It is a friendly question try to break the ice the first time of seeing her. If you don’t like it put a sign on her to let people know don’t ask,don’t talk, and leave her alone! And plus she is not a friendly person. She kind like ignored Oun Rath questions that why she asked a couple times. This family has no gratitude towards the donors after they get the lot and the house. Look man it’s not that hard if you and your family don’t want them to say or talk to your family just let them know. You got everything that you and your family wanted and needed and you don’t want them to run your life or tell you how to live and what to do. All you need to do is say NO and tell them you and your family don’t need them anymore! And stop be a coward and let your friends do the job for you! It is time for you to grow up be what ever…?