सपने, उम्मीदें और नाकामी: UPSC के असफल एस्पिरेंट्स की सफल कहानियां 

Hi Harshit, Thanks for writing in.

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@@ThePrintIndia recently on 31st August one article was on NITIPATH scheme in Hindustan newspaper....which seems to be very much similar to AGNIPATH scheme .... After lots of struggle student get selection in UPSC and if there will be uncertainty in job after selection then how student will get motivation towards this exam? Sir I just want to know your unbaised point of view on this.......please reply to my question🙏🏻 Thanks

I agree

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Dhukhti Nas par hath rakh deya bhai tumnai merai father nai vaisai mujai kabhi kisi chiz ko karnai kai leyai force nhi keya but abhi mai khud ki marzi sai upsc ki taiyaari kar rha hu and vo boltai hai ki 1 st attempt mai nikal lena loog faltu he 3-4 saal laga detai hai and when I talk him about a backup he say backup ki kya zarurat hai agar Mehnat karogai too kyu nhi niklega mai unhai kaisai samjhau upsc demands hard work but hardwork is not only one factor for selection specifically in UPSC...

​@jingelbell470 same here

During my 20s, after graduation from IIT, I also had family pressure to pursue UPSC but being good in Mathematics, I found that the success rate was 0.0001% so I immediately gave up the idea of entering this $hithole. Today I am proud of my decision, I spent my 20s cheerfully, spent quality time with friends, later got married with my love. And today living a comfortable life with my family without any remorse 😊

​@@kids_tution4890IIT se padhne ke baad log UPSC karna ki sochne ki himmat kaise kar lete hai, according to me they are doing criminal activity of snatching opportunity of inferior opportunity 🤬

Fact bola

He is depressed person even today.. It reflects in his teaching.

@@sid2372 that's sad;

Its true..👍

@@sid2372 he was deeply ambitious and experienced unfortunate failure for his ambition! Any sane person would get depressed because he is very responsible person, hardworking and intelligent person! So, I hope he redeem himself!

@@sid2372 somehow everyone is depressed until one achieves enlightenment or don't know the purpose of life !! And. Don't be silly, ok!

*Lawyer ki studies pehle hi ki thi ki 2015 k baad se shuru kiya tha?*

Yes

Law kaha se kiya??

Tbh, you lost more. Whatever u may have today do not justify what precious time and people you lost, people who cared for you. I hope you have a happy life ahead. And dear so called aspirants, stop being a fool. Don't fall into the trap of society or coaching centers or media focus on toppers, and start thinking that ur dread is upsc. You'll be fooling yourself, life will be full of dejection, sorrow and pain, and only you're to blame

@@ranveerjaipuriyar0710 chal bhag yahan se.

Total of PT also?

@@piyushmate3837 no

In the end he got nothing 😢 He will remain depressed for whole life

​@@Kuldeep_yadav0001 he'll definitely not, but you will surely.

@@sd33252 oo bhai? Ham ko hamari kaabiliyat pata hai, Isliye hum to choti job ki tayyari karte hai Tu apni dekh

Absolutely!!!

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From a UP aspirant to a hard-core WWF wrestler, priyambda has covered a long way.

Jb bccho pdhana hi tha toh PhD kr lete aur professor bn jaate kuch haasil toh hota 3 baar m hi nhi hota toh samjh jaana chahiye ki nhi hoga

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If u dedicate all of ur energy towards ur goal. U shall definitely achieve it there wouldnt be a need for plan B - Maj Vivek Jacob (9 Para sf )

@@ashishm5763 bhai lekin goal to sirf utne hi achieve kar sakte he jitni vacancy he

@@Yash_mudotiya bhai cutoff k liye mehnat krega toh cutoff he clear hogi. Aspire for merit and highest score in the process.- this was said by a friend whose currently serving.

@@ashishm5763 bhai jab tak desh ka yuva coaching ke chakkar kat ta rahega merit me aane ke liye me to kehta adani jese 3 se 4 log or aa jaye taki sab kuch private ho jaye or sarkar ko bhi officers contract basis pe lene chahiye n ki pure 60 saal ke liye

@@Yash_mudotiya its already reality now. Past two afcats only SSC vacancies. PC vacancies only for NDA and NCC guys.

Don't worry everything will be fine❤️

Hey just don't worry Jitna hardwork upsc me kiya tha ab apne job ya carrer ke liye kro or sth me pcs try krte rho

Please don't lose hope.. Parents and all relatives love you but they love money as well. Don't bother. Find innovative ways to restart your career. As you have very high logic and hard working capabilities, you will easily surpass industry experts and veterans.

😢 Almost a similar story of mine. I was a topper too. But Instead of a Gov job or private job, I decided to become a businessman. 8 years have passed, but I have not been successful yet. Parents are unhappy. I am depressed and just keep praying to God...

Sorry to hear that bro, but I have also wasted my 4 years doing GATE and M. Tech(not completed) and then switched to IT now I have 2+ years of experience and earning decent money.... You should also try different fields like AI & ML, Full Stack Development or whatever you think has a good future....Take rest and start a fresh journey. Best of luck brother

Damn True 1000%👍

We know.

Par lekin us elimination ke chakkar me aapki Puri jawani chali jaaye lagbhag jewwan ke 40 saal aap gum ho gaye

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@@rupamtiwari8031 folks who are smart know that preparing for upsc or mpsc is age growing game in other way so wise thing imo is finding a good paying job in private sector.

I stand with you. Please make continue making these type of videos - series !

Exactly this is the other side of upsc

Yes ...well said

Umesh please have a look at Greylife for such stories in detail - ru-vid.com/show-UCuvn_l2UXW1DnMUbYiTrVPwvideos. Thank you!

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I have an opportunity for you , pls connect

Glad you realised it sooner.. All the best

Definitely brother. As an ex-upsc aspirant, my humble advice will be to form a back up. It'll definitely be bitter but it's a medicine which people like us have to take.

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Aspirants doesn't even touches the fabric of upsc journey, that was more bout friendship and love

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@@xavier6956 💯

Polity also 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️...

@@pragyanbharrti18 yes offcourse 😊

@@Manish-cc5jf kyu ?

All rounder

My best teacher in STUDYIQ

बस यही एक ऑप्शन बचता है अपने आप को दिलासा देने का। कोई बात नही कही तो फायदा होगा इसका। यह विचार एक छलावा है। 😊

@@anurag_gaur koi fayda nahi hota khud hi Khud ka dekhna hota hai

Acha insan apko koi padhai nhi banati, bahot se civil servants bhi corrupt hote hain aur marital abuse karte hain..acha insan banna apki ek khud ki bahot badi personal achievement hoti hai usme kisi aur ka hath nhi hota it's the Devine wisdom. Jise kharab banna hoga wo ashram me rehkar nhi kharab ban sakta hai.

Mujai too bina attempt deyai he samjh aaa gya a😂😂 ........mazak tha but haa mai shayad phas jada es upsc trap mai but mujai samajh aaa gya ki mera kabhi sapna tha he nhi IAS ban nai ka yai so called coachings daal ti hai aapkai mind mai

Lekin Dil main hamesa afsos raha jata hain.."jeeta tha jiske liye..uske liye Marta tha.."

Being a gal, everyone told me dont go in all these exams. Only if ias happens it is good. 😅 I am an engineer and so IT was the only fall back option if not upsc 🥴

Hello sir, I'm an aspirant myself and appearing in this ib exam next week, can you please give me important tips or advice.. I'd be very grateful ❤

@@hope4017 All of the preparation should be done by today. Just revise the important points or your notes and relax. The more you relax in the examination the more marks you'll score. And trust me IB ACIO is one of the best jobs if you really have a passion to serve your country. Best of luck :)

@@inspectorsiddarthruriya2234 thank you sir ❣️

​@@inspectorsiddarthruriya2234I am going to start my preparation for this exam can you please tell me what lectures of Amir sir you referred to? Also, please tell me strategy for all subjects in brief.

Well said 👍

Inspiring

The problem is with upsc war is that it took almost half of life a upsc aspirant Who are not able to become ias or IPS plus a failed upsc aspirant becomes psychological problem

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Absolutely we have to chase for peace and happiness...😊

@@rashmigpt8361 ji nice thinking. True happiness and joy is the real life. Many are at high post but not everyone happy. It is is internal happiness and peace which must be and which indeed is the true life. There are many who got success in upsc Iit and other exam but not necessary that everyone got internal happiness and peace . A person who don't got the love of any one of relation like parents brother sister wife children and all others his life is hell.

@@sudarshansingh109 yes true goal of life should be peace and happiness.

J Baat

Arts students upsc? Bruh all students upsc.

​​@@jinfin221 now from last few years that students from all branches are appearing due to unemployment but earlier it was mostly arts/humanities students.

@@manaspratimdas707 Due to unemployment? Bruh wtf it's mostly IITians that top the exam. Sometimes it's arts students but only when their father/mother is already a Bureaucrat eg Dhabi and that Jain guy.

In the end she also had to clear an exam😂😂. Ultimately we all are in the same boat

IIT only 2 attempt, 12th and 13th, how it is a trap?

Hi Prashant, Sorry to hear that. Hope things are fine now.

What are you doing Now?

@@astronaut9276 continued with previous job

@@prashantkumar555 which sector brother 🤔

@@prashantkumar555 in which sector bro ? nd wht's ur JOB

Not all indian parents...

@@shahranhussain2253 what do you do ? They invested all their saving then u must have achieved something big...so..what do you do ?

Don't blame them It's you who wanted it

IIT too...

@@fifadash....856 why?

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In india every competitive exam is overhyped

@Pragnesh Kumar same happened with me during JEE , I was interested in programming but due to our education systems i had to study PCM , eventually i failed in JEE , took admission in a private college now I'm in my 3rd year already done two internships and i have a PPO too , even I'm writing this comment during my Lecture 🤧 , If you learn from the journey it will always be worth , but I've seen people getting depressed and demotivated after they fail to crack an exam

True 🥲

Ekdam sach

Hats off sir...you are great human being 💥

what are you doing now?

Can you share your experience with us please ? 😊

Can you tell your medium???

What's your experience

Same thing I want

If you have to chosse again, what you gonna choose?

Well put !

Hi Varun, Thanks for writing in.

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same i got tears as well

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when we start preparing ..we dont realise what is at stake ..... but after the journey end we regret ...what we have lost..

@@Vikas-rx3gv very true 👍🥺

guiness world records k lie kya prepare kia?

@@Pixiefairy783 how I failed for 14yrs for Government Job and Made Guiness Book of World record But I think it is easy broke record after all this So called India

@@AmarSingh91367 moreover I tried for coveted government jobs for 14 years while being in a government job for 14 years. I am working in SBI for past 14 years.

@@Aajkashravankumar just enjoy your life man!!

@@Aajkashravankumar are u a po in sbi?

Dear Nidhi, I cannot express my happiness after reading your mail. It filled me with joy that my story made you feel this way. I wish all the good things will happen to you. Thank you so much. Keep reading my stories. Warmest regards, Nootan

@@ThePrintIndia Thankyou Nootan for such a sweet reply.. I'll definitely read all ur stories.. not just bcoz u gave such a sweet reply but also bcoz u have an eye for talking about the less talked about things.. Keep on writing such good stories..🤩😄

Exactly

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Tbh, I didn immersed myself in books and may be I am not selected but seeing that after giving so much what if I fail and the regret if you don't study. This stress eventually made me realise that I am happy with corporate job. I don't want to be proved as a failure, I will do along with job. I want to live life and expectations kills. I took a lot of time to transition from ias to private jobs but both are good. Also a lot of people who wasted my, time during prep don't even talk now, behaves weirdly. I laugh and feel I should have given more time to studies rather than uselsss relationships tht don't care about ur existence. Now I enjoy life, feel regretful about wrong choices and people whom I was friends with who took away my positivity. But anyway, law of karma works. And I hope I will be successful in earning money as much as I want by learning skills rather than daydreaming and wasting my time. No social connect isolation was never my cup of tea that I realised later. I am happy studing for shorter duration and I was a topper thruout anyway, I wanted to opt for this but I think this is not for me. I wasted a lot of time to even leave upsc but I think this is right for me.

Yes right 🌟

He is lying

@@preetitiwari6018 in what sense

@@user-tg4ts7qt3x the struggle he is talking about n saying his sob story that he was so close to selection n didn't get selected but the fact is he never ever even cleared mains....one should be mindful while being a role model...one should not lie on their shortcomings n be truthful

@@preetitiwari6018 wow preeti I appreciate the wrong knowledge you have and the audacity to comment about someone without knowing their whole story. Good luck mate!

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Bro you have l5s1 herniated discs ?

I have similar journey as you , had a major spinal surgery. Also gave my attempts ..left with nothing. Hope your life is good now.

I didn sacrifice such things, so may be I am not in the list but also I felt that what if I had done all this and did not clear. I am happy like this only at least I know that I could have given more time to upsc but it's depressive journey was not something that I can pull it off. Selection is meagre. It is a waste of time I would suggest to go and do a job and enjoy life. Upsc will tear u up that even after hard work u won't get anything. None of my friends cleared. Wastage of 6 years. You will be proud initially but after a while u ll realise that huge competition and selection is 0.001% . I tell myself that it's ok may be I could have studied but corona and everything didn let me study. But transitioning to other field also takes time when I knew my efforts could hve been more. Imagine what people who have studied so hard didn clear. Their mental strength must have gone to zero. How much taunt they have to hear even I hear at times. But anyway I am out of it and I am happy.

I did not want to sacrifice my family and loved ones for an exam whose percentage of selection is less than 1 %

Yes is upsc selection is valuable but not more valuable thany my family and loved ones and little bit of my life

​@@Ana-vd1rlwow great 😊

How's your journey now 😊

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Sahi baat bhai

He might be a good teacher but he is lying about facing interview...he has never cleared mains

Main reason is population. Secondly the lustfulness of previous generation.

@@sidhkon8543 True indeed.

​@@vivekkumar1726 may you do great in life brother life is tough please don't quit in life ❤❤❤

brother u will do great in life

Now what's you doing dear I hope you are fine in life

I don't think age should be reduced, One should always have a back-up, for humanities like CTET NET State TET etc for science graduates as well Engineering graduates generally enter into the journey after they have worked somewhere in the past,

@@lalitgautam9118 yes agree . Govt should create a large pool like this sports authority

@@lalitgautam9118 this is the way. Win-win for all. Aspirants will come with experience and skills which can help them in case upsc doesn't work out. Govt also benefits by selecting people who have practical work experience and work ethic.