ഇന്ത്യൻ അച്ഛൻമാരുടെ ദുരിതങ്ങൾ , Happy Father Day ❤️ 

Correct 😄😄

അയ്യോ അങ്ങനെ പറയാൻ പാടില്ല... മക്കൾക്ക് ഒരിക്കലും ദുരിതങ്ങൾ ഉണ്ടാകില്ല അത് എല്ലാം മാതാപിതാക്കൾക്ക് മാത്രമെ വരുകയുള്ളു.... 😄

@@jojomj7240 അയ്യോ ഞാൻ അങിനെ ഒന്നും ഓർത്തല്ല....മക്കൾക്കും ഉണ്ടല്ലോ ദുരിതങ്ങൾ

😂😂 athu satyam

​@@jojomj7240😂🫂❤️true

When it was mother's day all told my children to wish my wife Mother's Day. Today is Father's Day. None of them reminded my children to wish me. At the end... Who cares. Fathers can be forgotten... Not mothers😮‍💨😮‍💨

​@@ttsubashI understand your problem. Mother's are glorified that's the issue. They are like something special. So called 'Ammamahatyam' 😒 Both genders are treated differently. The conditioning of men and women is pathetic in Indian society.

enthinn bro clg kazhiyunnu njn clg kazhinjitt polumilla ippo thanne pressure aan job kittan njn second yr aayappo thott thudangiyatha ith enik pg edukan nalla thalparyam ind but samathikoolla poyi pani nokaan aan parayunnath

​@@nidhinpgdi4376 bro pg cheyyaan intrest indel pg cheyyu... otherwise future ill regret cheyyendi varum. Kaaranam ee age lot nammalini thirichu varilla. Enjoy your life by avoiding unwanted problems. God bless you ❤

Dont worry...... Take ur parents as a example for how not be a parent.... And time will heal everything..... Be strong and focus on your development..... Be happy... Take care❤

​@@aiswaryaraj37❤️🫂

Enik angane ulla complete family nte

Don't worry I am at 35, still hoping for a happy life.

Jeena we are with you 🫂

Atu Marriage oru business aanu.Pennu veetukrum pynte job veedu sambathu ellam nokytaanu payane choose cheyunatu.Avrum nanma maram onnum allaa.Dowry is illegal but reality 2 sidum money atu etu form ayalum nokunnu😌

Chettane njan kettate

@@valappottukal3512Athinte idakoode 😂

@@fester2023 🤣ath pinne oru gap kitipo

Ningal mentally thayyar aakumbo mathi marriage okke, allenkil married lifil happy aakanonn illa.

Enikum 28 same pinch👍🏽

Kalyanam എന്നാൽ സ്വന്തം കാര്യം അല്ലേ.... settlement ഇല്ലാതെ കെട്ടിയാൽ പണിവരത്തെ ഒള്ളു..... ആദ്യം life settled ആക്ക് നാട്ടുകാരം വീട്ടുകാരും അല്ലാലോ കെട്ടുന്നത് താൻ അല്ലെ

Aarum nirbandhichitt mrg kazhikkalle.😂 Pani kittum. Kettan oru opp mathy. But munnott pokan orupad karyangal. Mattullavar parayum pole karyangal athra easy aayonnum pokilla. Kettikkan thirakk koottiyavar thanne athippo parents aayalum kayyozhiyum. Pinne ningal oru male aanenkil ore samayam son and husband role cheyyendi varum. Nammude parents aarenkilum Thani neram purath varunnath namukkoru partner varumbo aakum. Snehamilla ennokke paranjitt. Ini kettyal thanne oru prasnam okke aakunnathin munp thanne mari thamasikkan ulla setup undakkiyal nallath. Note : it's just a suggestion on your comment. Mrg cheyyano vendayo ennath it's up to you 😊

Financially settled ആയിട്ടോ അല്ലെങ്കിൽ , ഒരുമിച്ച് കാര്യങ്ങൾ നോക്കാൻ തയ്യാറായിട്ടുള്ള ഒരാളെ കല്യാണം കഴിക്കുക. ഇതൊന്നും ഒരു കടമയല്ല.... നമ്മളുടെ ജീവിതത്തിൽ ok anel mathram. NB: anenn undengil mathram. പ്രായമായ മാതാപിതാക്കളെ നോക്കാൻ വേണ്ടി കല്യാണം കഴിkkarudh.

You need to communicate this firmly with your husband. Divide the chores in advance and ask him to take accountability if he fails to keep his promise. The prior division of duties and responsibilities is important.

@@DM-yy8oyIve tried, but when I said typical Indian I really mean it. Whenever I try it eventually ends up in a fight. At the end of the day, the thing that matters is mental peace. So I take the responsibility by myself. Its the so called society norms that leads Indian men think like that.

@@Life_bliss888 You mentioned that you are the breadwinner, which leads me to assume you have a stable paying job, making you more privileged than many other Indian women. If people like you cannot effect change, who can? I know I sound rude, but you can’t just rant and expect Indian men to change. nothing is going to happen that way. You need to get your shit together and act.

Same situation 😢

In that case instead of dividing chores equally ask him to do chores which are hard or requires high physical strength then slowly slowly you can change him. It may sometimes works.

അത് ഇയാൾ അല്ല. സുനിത ദേവദാസ് ആണ്. ഇയാൾ പിന്നീട് ആണ് ചെയ്തത്

Its sunita devadas

മലയാളികൾക് ദൃവ്‌ രാത്തി യെ ആദ്യമായി പരിചയപെടുത്തിയ്ത് സുനിത ദേവദാസ് 🌹

Women kitchenil keriya athu saadaranamaayum men keriya athu rare ayi kanunathum ee society tannalle😮

Women marry Men having higher salary and financial status.He is still the major expense bearer of the family.Women primary goal of having job is to get independent while Men look towards taking major financial responsibility of the family.

@@aneeshkk2141 As an MBA graduate my parents also demanding the fees back which they paid for my education and I'm gonna be the next bread winner for my family, issues are same🥴NB: we r two girls

@@anilanil6704 After Marriage you will move to husband's house.The financial responsibility towards parents might decrease.Your younger sister might take ur position.After her marriage both together can support ur parents.

Yeah🙂... waiting

അമ്മയെ സ്നേഹിക്കാൻ ഒരു ദിവസവും... ആ ദിവസം ഉൾപ്പെടെയുm ഇടി ആണല്ലോ

Kaay...kaay....😂😂😂

Best😅.Ithokke aru paranju? Rich ladies inu mathre athokke nadakku.Avarde income avasyam illa,already nalla sambathikam ullappol nadakkum.Oru middle class family kk 2 perde salary thanne thikayatha avasthayanu. Pinnya swarnavum fancy dress um😅. Kittunna cash kallukudichum dhoorthadichum kalayunna husbands ulla nadanu ith. Athond onnum generalize cheyth parayaruth

Maybe you only know that kind of women. But the majority of the working women are the exact opposite. They give up most of their personal needs for the family.

പഴയ തലമുറ സ്വർണം വാങ്ങിക്കുന്നു എങ്കിൽ അതു investment ആണ്, അവർ സത്യത്തിൽ അറിയാതെ ഒരു നല്ല പ്രവർത്തി ആണ് ചെയ്യുന്നതു, സ്വർണം എന്നത് ധരിക്കാൻ ഉള്ള സംഗതി മാത്രമല്ല അത് land, stock, bank investment പോലെ ഒരു സംഗതി ആണ്, പെട്ടെന്ന് പണം ആകാൻ കഴിയുന്ന ഒര് ഉപാധി..😊

Men aanu majority expense nokuntu..Family chelvu nokyal sthreedanam kodkuntu onnum akunillaa😌

Itra kashtappett kettand ninna pore. Apo expense onnum adhikam avoolallo. Ath pattilla arkkum. Apo oru partner venam ennathin advantages undenn definite ayum manasilakki thanne aan kettan ulla agraham manushyanu vannittullath. Ennitt pnne sthreedhanam venam paraynnel entha artham. Pand streekale jolikk vitternnilla. Ipo angane allallo. Enthelum kunj joliyelum ullore nokki kettiyal mathi. Athalle nallath. Alland achantenn paisa vangi ividnn avide kondoyi kashtappett nokkano.

@@aneeshkk2141 അതിന്റെ ആവശ്യം ഉണ്ടോ നല്ല വരുമാനം ഉള്ള പെണ്ണിനെ കെട്ടിയാൽ പോരെ അവൾ ചെലവ് നോക്കിയാൽ അതല്ലേ നല്ലത് ആണുങ്ങൾക്ക് കുറച്ചു rest എടുക്കാമല്ലോ

@@kirtik2673 Marriage Sthreegalku financial benefits advantage undu.Women Job undytu polum majority expense bearer Men aanu.Women marry up not down😌

@@aneeshkk2141 angne conventional ayi alochichal rand sidelum compromises nd. Sthreekalkk financial benefit ndelum socially oke avar kore sacrifice cheyynnd. Ravile walk amd gymn oke poi 9 manikk veetil vann office povnne aalkkarde working aayittenne ulla wives mikkavarum ravile me time onnum kittathe chorum currym ready aaki aavum officel povunnath. Swantham veettil vallapozhum aavum nthelum kodukkan pattnnath. Savings oke ndelum palappzhm ath pnneedanelum familylekkenne chilavakknnavaran majority sthreekalum. Aanungalde atra thanne care swantham parentsn kodukkan pattunna privilege ulla sthreekal (working ayitt polum)ippzhm kuravaan. Ath kond enthokke paranj balance cheythalum dowrykk oru nyayeekaranam illa. Ninglde oke veetilo parisaratho oke aloych nokku, nmmde ammamarude oke 45+ aavmbm thott ulla health issues. Ellam husbandnte veetil paniyedutheduth thanne theernnathavum mikkavarum.Athond expense bearer aanenn paraynnel onnm vlya karyalla. Working allatha nmmde ammamarude generation polum veruthe irunn sukhikkuonnuallarnnu. Working ayittulla ipzhthe streekalum koreyoke angne thanne alle. I only meant to say 'there can be no reason to support dowry '. Pnne financially ulla karyangaloke samsarich equally earning and spending structure oru familyl undakki edukkan concern ullavar aanengil easy aayitt innathe kalath pattum.angne ellarum choose cheyth thodangiyal ororutharkkum anusarichulla partnerne kittum. Ith verem pala criteriem nokki, family nokki, nale kittanullem nokki kettnne system mari varumayirikkum. Appo ellam set avum. Itra concern ullavar aanengil athoke nokkiye kettavoo. Alland major expense edkknne perum paranj dowry vangananel kettaruth. And women marry up, not down. Ath sheriyenn thanne vekk. Thannekkal earn chyynne financially higher positionil ulla, nalla positions handle cheyynne sthreekale ketti male ego illathe nalla syncl jeevich pokanum, avarde job stressn anusarich adapt cheyyanum pattnne etra aanungal nmmde nattil as of now ndnn thonnunnu?