Most Habesha men do good things or give good gifts to their wives both in practice and in theory, they complain after giving a gift. But the women will not respect your gift no matter how big it is. If you complain after giving gifts. the reason most habesha males complain is because their gift is not from their heart or soul. But what women want is the idea of giving, whether you give them a little perfume or an18-wheeler truck it's all the same to them. In fact In the face of a woman a gift is a gift. A big thing or a small thing. Because women look at your good intentions, not your great gifts you can win the big heart of women by giving a little something with good positive thoughts. so, your heart is more important to them than your gifts. Because women are connected with your soul, not with your physical body as most of us think as a male.