20 years old parents force to married to her what can I do

Mam, ek genuine question. I am in mutual love with almost 12 year older women than me. I am 28 and she is 40. Is it fine?

Mere husband ka or mera family matter chal rha hai.. husband mere apni student k aage mujhe kuch nhi samjhte rakhna bhi nhi chahte... Mujhe ek lady lawyer ne kaha to kya hua rakha hai to raho aise hi kitne din gali dega... Mere liye bahot hi shocking tha... Ek lady hokar k vo aise bol rhi thi 🥺

Wife is19 and husband is 30 its normal?????plz reply mam

Is 8 years of age gap OK..?

मेरे और मेरे धर्म पत्नी की बीच 12 साल का अंतर है। शादी से पहिले सोच रहा था शादी करू या ना करू। फिर मैने एक psycology के 'किताब बे पढा अंतर की नंबर है। age गॅप कितना भी जीसको undersganding पे सब depend है। वरणा। कम age। गॅप मे कभी diverse नही होता

Very nice explanation❣️

Thanks for sharing 🙏🙏 Excellent analysis 💯% Always stay bless 🎁

Governments jobs wali ladki ghamandi hoti hai Jo male us se much salary earning karega per months uske 7 marriage karegi

10 se 12 sal different hona cahiye ishye dono ki shamjha acha hoga, ek women ko age diffrent honey se swami ko acha inata dega, swami chota kam age keyliye thoda jada pyar dega wife ko, sex bhi acha milega mature keyliye

So wonderful counseling ma'am

Maam girl exject 7 year chhoti h ...kya mai sadi kar sakta hu ..thodi bhoot bat ko chhod de to baki sari baten match karti h hmare beech 🤔?