རྡོ་རྗེ་གཅོད་པ་དང་རྟེན་འབྲེལ་བསྟོད་པའི་བཀའ་ཆོས། ༼ཉིན་དང་པོ།༽ 

སྐྱབས་སུ་མཆི།

Amazing Memo . Hi its nice to hear about you. In breif i would like to say, you don't realy need to be a monk for helping other and to attain nivana too. But wishing to acheive ultimate happiness is not something like to earn ton of dollars or sex with hotest girl. Its all about decreasing ones ignorance which cause anger, desire and disturbed mind etc. So unless we don't cut the chain of ignorance( ever since we born, we have so much attach holding I and Mine. so it casuses grasping till we don't rid of mind projection like exaggerating I and Mine are so much in stable form. All about connection with the mind that is defile and cause not lasting relife from this world. ) and acknowledge the truth, Nirvana is within there. So need a lot study and practice to bring changes, from ordinary mind to extraordibary mind. Thanks