Veenachechi🤗🤗🤗. I can imagine ( may be not to the extend you felt it) how hard it must have been for you when you heard Jan chetan could be there only till his 32 nd year. I also understand the frustration you would have felt on your way to Moonar ,when as per your understanding, Jan chetan wasn't speaking a word( especially when you were stepping into a new life hoping for happy beginnings and particularly when it was the HONEYMOON time). You might have felt unsettled and confused ,right. I am glad that you stand your own reality even while understanding what jan chetans perspective was. I appreciate you ,and Jan chetan as well ,who was ready to put this conversation out ,which could bring out an incident that might not depict him as a "good" husband.I was learning about introverts these days( I found a video by "dr. Ramani" About "introverts" On "MEDCIRCLE "( RU-vid channel) so helpful.)and watching this video was like getting to know the real experience of a person who have introverted characteristics and how it effected his partner and how could his introvertedness be normalised and the constant struggles he face with the society, to have his own time without guilt. Looking forward to read the book "Quite" Which Jan chetan recommended. Never have I thought about creating a space which was inclusive of introverted people while they are in a group, Letting them to respectfully take up their space which best suits them to come up with their optimum performance. Great Thanks to Jan chetan for sharing his experience so that people could get to know about the daily struggles of introverts to be in their comfortable space respectfully, same as any other extroverted person would like to minkle with people respectfully. Veenachechi, love you so much. RU-vid enna spaceile ente veedanu " Veenas curryworld".Wishing my veenachechi HAPPY MOTHERS DAY. You have made a home for many including me with your RU-vid channel. Love you ❤❤❤. Umma. Veetil ninu mari hostelil nikumbol, ottakayi ennu thonumbol, I will watch your videos... It gives me great warmth. I feel a motherly person talking to me. I Love you for who you are.❤❤❤
Thanks Mole for the long write up ✍️. Glad to know it resonated with you . Here is a link to Susan Cain’s TED talk on “Quiet”ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-c0KYU2j0TM4.html
അന്നത്തെ യാത്രയുടെ കഥ പറയാൻ, വീണ്ടും ഒരു കാർ യാത്ര ആയപ്പോൾ, വീണയുടെ അന്നത്തെ കരച്ചിലും ജാൻചേട്ടൻ മിണ്ടാതെ ഇരുന്നതും ഒക്കെ മനസ്സിലൂടെ കടന്നുപോയി,☺️ ജാൻ ചേട്ടൻ എപ്പോഴും സംസാരിച്ചില്ലേലും ഇങ്ങനെ ഒക്കെ സംസാരിക്കുമ്പോൾ വളരെ സന്തോഷം തോന്നും, എന്നും ഇങ്ങനെ തന്നെ പിണങ്ങിയും ഇണങ്ങിയും മുന്നോട്ട് പോകട്ടെ,ദൈവം നല്ലത് മാത്രം വരുത്തട്ടെ 🙏, സ്നേഹം മാത്രം 🥰🥰🥰🥰love you dear's ❤️
Enikkum same experience anu veenachechi. Njn vishamichirikkuvarunnu. Enikk mathre ullu inganenn vicharichu. Share your bad experiences also chechi. It's helpful for recently married people like us. Chechide inganathe videos anu ippo cooking nekkal ishtam
പാർട്ണർക് വരുമാനവും സമൂഹത്തിൽ വിലയും ഉണ്ടാവുമ്പോൾ അവരോട് ഭർത്താക്കന്മാർക്കും കുറച്ചു respect വരുന്നതായി തോന്നിയിട്ടുണ്ട്.. ഇതൊന്നും ഇല്ലാതെ കുടുംബത്തിന് വേണ്ടി ജീവിതം ഉഴിഞ്ഞു വയ്ക്കുന്ന പാവം വീട്ടമ്മമാരെ സ്നേഹികുകയും മനസിലാക്കുകയും ചെയുന്ന ആണുങ്ങൾ കുറവാണു...
Hi Veena.. I used to listen to your videos based on my wife following you for cooking tips earlier. Now I watch your videos with Jaan Chettan ( he is younger to me). I feel he is a great person. I too had my gulf life earlier. Moreover I have a friend who has taken up a married life somewhat similar to you which I couldn’t understand so far !!!
I thought i was an odd woman out till i listened to Mr Jan.. I too require lot of alone time and not a fan of group activities and team building exercises
At my home it's the opposite. I am an introvert & my husband is an extrovert. He wants to talk all the time and I love my alone time. If I don't get it I can't function.I think the key to success, respect each other's preferences. Just because you are married you can't change yourself totally. If you say that you have changed that means , that person is not happy inside.
Even I used to pester my husband for not communicating (effectively) with me...but now I'm used to his effective non communication also I had learned to communicate with myself... Thnq very much for the interesting conversation Veena n Jan....❤️🤗
ഞാൻ ചേച്ചിയുടെ വല്യ ആരാധികയാണ് .ഞങ്ങൾ മുന്നാറിലാണ് താമസം .ചേച്ചിയുടെ സംസാരം ,റെസിപ്പീസ് ,ആറ്റിട്യൂട് എല്ലാം എനിക്കു വളരെ ഇഷ്ടമാണ് .ഇനി മുന്നാറിൽ വരുവാണെങ്കിൽ ചേച്ചിയെ നേരിൽ ഒന്ന് കാണണം എന്ന് ആഗ്രഹമുണ്ട്
Jan chettan aadhyam paranja category yil pedunna aalanu my husband..so I can understand ur feeling veena chechy..still we like ur these kind of videos..
എന്റെ ചേച്ചി ചിരിയോടെ ആണ് ഞാൻ ഈ വീഡിയോ കണ്ടുത്തീർത്തത്.😄 എന്റെ വീട്ടിലെ ഞാനും husband ആയിട്ടുള്ള വർത്തമാനം തന്നെ. Jan ചേട്ടനെ പോലെ ഫിലോസഫി അത്രക്ക്‌ പറയാൻ അറിയില്ലെങ്കിലും പുള്ളി ടെ സ്വഭാവം ഇത് തന്നെ. Jan ചേട്ടൻ പറഞ്ഞപോലെ ആളുകളിൽ നിന്നു മാറി ഒറ്റക്കിരിക്കുന്ന ആളുകളോടൊന്നും അങ്ങോട്ട് കയറി മിണ്ടാത്ത ഒരാളാണ്. എന്റെ ബന്ധുക്കൾ പലരും തെറ്റിദ്ധരിച്ചു ജാഡക്കാരൻ എന്ന് ആണ് പറയുന്നത്. എനിക്കത്തിലൊക്കെ ഭയങ്കര വിഷമം ആയിരുന്നു. ഇപ്പോൾ അതിനോടൊക്കെ ഒത്തു ചേർന്ന് ജീവിതം മുന്നോട്ടു ഒഴുകുന്നു.. പുള്ളി പുറമെ സമ്മതിച്ചു തരില്ലെങ്കിലും പുള്ളി പതിയെ പതിയെ. bonded deeply with me.. പരിഭവങ്ങളും ഇണക്കങ്ങളും ആയി മുന്നോട്ട് പോകുന്നു. ചേച്ചിയുടെ friendly apporochum ചേട്ടന്റെ introvert approchum ആണ് നിങ്ങളുടെ ജീവിതം സ്പെഷ്യൽ ആക്കുന്നത് മറ്റുള്ളവരിൽ നിന്നും
Very deep philosophical conversation, very open and interesting too.. Jaan you are well.read,and you implement it in your life too..as you said some people start talking more later in life,and Veena your fear of what you shared is under stood,it's natural for anyone ,really loved to hear the conversation, so many learning takes place in life, yes this moment will pass,we grow and become stronger alle..life is all about learning and unlearning.. yes in silence i too recharge,thankyou so much for this video..in gratitude 😇🙏
Hi ..veena it was so nice to hear the conversation ..between u both .. it was eye opener to me I have a relative who is also a introvert..who usually don't speak to anyone. Who comes stays on his on . Does his projects alone . But when relatives come home it's real torture for him because of their why?? Probably the the book u mentioned QUITE might help us to know him better
It's always worth listening to this channel. Thanks a lot for the insights, inspiration, motivation, relationships and patenting guidance, tips, recipes..... everything, you both are doing great work.
Chechide thoughtsnod 100% yogikkunnu...arkkayalum aaa timil anagne thonnuu...athum ingne oru past experience ulla aal anenkil...enikum und angne oru past, that's why I can relate a lot
Happy mother's day veenechi🥰🥰🥰... Watch u guys after a long time😁.. I can relate janchettan 😂😂.. u knw , wat m missing nowadays s tht lonely silent hrs 😁😁.. basically m talkative,bt still need ths quiteness..i don't knw y .. marriage um kuttyolum aayappo ithinonnum time illallo .... especially fr ladies.. hubby ws thinking m fed up with daily routines n busy schedules,so he used to step out with us on weekends to roam around..😁 finally one day I told him ths s not I want,I need sometime alone 😂😂... Pullikkum ingane oru swabham ullathondu he tuk it n right sense😁😁😁..illengil kattapoka kandene
Ha ha 😀. Can totally relate to you Veena , my husband is exactly like Jan Chetan .. he recharged through reading going for a run etc .. chila samayathil total shut down aanu pullikaran 😬😬😬
I am much older than both of you. Trust me, just live life. Too much thought and dissecting it with philosophical factors is unnecessary. Life is like that.. Sadness and happiness, loneliness and a crowd, all sides of the same coin. Enjoy every moment.
