You're slowly becoming my favorite Sri lankan youtuber, because you speak of authentic real issues, we face. Please continue this. let me add some thoughts to today's subject. Sri Lankan society is highly traumatized, there are many reasons for it. Firstly, our family system, how abuse and fear is so much part of our families, parents physically and emotionally abuse kids, mostly to dominate them or even to discipline them. This is has been going on for generations. So if children across the nation are emotionally and physically abused, what will be their adulthood be like? That's one of the main root causes for our dysfunctional system, rest are all symptoms of it. This physical, mental, emotional abuse then extend to schools, churches/temples, and even to places of employment, where the boss will speak his staff in a very abusive and dominating way. Secondly, our dysfunctional education system, for generation didn't teach our parents or grand parents or great grand parents about parenting skills or relationship building skills, as a result, for generation only power, abuse, and dominance was the way of communication. Then it extend to rich vs poor, how rich people speak to poor people, no respect, no care, its all about power, abuse, and dominance. Parents don't respectfully talk to their children, its power and dominance based. Its a very difficult cycle to break, because even our teachers are abusive, they too grew up in abusive families, so its a vicious cycle, self-feeding violent system, that will never let us free. That's why videos like yours are important, it help create awareness, so some day change is possible. Our political system is macro reflection of what's happening within families. Have you notice how parents are so friendly to outsiders but totally abusive to their children? lets not even talk about abusive religious leaders in SL, who are big part of keeping this violent and dysfunctional stone age culture alive. To change, it may take 100 years, but some of the first steps should be ending violence and abuse inside the family, children should be protected from all forms of physical and emotional abuse, instead of fear, they should learn to respect each other, tha'ts only possible if parents respect their children as equal human beings. Fear is another big thing in SL, fear of parents, fear of teachers, fear of office boss, fear of police, fear of politicians, fear of thugs, fear of 'big people' , you see its all fear fear and fear. That's why we are a dysfunctional traumatized society, so as adults we abusive each other in subtle ways. changing the education system is another thing, so children can learn to be good effective caring adults. a long road, thanks for speaking our dark issues.
Highly appreciating your invaluable article with great analysus. Let's talk about this in videos. Also, I will publish your comment (article) in FB and my other RU-vid channel. Once again thank you so much for this Take care and keep in touch 👍🏻❤️❤️🔥⭐
your comments have truth .but you young middle age grnreration sinhalese dont know our history. .european invaders from 1505 to 1949 conquerd the country robbed resources destroyed agriculture unity of race to chritiomstinity foreighn westrrn faith cross jesus ingroduced by violence when rearding failed turned sinhalese to race divided policy divide abd rule. rich farming commuty became beggfars ruined kandyan kingdom vested land without compensating illtreated buddhistv monks called cofee coloured uncivilised natives dividdd as rich poor gave english missonary education to north jaffna only at beggining favoured who converted to chridtinity. Made them elite class in same famiky brothers famiky christian ,and wealfhy engkish educated favoured other brothrr syblings poor not speaking english unemployeddividdd dkscrijnated the younger brithers kjds entered uncles house from back doir calked cousins baby mahaththaya i am 80 years old. i know by experisnce seen with my own eyes senanayKe /kanangara free education after 1948 opened cenrreal schools did non violence revolution but psychological jnjuries inferiotuy complex disrespecting own colour skin t came from colonial hang over poor sinhalaya!ignorant blame good patriot freeing country in 19r8 calking them horu know nothing suddas treatment to sinhalese line slaves income was sebt to london their kings trasuary singalese had nofhing pokrest of poor foolish yiuths imsgine suddo gavs us lhxuries . thanks to l.t.t.e diospora cardinal /ngo led aragala against those who ddfeated l.t.t.e lnow sinhala boudaya vanishing speciece in srilanka and world. those who migratdd sinhala familys dont talk in sinhala to fheir children .all mjgrated to west from other races teach their kids their own language relegion culture history. Including tamil 😮indian chinese africans sinahala vanishing race language in world but buddha dhamna spreading i n west too.only it will go from srilanka as cardinal wabted . Thailabd burma taiwan like other asian countrys keep buddha dhamna alive it is srilanka attacking imprisoning sangha distancing temples carddinal taking fire under sea by buying some fake sadus to his side making them attacking other monks slandering . pokitics in churches too started openly with aragala paragala sinhala buddhist .unluck not caluing gems of buddha dhsamna sabgha buddha dhamna tdaches upright bdave truthful gratitudd unnity nonviolebce honesty freddom compassion kindness sacrifice equiminity 84 thousand units dioctrine in massive books thripitica 10 times bigger than bible or quaran youngerbgeneration deorived of history by j r.jsayawsrdana premadsa chandrika presidebts to hide their madras kerala recent heritage
ඔයාගේ channel එකට "හෙළ පජාත කතා", නැත්තං "හෙළ පජාත talks" වගේ නමක් දැම්මා නම් හොඳයි. :) ඔය වගේ පජාත වැඩ කරන උංට visa දුන්න උංට තමයි ඉස්සෙල්ලාම බනින්න ඕනේ. දක්ෂ මිනිස්සු visa ගන්න බැරුව මෙහෙ ලත විවී ඉන්නකොට, අර වගේ පජාත හැත්ත කොහොම ඔහේට set වුනාද හිතා ගන්නවත් බෑ. Thank you for educating us about such Lankan papayas, so that decent compatriots who come there could avoid such scum. Great video again, starting with your signature "කෝමද, කෝඕමද ''''''' ?" .
Nz walath innawa kalakanni lankawey set anith un huran kana . Godak oya gobbayo inney Sri Lankan pansal wala . Anun gey opa dupa hoyana ganu wagey pirimi hariyata innawa . Mun aurudu 10k New Zealand hitiya . Student visa apu kaley nun hena dasayo set ekak set una. Passey mun himita ungen ath una. New Zealand genuine locals mata godak hamba una . A minissu harima hodai. Lankawey un wagey padda show naha . Lankawey wadan Gen ath wela inna. Thaman gey deyak paduwey karagena inna ethakota prashna naha!!!
My son is studying in Melbourne Swinburne university. He is also saying same thing regarding Sri Lankan community. We should bare all this rubbish and to avoid it sarcastically
Further to my 1st comment i here with give one other reason - my opinion for our wrong behavior towards to our own countrymen: Any one happy with himself inside & outside not going to hurt others by any measure, instead he/ she would be very helpful to others. So why our people won't be happy in their hearts even after achieving all the success in life? Answer: Alienated personality. They have a big problem in adjusting to the freedom of the country, having living in old traditions full of restricted emotional & thinking patterns for yrs in heart, they aren't able to get rid of them for one reason or other- strong religious conditions are one reason & in that case they become more religious than they were in SL. Cultural shocks have made them inner psyche unhappy so they take relief by making others unhappy at least by given negative suggestions.
Aththatama new Zealand unath ehema thamai. I have very bad experiences. We coming to these countries to spend quality life. Upgrade our lifestyle but still some people behaving like greedy animals.
absolutely correct. As a srilnakn expatriate for 10 years. I think our bad qualities are suppressed while in SL because you need each other , contacts to get any thing done. But once you are in abroad ,if you have a some kind of steady income, due to the establised social system basic necessities and other requirements can be easily acquried for any body. . So everybody becomes big people ( especially who got sudden change of social status). becomes jealous of any body who achieve things easliy and climb up the ladder. start gossiping .
So true, this type of a thing happened to me in Australia during a job interview- there was a Lankan man on the interview panel- other two panel members were Australians- this guy asked me few silly questions and lastly he asked “you don’t have any experience in hospital setting isn’t it? “ I was working in that hospital already for 2 years- I just went for an interview to secure a second job, that’s all. What you’re saying is very true! Hela pajaatha gathi wena lokekata giyath arinna ba … I’m glad I lost the opportunity to work with that Lankan person. Now I’m doing a better position! 😀🤗😇
Wishing you all the best 🙏❤️🙏❤️ and thank you so much for sharing your valuable experience ❤️. Only once I worked under a Sri Lankan stupid manager, that woman was පජාත pro max ultra 😂
True, in every country where we are. Hilariously enjoyable as it is always your presentations. Reason you implied may be only one aspect of the problem.
