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I agree with Nozi.....if you not happy communicate and make a decision or remove your self from the situation. Because if you go and cheat for "me" it means you have already ended our relationship ....you have decided to open another door.....
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skhu came through with this one honestly ❤ assumptions made based on what we see don’t necessarily reflect what has been happening in the relationship and even though there is a court the heart has it’s own feelings
That’s true. And sometimes you find that the relationship with the so called “mistress” ends up lasting much longer than the relationship with the first wife. But ke guys, we live in a society that dictates the rules of how we should live with one another, we can’t change that so I often say, whoever that is in a marriage that’s already strained and about to end must first dissolve the marriage completely, before they openly get involved with someone else. They can’t have their bread butter on both sides. This would not only be the morally right thing to do but it’s also protecting your partner. As Nozi says, it’s the woman that always takes the blame for a failed marriage, not the one who made & broke the vows. So to protect his partner, if the man’s intentions are genuinely to start a serious and committed relationship with the other woman; he has to protect her reputation. I’m not condoning unfaithfulness but if it happens, the person stepping out of the marriage must be very intentional and fully committed to whatever that will follow after the marriage is dissolved. Lena ke eyokuthi you lose them how you find them, I don’t necessarily agree with that because marriages fail for different reasons. Some people are forced into marriages they don’t necessarily want to be in. Of course you have the right to refuse, this should be no excuse but it happens. Our churches, parents and people put unnecessary pressure on us. Some people are not strong willed enough to say no.
Hay sana Noxi soze siyigqibe into yaba. Kahle kahle they don't need a reason to cheat. They will still cheat ngoku kumnandi endlini, kungekho problems.
Sana!Nozi is me!i meet my guy while i was in A SITUATIONSHIP…He said “ALL THE GOOD ONE ARE TAKEN” the good sis that is me said SOME OF US ARE TAKEN FOR GRANTED😂😂😂😂yabe kukuqala kolobwabo lwam🎉🎉🎉
Skhu came in guns blazing this time around and I fully agree with all that he said coz people stay in marriages long after the parties involved decided to call it quits and divorce takes years also they may decide to not divorce coz of assets....so what must happen then? Life goes on bethuna! We only have one shot at this life thing😊
There r so many reasons that makes a spouse to b in a xtramarital affair. Greedy, immaturity, being irresponsible lyk don't know what u really want, spiritual battle lyk divorce is a generation curse in other families so u find urself in that battle of ages within the family. What is worse is Others will b having many xtramarital affairs,the question is nt dissatisfaction bt u as a person. If u nt strong spiritually & u don't understand that marriage was created by God & u service it where it was manufactured, it myt lead 2 divorce also. That's my opinion guys!!!!!❤
We all want the same thing. We all want the best for our own future, with a partner that is courageous, trustworthy and compassionate. What I took from this episode is that noone should be "saved" from themselves. We all have to face our own uncomfortable truths and learn from them so that we can grow up. Skhu communicates honestly (with a healthy dose of humour and compassion) and Nozi has the courage to listen. I've seen episodes where Nozi takes the lead and Skhu listens (it happens in this episode too). You are responsible for YOURSELF and noone else. Stand by your values. If you think it's right, do it. If you don't think it's right, then don't do it. The trick to finding "the one" is having "laws" or values which you stand by religiously, and ultimately settling down with someone that aligns with your core values and is willing to listen when there are differences. The final outcome of every quarrel between lovers should be rooted in love for self, for your partner and everyone involved ❤
The fact that you entertain omnye umntu, you are already emotionally cheating on your partner. Communicate with each other and see if iyalunga through intervention or nikhululane mutually. This is a very interesting topic
If umntu feels uba u ready to date sana makaqhube for both parties futhi.. Ppl will always talk nyani Skhu. Let the law take it's course nawe ube uqhuba mntase.. Divorce can take years to finalise u can't put your life in hold for that. Makujolwe bethuna abantu babe happy asoooze klk..
I don't watch the show, but seeing your guy's excitement and bond over the show and the discussions and how you can open up about your past relationships is great. And look at the two of you now. The people who are now living in the light of God. Even Sis Nazi's compi/glow is also rubbing on to Bhuti Skhu.
Sana abantu bohlala bethetha, ifana nale yoba esintwini kuthwe akho yantlukwano, so noba ungaphum emtshatwini uyohlala ungumfazi wasemathileni. Mna I strongly agree with Skhu on this one forget the people and their name calling an shaming for a little while and make a decision that makes sense to you mntase ekgqibeleni you are going to live with that decision whether ubhatyazile or not, atleast maybe sisgqibo esikhethwe nguwe with your undiluted conscious mntasekhaya.
I think pregnancy has different effects on ppl. I have seen a lady during her first so so nice and smooth and glowing but her second did her so bad. She became so dark and rough skin and peeling of like fish scales.
The minute or day a couple sits down and decides things aren’t working and agree on getting a divorce, the relationship is over. It then depends on what they decided on about moving on with their lives. For example, they can decide ba the love is over but actually finalise the divorce and stuff 2 years later because they are both just trying to deal with the reality of things both emotionally and mentally. Then whilst at it ihealing yomnye might or can come through that one meeting or finding someone who makes them happy. So as long as he/ she is honest to nithe the new partner and the old about what the situation is I don’t think there’s anything wrong. As Bhut Skhu is saying, it’s according to their standards, decisions etc not anyone else’s. If someone now starts saying so and so is seeing someone but the divorce hasn’t been finalised (undwebile) akangeni ndawo and doesn’t know whether or not they’ve agreed that no it’s okay to move one with their lives in the process. In most cases you will see that you don’t belong somewhere whilst you are still there and it will take a certain assurance somewhere else to give you that push to actually really move out of the situation. As long as there’s transparency between the parties involved, omnye nomnye can assume and gossip all they want.
I am with Skhu on this one you cant let society stds prevail over ubomi bakho you need to have your own rules. Imagine divorce taking 2-3 years, you mo longer staying with the person, you have healed you meet another person but you waiting for a decree all because 'abantu bazothini' andizi
Sometimes people cheat just for the sake of cheating. The relationship doesn't necessarily have to have issues or question marks. For some people, cheating is in their blood, lack of morals, self-respect and self-control. If there is something wrong in a relationship, a true person will walk away from it instead of cheating.
Hi guys this empowers us most special married couples. Thank you, can you plz some other day Skhu explain to us why man always bring things that had happen long time ago .even if this has passed and you were both ok about it and forgive each other but when something happens, that foul will be unpacked again.
