This was exact reason why i broke up with my girlfriend. She got influenced by insta and was trying new things every weekend. initially i trying those things for a month but i didn't suit me. when i tried to explain this, she was like enaku athalam teriyathu ne panni tan aaganum. you have to explore new things but same way you have to respect each other.
Appo neenga break up pannadhu la thappe illa. Nalla vela kalyanam varaikum pola. Kalyaanathu ku apporom enna lam nadandhurukumo. Thideernu veetu motta maadi laye bungee jumping panna sonnaa eppadi irukum. En aathu kaarar thala keezhaa dhaan kudhipaar nu solli ungala kaiyithu la katti thonga vitruvaanga. Adha unga pondaati video eduthu makkale paarunga our home made bungee jumping nu insta la pottaalum aacharya padradhu ku illa. 😂 Indha maari loosu case nga lam kalyaanathu ku munnaadiye vetti utturadhu nalladhu.
Idhellam oru expectation eh kedaiyaadhu. In fact this doesn't even come close to "expecting too much out of life"! Idhu ellam ellaa couples ku ullayum nadakura chinna chinna vishayangal.
Try to choose a life partner who suits your wavelength.. rather than trying to impress them by doing things that is totally out of your comfort zone .. Say you are not interested in doing it, when the person really loves you they will understand.. otherwise great escapenu odipoidu 😂😂
Don't insist him to join with you. Simply tell I'm going out , bored to see u. Then he ll automatically accompany with you. If i say no, he will tell yes😂
Aprom eduku kalyanam panringa.. Singlave yenga venumna pogalamla.. BTW, what if he say, "Ok, then you go".. Thats no what an married life is.. Unga amma appa ipadi thaan pannangala!!
In 80's for weekend we used to go to relatives house. Go to movie with neighbours ( around 8 families ) Now girls do it for perumai They have to tell their colleagues the next day that " they have gone for an adventure" There is a proverb " Meikirathu ERUMAI athulae PERUMAI"
Today's generation people including me also get lot of influence from social media and attracted by the influencers like what they eat, what they wear, the list go on...
That Guy : Naan veliya hotel ku pona Idli, Vadai, Pongal, Dosai nu saapiduven... That Girl (influenced by Thalaivan Vadivelu) : Cha Cha cha... Epa paaru idli vadai dosai Pongal nu... Spring roll irukaa... Gokkaa irukaa... Chicken tikka...
Aama bro Ennamo Namma Japan Australia USA la eruinthu direct aa vantha mathiri antha paiyan paavam serious aa I think he wants a normal life evainga sollura mathiri puthusu puthusa Illama
@@danielj9777mental Ean ne elam life la pudhusa edhum try pananumnu ninachadhae ilaya Engayo veliya hotel pora idhu famous dish nu sonna 5 ila 6 per adha saapudradha paatha unaku thonadha adhu enanu saptu paakanumnu Adhae dan andha ponnu solradhum Sex matum neraya position try pananumnu lam suthuringala Ean adha Panama irungalaen papom Ungaluku matum different ah experience venum Ponunga edhir paatha molaga podi ya kotna madhri ean da vayir eriyiringa Normal life venumna indha ezhava marriageku munadi solita ava avaloda expectationsoda Iruka paiyana love pani marriage pani irupala Avan pachaiya solran nan impress pana dan adhelam panen ipo en theva mudinjidhu idha ean nan pananumnu Adhu unaku asingama ila la Epdi irukum Pala per idha dan paniktu suthuringa Idhula support mayiru vera Unga yokiyam lam nala theriyudhu da epa
Never marry a person who has different mindset from you.....OPPOSITE ATTRACTS EACH OTHER this sentence will apply only on the science but it will not suit for the life.... Think wisely while choosing the life partner...
வளர்ப்பு சரியில்லை. பணத்தை மதிக்க தெரியவில்லை,ஒரு விவசாயி ஒருவேளை சாப்பாட்டுக்கு எவ்ளோ உழைக்கிறாங்க, மருத்துவம் பார்க்க காசில்லாம படிக்க காசில்லாம எவ்ளோ பேர் கஷ்டபடறாங்க.😢
இதுக்கும் வளர்ப்புக்கு என்ன சம்பந்தம் ... உங்க மனா வளர்ப்பு தான் சரி இல்ல... அவங்க படிச்சாங்க .. வேலைல சம்பாதிக்கிறாங்க .. அவங்க என்ஜோய் பண்றங்க ... உனக்கென வயித்தெரிச்சல் ... இவங்க என்ன government ஆ பொது சேவை பண்ண.. ஒட்டு போட்ட அரசியல் வாதி கிட்ட கேளு பொதுநலம் கேள்வியை
Impress பண்றதுக்காக acting பண்ணியிருக்காரு. வாழ்க்கை பூரா acting பண்ண முடியாது. அது தெரியாமல் போயிற்று பாவம். பெண் தானே ஏமாற்றி விடலாம் என்று நினைத்து விட்டார். நன்றாக மாட்டிக் கொண்டார். பார்த்தால் சந்தோஷமாகத் தான் இருக்கிறது.
I need rest on every weekend but the Sunday so busy, and next day start with rountin works ........... but these people need different enjoyment on life.......and lifestyle
Yen d unake over ah ila marriage agi 5 yrs completed innum en husband kitta vandalor zoo kutitu poga soli ketutu iruka ipo tha ok solitukanga nxt week polam nu.
Accept your partner as he is without more expectations, give him the freedom which he needs.. Expectations will make you disappointed., It cannot be fulfilled even if God comes as husband or wife..
Why you gave her unnecessary exoectations before marriage? There are so many girls who will be happily live simple life, but no, you have to act like a adventure loving person to fool a similer personality girl into marrying you abd then you want to change her basic nature. Yenna karumam da ithu. Look for partner in your own energy level.
Weekend la relatives veetuku polamnu oruthar suggestion sonnaru. Weekend la relative veetuku ponale sanda than varuthu. Ladiesku than work athigamaguthu. Athuku than yaar veetukum pogama outing porathu
This is the problem with love marriage or Love arranged marriage.. But I dont understand, apadi innatha paathu thaan love yelavu panranga nu.. In Arranged marriage, First rendu perukum othu pogadhu, then after several yrs, yaravadhu oruthar innorthar pakkam purinji povanga, or orthuthan purinjipaanga.. Thats how our parents lived too..
Romba kaalama epdi dhan vachirundha gents ladies ah...oru varthai kuda edhirthu pesa mudiyadhu 2000 varushama idhan nilami ladies ku...oru 5 to 6 years changes accept pannika mudila Inga...paa i think u also a lady...or u will have a son...very nice... idhellam Avan love pannapa nadichi impress panna dhala vandha vinai...indha madhri weekend la velila poitu explore panra boys um neraya irukanga...so Avan love panrapa nadikama irundhu irundha Ava vera yarachum kalyanam pannirpa
@@redminotemoto Aunty just know different between essential need and unnecessary. If you open up for financial freedom and equality in other things that's good and appreciated.But here things are different trying different foods will eventually lead them to try new hospitals afterwards. Just you get influenced from social media and spending hard earned money on unnecessary things is not acceptable. It's applicable to both boys and girls
Nan oru example solren. Ipo Husband and wife oru alagana relationship la teivayana sex vachukanum crt aa.But atey ipo parunga putusa try panalam nu solli ena panuranga paatenga ,......Husband wife maatikuranga , ilaina putusa try panuran nu romba romba over a antha . Relationship and antha aim and principle a apdiyei maaturanga. So ipo putusa try panurata irunta antha aim a matedatenga