உண்மை அது தான் அடம்பிடிக்கும் பிள்ளைகளே பிற்காலத்தில் பக்குவம் கொண்டவர்கள் ஆகிறார்கள்..... கேட்டு பின்பற்றிய பிள்ளைகள் ஒரு வட்டத்திலே இருந்து கொண்டு இருக்குகிறார்கள்....
குழந்தைகள் ஒரு பொழுதும் தன் அம்மாவை இன்னொரு அம்மாவுடன் ஒப்பிட்டு பார்க்காது.... What a fact!!!! Parents shld really understand kids and act accordingly.m
Its wrong ,, my daughter asked me & compared me with a lady next to my house comparing that she is going for work but are you going for work ,, so i won't accept that all kids are in same mentality ,, my hubby earns a lot & gives money to my grown up daughters but i don't have nothing to give from my side & so i don't get respected from my own daughters itself & they are not properly speaking with me too & I am left alone after 25 years of married life ,, they 3 of them are in one side n left me alone in another side .....
Parents உம் சின்ன வயசுல தப்புக்கு மேல தப்பு பண்ணி தான் வந்திருப்பாங்க, ஆனால் அவங்க என்னமோ வானத்துல இருந்து குதிச்ச மாதிரி, பிள்ளைங்கள போட்டு புரட்டி எடுப்பாங்க
நான் 1996 ல் பிறந்தேன்.சின்ன வயசுல மத்தவங்க சொன்ன எல்லா விசயத்தையும் குருட்டுத்தனமா நம்புனனாலதான் நான் இன்னைக்கு கஷ்டப்படுறேன்.இப்போதான் எனக்கு புரியுது இந்த உலகத்துல நான் கத்துக்கிட்ட விஷயத்துல பாதியளவு கூட அவங்க கத்துக்கல. பெரியவங்களோ சின்னவங்களோ யாரு எது சொன்னாலும் அத குருட்டுத்தனமா நம்பாதிங்க.அது நம்மள புதைகுழில தள்ளிரும்.
I was also like that before marriage, but after marriage I faced a lot because I did not know to take my own decisions in life, always listened to my parents only. Faced lot of issues as husband wanted me to take my own decisions and not depend on others or get approval from others for decisions I took. But i was scared what if others did not approve my decision. Now only I realise not everyone will approve, but you need to do what is good for you.
Well said sir🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 பெற்றோர்கள் எவ்வளவு தான் தன் பிள்ளைகளை மற்ற பிள்ளைகளோடு ஒப்பிட்டு பேசினாலும் நம் பிள்ளைகள் எப்போதும் நம்மை மற்றவரோடு ஒப்பிட்டு பார்ப்பது இல்லை.🙏🏻🙏🏻
I think I'm 50% blessed. Bcz even though lower middle class family. My parents gave all the things, whatever I want. But they didn't understand my feelings. Always compared me with my siblings/neighbours. And they not ready to hear what I want to share. So that I fall in fake love. And wasted my 2 yrs 😒. Finally he left me. Now I understand my family. I love them from the bottom of my heart❤
😭😭😎😎😎you are awesome....when a person accepts his/her mistake, he/she is better than anyone 🔥🔥🔥 Jesus loves you Let JESUS shower his salvation on you🎉🎉🎉
Intha video paatha ellarum epdi feel panninga nu therila but nan romba lucky nu feel panren ennoda Appa and Amma rendu perumey enkooda romba friendly ....feeling so proud of my parents and I am blessed to be their child❤❤❤
மிகவும் அற்புதம் கோபிநாத் 👌🏻 ஆனால் ஒரு சின்ன திருத்தம் என்னவென்றால் “மால்ல கிடந்து உருளனும் அதுதான் நல்ல பிள்ளை” நீங்கள் இப்படி சொன்னால் பிள்ளைகளும் சில பெற்றோர்களும் தப்பாக எடுத்துக்கொள்வார்கள் எப்படி என்றால மாலில் உருளாத பிள்ளைகள் , நல்ல பிள்ளைகள் இல்லையா என்ற கேள்வி எழும் அல்லவா
I think this is what we always feel have you guys ever visited mall as gopinath sir said we do window shopping don't buy anything but we feel we need that but we can't I once read a quote by sharukh khan his mom always tells him he should never cut down his expenses rather than he should find how to increase the income Poverty everyone faces we have to see how we can overcome such things in life we live to fulfill not just to give excuses I hope you will overcome this situation and become successful
Thank God I got a superb mom 😊. She never compare me with others and I share everything with my mom. Still now I don't hide any secret. I share everything, and my mom give me better advice. No one can understand me better than my mom😍❤❤
Amma na amma matumthan engamma avlothan... No one comparing their mom with other mom... Naala engappa adija 2days pesamate... But en ponnu ore mins tha apove pesirva...super sir
தனக்கு வேண்டியதை கேட்டு அடம் பிடப்பதில்லை தப்பில்லை ஆனால் எதற்கு என்று ஒரு முறை இருக்கிறது எல்லாவற்றையும் கேட்டு அடம்பிடித்தால் அது வேறு விதத்தில் தான் போய் முடியும்
Agreed, this guy was saying nonsense. Child must ask not to ask in a stubborn way. But I agreed and not to compare them with other kids. Let them grow the way the happy with with lots off love and affection and valuable freedom.
Ungluku avaru sonathu purila. Avaru veru dress, things matu solala. Natural ahve Oru ponnu ku onu venum na atha adampiduchu adayanum nu solraru. Onu kekranga vangi tharla na apo taan namlae vanganum nu thonum. Athuku namaku nu Oru velai venum nu thonum. antha ponnuku pudicha velai ah seiyanum nu nenaikum. Athukaga adampudikum. Sila mukkiyama decisions ah adampudichu taan eduthaganum. Illana appa Amma solratha ketutu ukanthuka vendiyathu taan. Saagura varaiku entha decisions um eduka mudiyathu nu soli amukiruvanga. Enala ithu mudiyum nu kaamikavae Oru ponnu adampudichu taan kaatavendi iruku. Apo taan parents namburanga.
Idhai dha avarum solraru. Naalu per paakranga alugatha nu dha namma solvom which is not right. The child shud be determined on what they want irrespective of the ppl surrounded by them.
I did not enjoy my childhood.....I struggled very hard and got seat in iit to do mtech but my parents did not allow me as all the neighbours children are getting married after btech..but I was adamant to join there and went to extreme to join and they accepted finally....but I was feeling guilty whether I had hurt my parents in this journey but I after seeing video I am feeling okay
I really do no abt ur family background.only based on our comments I'm trying to reply u. Nw it only aim should be in excelling in M.Tech. Performing well in ur m.tech,and getting good placement will make your parents proud.so don't think that if u have hurt it parents. The only duty s 2 make them proud...s.my daughter had done it. Getting into such prestigious s v.hard and by the way u r talented.make use of it!!!!
Don't worry. Practically speaking, they might have got hurt. But you have to accept that you cannot take a decision without hurting someone. There is always going to be someone who's disappointed with you. In this case, it's between you and your parents. They might have got hurt. But definitely they would have felt happy when they saw you happy.
Crt sir..... Childhood days ah enjoy panna mudiyama, athigama stress pressure ku aalaagi,,, ippo adult age la athigama kovam varuthu...... Athigama ellarayum verukkirean... I don't know the reason..... But i hate my surroundings... Relatives..... Society...... And I'm getting irritation😖 when they start the cruel topic"MARRIAGE".. I don't know, why I'm hating all relationship.... Just I need loneliness.... Just I need a chance to express my emotions..... But still .... I'm perfect girl in the view of my family.....
Yes , my schl kids speaks with me so cutely, 😊 I listen wat ever they say, parents also asked me how u r listening to them , we never listen wat they are telling.
💯enga Amma appa great... Amma na school pooi vantha utaney enkuta pesuvanga ena natanthuchi miss ena sonaga nu pesipom... Athey regular achi na yelamey share panuven engaa amma ku theriyatha secret onumey enkita ela best frd enga Amma tha vera frds ila enaku .. 🥰🙏
Valid point.... Pullaiga ammava compare panathu... Chance eilatha tips to realize our mistake... Semma sir.... Lot lot changes in me.... Before 7years iam following ur words... Bt needs to change more
Nice vdo sir ❤ when I watch this automatically my tears will came bcz me tooo suffer in this incident.. I can't frankly convey my feelings to my parents they don't like me and understand me in any situation ... thank you for this 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Amma appa vaa mata ninga try panadingaa nama avalvoo tapu panunalum ada manicuu atukaratuu nama Amma appa matum than enna adipngaa tituvangaa Amma appa than vangikivom... so Amma appa vaa mata try pandainga ungalaa apdi alla kasta nilaiulum namaloda Amma vum appa vum valakaranga ngaa ada kavaningaa so allakarama paskudatuu
Enna ama! nama ullagatula irukaa karanama our Amma vum appa vum than... Terium laa... Amma appa vaa matamudiyaduu ninaikadingaa ...ipdii Amma appa vaa pasaradaa nama apa matikaa poram ngarada ada pati yosingaa... Evalavoo kastatulaa irundalum supportive vaa irukaraduu namaloda parents than... Namakuu tevaiyanaa alla tavaikalaium seiuratum parents than...
Parents ahh ningaa matadingaa epdii parents ahh pasuradaa nama epaa matikaa porom ngardaa first yosingaa... Seriyaa...Namakuu Ella sulnilaiulum kastatulaium namaku tevaiyanaa senju kodukaraduu apram oru supportive vaa irukuraduu namaloda Amma vum appa vum than... First try to understand our parents expectation with us...ok vaa...
