‘I’m Not Pregnant,’ ‘My Weight Is My Business,’: Answers to Questions People Should Stop Asking 

I appreciate Jeannie having Ade's back on this one....cuz she really was saying it nicely but that's gotta be frustrating

Yal better leave A alone!!! She is stunning and fabulous at any weight!!! PeriodTTTTT!!!!

2:13 you can tell these "she's pregnant" assumptions do hurt Adrienne. The way she said it, her eyes😢❤️. It must be painful to be trying to get pregnant and you don't, but people assume year after year that you are.

“My weight is my business.” Period. ✌🏾❤️

A lady asked me at work if I am pregnant. I said no. She said “ I am so sorry and I am surprised you didn’t curse me, because any time I ask people if they are pregnant they insult me”. I am surprised she still asking .

Omg I had to google Garcelles age!!! She’s 54 and looks 35. She’s aging beautifully

Oh man, you can see the hurt in Adrienne's eyes. My heart!

I humbly apologize Adrienne I was one of the ones to speculate not because of the clothing but you often have this amazing glow that isn't makeup. We love you and do not mean any harm.. God bless you

It’s very hurtful when you’re dealing with years of infertility and people keep asking if you’re pregnant or have kids. I just wish people would stop questioning women period.

These ladies look so gorgeous, I love this whole look on Jeannie Mai! I feel for Adrienne it has to be frustrating to constantly read comments speculating she is pregnant when she is not. When Jeannie spoke about her experience especially when no one knew about her miscarriage it only makes your heart break more for Adrienne. We all want Adrienne to get her wish but we shouldn't make her uncomfortable.

When A said “no it’s actually on trend” I felt her pain. The look in her eyes. Her facial expression. She looks like she wanted to tear up/ angry/ red. I feel soooo bad. I know she must feel some type of way because she been wanting it but nothing. Then you have someone who been saying they don’t want it. Then BOOM💥 out of nowhere they get pregnant. Sheeeeeeeesh ! We leave everything in God hands.

I think is crazy the one who got pregnant, never wanted to and the one who wanted to from jump, hasn’t. 🥺

I didn’t realize that the baggy look was on trend. Adrienne’s clothes are very oversized, so it did look like she was trying to hide her stomach area. But people should respect her boundaries about this topic

Okay Jeannie was Tamra Braxton shade i feel like cause Tamar was allll over Jeanne’s comments talking about “ I KNOW your pregnant” and then she went on Adriennes and was like “You soon sis!” Being that neither girls replied to her it seemed awkward🌚

Me and my husband have been trying to get pregnant for over a year, 1 surgery, and 4 fertility treatments later we're still not pregnant. A client at work recently asked me if i was expecting and in the moment I was fine but once I got home I absolutely broke down. And I know this was just an off-hand question from this woman but it really hurt me in ways she will never know. People ask questions like this and just have no idea what's going on in your life and what you're struggling with.

You have no idea how often I get “Are you pregnant?” because I have the worst bloating problem and it legit looks like I am pregnant. I even shop for maternity clothes just to hide it. But it’s embarrassing. I have customers ask me if I am. I got a neck massage at the chiropractor the other day and the masseuse asked if I was. It’s all the time. And being 31 with no children, it makes me feel pressure to actually be pregnant. I wish I had a sign on my forehead that says “NO, I AM NOT PREGNANT!” 🙄

I recently was asked if I was pregnant and usually that kind of stuff never bothers me, but this time around I started to cry when I got home because it hurt my feelings so bad... I haven't been confident as I used to because of my weight gain 😥...so yes please be careful what u say to people!!! It's rude! And there's more reasons why you shouldn't ask that to a woman, it can be so hurtful! They might be dealing with self esteem issues, or even health issues!!! I once heard someone was asked if they were pregnant, because their stomach looked round but it was actually a tumor they had!!!! So stop it with those rude questions!

I really want Adrienne to become pregnant and be fulfilled I can tell she’s hurting inside she wants to be pregnant! Lord please allow her to become a mother it’s literally pouring out of her eyes when she looks on Jeanie direction she’s screaming ! So I wanna send prayers and positive vibes to Adrienne!!!! Love peace and pregnancy!!!! 💚💚💚💚💚💚💚🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

Where are you working? What do you do? No, I’m not working. I don’t do anything. Yes, I’d rather be working. No, I don’t wanna talk about why I’m not.

I don't do this often, but one day like tooo many people were saying that they KNEW Adrienne was pregnant in her comments on IG. Like I said, I usually just leave people to their ignorance, but I had to ask. Like mama "what do you get from concerning yourself with her uterus? Does it bring you joy? Is it hard to let her be the one to tell you if she was?" Sis really said she can do what she wants and she knows she's right. I left her there, but it's really sad. Like Jeannie said you can't even enjoy the post for what it is. I think most people mean well and are looking to be excited, but how many times somebody gotta say something is hurtful before y'all stop?

I appreciate Jeannie for saying what we all know Adrienne wanted to say cause you can tell how it hurts her

Everyone looks sooo GORGEOUS!! Love the outfits, makeup, hair! 🔥🔥🔥

That last one was for you TAMAR. Trying to call out Jeannie and y’all not even tight like that, obviously cause you’d never be in her business like that publicly.

Period that pisses me tf off a woman at the gas station and the cashier asked me if I had already had a baby or if I was expecting! That rude as hell as if I losing stomach fat is already a struggle 😡🤬😠 my weight is my business ‼️

I hate this. I had a neighbor put pregnancy pops at my door with a congratulations note. Not only am I not pregnant, I can't get pregnant 😑

You don’t need to watch anyone else’s figure.

"The Real is not The Talk or The View"😂😂😂

Thank you for handling that for A with directness and compassion❤️

I’m so sorry Adrienne, I’m one of the people who was speculating that you might be pregnant 🤰, I just got excited because I know how you talk about starting your family ❤️❤️❤️. Wishing you all the best and May God grant you that wish ❤️❤️❤️

thank you! i literally had to address that in my last youtube video..it can be very insulting to just be like “are you pregnant?” um noo i just gained some extra pounds.. smh people are so rude and really don’t think twice before they speak. you never know who you might be asking that question to and how it could affect them.. thank you guys for addressing these topics! 💜💜

I love what Jeannie said. I was mad when I noticed Tamar comment on her post about her being pregnant. Tamar was right but it was not her place to tell people that Jeannie is pregnant just because she was able to notice that

I feel like that last part of Jeanie's statement was directed to Tamar when she came under her posts in the comments revealing her pregnancy when Jeanie didn't even reveal anything of the sorts.

Now yall talking about “ThHe HURt IN Her EYeS” 😩😩 leave Adrienne alone! She fine!

The weight struggle is real! I got asked if i was pregnant last week… no i just had a baby 7 months ago and i am struggling to get the weight off. Thank you! Now let me go eat some ice cream 😭

Oh Adrienne 😔😔😔💔 I can SEE the hurt in her face. I know the feeling after going through fertility problems myself ☹

Jeannie is stunning!!! 😍😍

"Please, people, leave uteruses alone!" 🙌🏾

Us ppl from the 90's love baggie clothes, I hate skinny jeans especially on guys I am more of the boot cut baggie jeans, hoodies, sweaters, sweats, overalls etc we are female from the best decade ever n that is my style til this day. I was a 90's teen best decade of my life 12 to 22 n I am blessed to be from that generation. I feel U Adrienne. Even the baggie pant suit also just a blazer in general with jeans n combat boots or docs.

Loni's card said it all😀

I really just want to say how amazing it is (not that I thought Adrienne would be negative) but you can see that even tho Adrienne has been trying to get pregnant that she is nothing but happy for Jeannie. We love supporting our friends ❤️ your time with come A, I promise ❤️

JEANIE MAI IS GLOWING!! ❤️❤️ SHE looks so amazing. I love you Jeanie

Anyone else confused by garcelles ???? I'm thinking wait is she like 70? I think she looks her age. I looked it up and she's 54. She looks exactly that.

People on social media are so noisy they want to know you're pregnant before you do 🤣🤣🤣

I have always been mindful of other ppls feelings and i am so happy i am this person.

To these group of women give us some of the most amazing content through the feeds day after day is a pleasure and I just can not be mad ate this

Adriennes makeup, hair and fashion lately is just *CHEFS KISSES* gorgeous

Love these ladies so much!♥️

Love to you Adrienne. No pressures 💞

All the ladies looked genuinely surprised that Garcelle said she still gets carded lmao. Sis you look amazing, but you definitely don’t look like you’re underage 🤣😂

I really hope than Adrienne gets pregnant I know that she wants a baby so bad. ❤

People always ask why I’m so quiet so it gets bothersome a lot 😩😂😂

I can so relate to the tall guy. It's hard to tell how old I am, but why do strangers feel the need to ask me my age before they even know my name or anything else about me?! It seems social media is truly allowing for a stark disintegration in the basics of face to face interaction. 😔

Jeannie was taking a shot at Tamar Braxton.

This the one. I’m so tired of people asking me if I’m pregnant 🙄. I’m going through infertility and haven’t told any of my family. I wish they would stop asking

If someone can’t fix the issue being raised/questioned in 10 seconds, don’t point it out. Weight, Acne, Teeth etc. there’s no need for it & I guarantee you that person already has self esteem issues over it.

I totally understand about the weight and pregnancy assumptions. I have 3 fibroids, one 14 cm, 6cm and a 5cm and my stomach looks like I'm about 4/5months. People always be like, "GIRL YOU PREGNANT?" or "congrats, when is the due date?" I had a few men tell me, {paraphrasing} "Your body would be amazing if you just did a few ab workouts". LIKE W.T.F.!!!! I can't even have kids so hearing that is very much a bummer.

Jeanie was talking about Tamar Braxton on people calling her out for pregnancy when she wasn't ready to share her pregnancy news

I love you A! Sending hugs and kisses. I admire your strength.

💯 it is absolutely inconsiderate to ask a woman whether she’s pregnant!! And don’t expect an explanation either.

Adrienne finally answered y'all question

“You look so young???” Really! Wow

The shade in this segment 🐸☕️👀🤣 I would put on a card, stop asking me why I’m not married or why I don’t have kids! 🤣🤦🏾‍♀️ and yeah Adrienne it’s so annoying to see so many comments about your weight or clothes…leave her alone 🥺

People saying how young I look. I'm 34 but people think I'm late teen early 20's at most. I should be grateful but it gets annoying. Maybe I will appreciate it more when I'm in my 50's.

“Yes, seeing the top of everyone’s head is weird.” Hahaha!

Oh Adrienne, you're happy and I'm happy that you're happy. Leave Adriene alone!!!

Jeannie is definitely talking about Tamar. She never liked Jeannie but started congratulating her before she even announced her pregnancy. I would’ve went off if I was Jeannie 😅

I feel A must have fertility issues and I hope she’s blessed to be a mother soon!

YESSS ADRIENNE you let them know!

love the baggy clothes trend coming back i wore it in high school back in 2014-2016 and while everybody was wearing tight pants i was like nope lol

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I think this topic has always been an issue when it comes to Adrienne cuz she’s the only one I feel whose had issues with the way she looks especially when she was getting married… she wanted to fit into her dress ! Then like only 5 months after marriage she got a bit thicker and we had a very deep convo on the show in regards to not letting yourself go and then NOW u have things like seeing Jeannie being pregnant and I just know that I know that I know Adrienne is so happy for her friend but I know in her heart especially with her struggle to conceive despite not having infertility issues or anything… it can be discouraging and a bit annoying especially when others want you to say out loud “ I wish it was me “ and hey maybe she does but I think we have to allow everybody their own time and space and when and if they ar ready to say if they are pregnant they will reveal it !! And I pray she receives that she doesn’t have to feel a way or pressured or anything ! You are fine just the way you are munchkin ♥️

Unpopular opinion: I think Garcelle looks her age, she looks great but I never saw her and thought omg she’s no older than 37! I watch RHOBH and they’re mostly in their 50s, Garcelle definitely looks 50+ which isn’t bad, she’s ageing with Grace.

loving Adriennes, Jeannie & Garcelles looks today!

Right! Let people tell you if they're pregnant NEVER assume!

Any comments about weight or pregnancy are offensive. Also asking when are you going to have children, none of your business, maybe I am not, maybe I cannot.

Damn the hosts be looking extra amazing today. Props to makeup, hairstyists, and stylists.

You are all so stunning ❤️ hope each one of you has a amazing weekend 💋❤️

We need a live audience again! So many clap-worthy moments that just fall silent! 😭😭

I love this season they are calling the more harsh comments this time

Your weight is your business you, right!! My eyes see what it's see. YOU are HUGE!!!

Is it me or Garcelle looks her age

How about mind your business card ! 😂

I always see the comments on insta and I’m like she looks gorgeous at every weight. We need to let women be whatever weight they are.

Loni💖 keep shining!

When people meet public figures their mind gets discombobulated and they could be meaning to say "The real" but their mouth says "The view" its a common mistake

It has to be frustrating for Adrienne. But I'm sure the most frustrating is having to smile and be happy for a co-host that despised becoming a mother, shouted it to the rooftop for years, and out of the blue on the first try, she's pregnant and so ready to be pregnant. And Adrienne has always wanted kids always loved kids. But her time will come. She has to keep in mind Jeannie even though she acts young. Is MUCH older than her. It will happen for her.

Loni your makeup is gorgeous 🔥🔥👍🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Ok, I’m an avid watcher of both The Real and The View. I never confused you guys!! With that being said… To be fair, the daily topics on both shows often align to where it can be seen as though both shows pull their fun topics from the same sources to discuss on the exact same day (it had been happening a lot for a couple of years). But, honestly, that’s the only way i could see anyone confusing the shows. There’s no other correlation.

Garcelle definitely looks her age to me

This is such an important topic.

1. Which Korea are you from? 2. When did you come to New Zealand? 3. When are you going back to Korea? I am a New Zealander of Korean ethnicity and I'm tired of hearing 1 and 3. 2 is reasonable however it gets old whenever people ask me this in a slightly slower pace of speaking, since I speak English fluently.

“no i wasn’t on the suite life, no i’m not married to macaulay mulkin, and yes i’m vietnamese”

Awe love this segment

Omg that last one from loni! 🤣I wish people would stop with that..the real is WAY better and so different

I'm 4'11 like Adrienne I've always been very petite and small but curvy. Over the past few I've gained weight and am extremely sad I don't even wanna look in the mirror. I has someone ask if I was pregnant and it broke my heart. Your body is really never the same after kids.

Loni and jeannie look so flyyyyy.

No, I don’t play basketball and it’s because I don’t want to. I’m just really tall and my height is not going to waste just because I don’t play basketball. Comments like that are very rude and disrespectful as if I’ve achieved and done nothing in life.

What makeup brand is Jeannie using on this season? Cause Wow!! 😍

are you brenda song? lol thats the one i was waiting for lol

Loni, you look incredible.