Husband snores, I'm a light sleeper. He's been sleeping in the spare room for the last year and honestly our relationship is so much better. We still spend lots of time together and the best part is I'm no longer irritable and snappy from a lack of sleep!
What a load of rot..my mother and father had seperate beds for years..my mother had a spinal cord injury and required a firm mattress..in fact she had a wooden platform under the mattress…so there was minimal bouncing from the mattress..she eventually became bed ridden and died in her bed with my father and me cuddling her as she took her last breath.. because that was her wish..to die at home…it was an honour and a privilege to see my mother pass with her soulmate of 50+ years by her side…which is proof if you truly love someone it doesn’t matter if you have single beds or separate rooms.
We have been married 25 years and for the past 6years have slept in separate bedrooms. We dont broadcast it as people are very judgemental but we dont care! It’s our business. He’s a snorer and I’m a light sleeper who can fidget all night with hot sweats. Since separate beds, we are no longer bad tempered in the mornings. We are still very much intimate and have close times watching tv in bed and snuggle in the mornings. Best thing ever.
Totally depends on the reasons behind it. If its to avoid the other person clearly that's not good. If its to get a good nights sleep because someone snores or has needs that require a special bed / mattress etc I'd say that's probably going to improve their marriage. Lack of sleep and feeling irritated by your partner is not healthy.
I don’t know why in this day and age why everything has to be one thing or the other. Just let life happen, chill. There is no right or wrong, it’s a free world, no matter how hard the government tries to change that.
I can see Linda's point but she's lucky to have a partner who doesn't snore. However lack of sleep due to snoring is awful, especially when you have other health issues too.
I & husband have separate rooms and bathrooms. I can have a pink theme for my room which is fabulous. And I have space in my bathroom for my myriad of toiletries.
My wife moved across the hall two years ago and nothings been the same since. We are at each other's throats, but she thinks it's just great and not an issue?
my husband gets very hot in bed, i get overheated too and i have arthritis, we both find it more comfortable to sleep seperately, it doesnt effect any part of our marriage negatively. but my mum and dad wouldve been mortified to even consider it..to them it was the beginning of the end.
Kev should leave Emma because she talks down at him on national tv and isn’t emotionally available it’s all in her terms sounds like a contract I can tell he’s lonely but puts up with it or she probably bullies him threatens to leave reminds him she’s been married before and there’s many more waiting in line poor kev he deserves an actual available wife
He needs to leave that woman. She left you a long time ago. She is a control freek. My opinion. She kicked him out to the couch and call him by the bell.
