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Just like I, as a POC who isn't a criminal, find the advice "have you tried not being a criminal" by racists to not be very helpful. It was mind boggling watching people post crime stats as proof that all men are creepy rapist serial killers during the bear debate and not realize they're doing the same thing as racists using FBI crime stats to say all blacks are murderous thugs. That said, these TikTok misandrists are just an insane vocal minority of women who are doomed to die alone surrounded by 50 cats. Don't take them seriously or as the voice of all women. Just like those "man-o-sphere" clowns don't speak for all men.
when you realize all of those problems are caused by and perpetuated by OTHER MEN. Not women. Im a dude, iv never been told im a pussy, or im gay, or im too sensitive by women. its always other men. so again the problem is MEN
"Have you ever considered that the reason you're lonely is that you're a terrible person?" Yes. I have. Constantly. My therapist tells me to stop doing that.
"Just smile"- Literally yesterday when I was walking through city vibing to music with a smile I was called a creep by some random group I passed. Just damn idk now.
just ignore them... I struggle to comprehend how someone can care about a random group of unknown people calling you creepy (if they even did call you creepy, you might have misheard)
I was sexually assaulted as a child. By a woman. Do you see me hating women? No. I could have used some mental health assistance growing up though…Thanks Shoe, for giving people like me even the slightest voice, and treating us as human-beings.
I hope you’re in a better place now But I can really see why someone in that kind of situation would hate the opposite gender, on both sides. Isn’t it said that such a traumatizing event can change even your sexuality and personal preferences?
What sunbeams people like you are. I consider there's two rules for watching stuff like this: 1. Internet is not a real life 2. Don't take women's words too seriously
It's so disgusting that there are over 2,000 domestic violence shelters for women in the US, but only 1 or 2 for men. In the entire country. Even though men are just as likely to suffer abuse in a relationship as a woman. Women can be very abusive but us men are just supposed to bottle our feelings and take it. Women are very often more abusive than men, the most abusive relationships are actually lesbian ones. I mean if men are so violent and abusive, then why are gay male relationships so much less abusive than lesbian ones?
It's functionally the same as saying "Women should get R more often." or "Women shouldn't feel safe walking alone." but hey, at least they're openly advertising how shitty of a person they are.
Probably a bot account. Never actually met anyone with toxicity levels so high, that Exxon could have consulted them on cleaning up the Valdez incident without anything dying.
thats the whole purpose of keeping records of events and history its so we won't be doomed to repeat it but some people are so stupid they don't realize when they are acting like an angry painter from austria
@@Supra2jTarga009There's a massive overlap in the two group's and they have extremely similar ideologies. It's not ironic or wild in the least. "Alpha Males" "Sigma Males "Go their own way" whatever stupid thing they want to call it this year which boils down to "disrespect women, acquire currency, simulate value"
You cannot feel empathy for groups you are supposed to hate.. it is amazing how brain-washed people are nowadays. The irony is how they cannot see that they are what they hate: bigots, sexists, racists.
Wouldn't say 'nowadays', empathy's near-always been treated as a display of weakness. The responses to the video demonstrate a militant reinforcement of that mindset too, yet at the same time each of those hateful retorts whined about themselves not receiving enough empathy. Since they keep saying it's the "consequences of their upbringing" while mocking others' misfortune, what does doing that say about their own upbringings? Were they all not taught basic compassion for others by their parents? Are we just seeing and entire generation of clinical psychopaths?
@@Mejustme101 to be fair, considering the internet-age pandemic of 'i'm an atheist becuase i just completelly misunderstood the point of the bible and what religion acutally is all about and how God operates', it makes total sense that if God is pro-empathy internet is anti-empathy
“Reaping the consequences of my own actions” yeah, sorry, it’s MY FAULT my mother decided to beat me and neglect me and keep my father away from me. It’s also MY FAULT that I grew up never being taught how to process and deal with emotions so I’m a complete wreck who can’t express his feeling properly, and it’s most certainly MY FAULT that two women, on two separate occasions, toyed with my emotions for extended periods of time and led me on until they got bored of me, tossed me away, and took all my ‘friends’ with them after all I did was be nice, naive, and socially and emotionally awkward because I wasn’t raised properly. Sorry, ladies, that’s my bad for being a man I guess?
I’m sorry about ur childhood, brother. Do not let these fools on Twitter get you down- continue to strive for true gender equality- where there is no misogyny or misandry. Where people are treated as human beings completely regardless of who they are. Where one gender has no expectations or views about the other except the other being kind and courteous to them.
As a guy who has never been in a relationship, I feel about as responsible about men raping women as a homeless starving beggar in America feels responsible for the obesity epidemic.
@@cloudybrains"starving beggars should just eat more so people dont end up being obese due to overeating 😡😡. its clearly those starving beggars' fault!!"
I find it funny that they always treat male loneliness as a deserved punishment for being a misogynist, when the most misogynistic dudebros I know are also womanizers.
That's why you don't do what they say. They don't believe the stuff they say. Don't be a male feminist. Don't bow to their whims. They will despise you for it.
it's like the logic is "I liked Chad. Chad pretended to like me just to sleep with me. I hate Chad. Every man is now Chad. I want revenge on Chad. Chad is not giving a f*ck, but since all other men are also Chad, if anything bad happens to them - I win! Oh, hi Brad!" and repeat...
Society: men need to express their feelings more often, they're too cold *men expressing his feelings and opening up* Society: omg stop making things about you, there are other problems in this world, why are you crying about your problems every time
Experienced that with my last relationship. Always told me I should speak my mind more. Suddenly when I did and I felt safe to do so I’m just “complaining and manipulative”. I just don’t understand it.
@@galaxypanda1288because people aren't honest about what they want. There may not be any duplicity here - they may not even know themselves. That's the problem with age. By the time you know what you actually want, your window for having kids is rapidly closing. This was fine when people died at the age of 45, but is a lot tricker now that we live longer. Heinlein talks about this in several of his books.
A man holding a baby saying "men are lonely because they are terrible people" is one of the saddest things I've ever seen. I hope he has a loving home.
except no, hes right when you realize all of those problems are caused by and perpetuated by OTHER MEN. Not women. Im a dude, iv never been told im a pussy, or im gay, or im too sensitive by women. its always other men. so again the problem is MEN. Well adjusted men are not lonely. its almost entirely men that try to impress other men.
As a male victim of sexual assault, when I talk to other guys, they'll listen to my story and how it effects me but when I talk to women, they make themselves the victim in my sexual assault story, even though it never happened to them. I have never been made fun of by a man when talking about my problems and feeling but women are the ones who make fun of me.
If we were good friends, I would for sure make fun of you....while also loving and supporting you in your pain and trauma....cuz that is what friends do
I was coerced into giving up my virginity for an A in college, by a woman. When I told other girls about this experience during the Me Too movement, I was told by said girls (who claimed to be my friends) that it wasn't coercion and that I consented to it so it was fine. Idk why women feel compelled to downplay this shit when it happens to us.
Wait, so you’re telling me you haven’t done: • ~35,400 accounts of first degree murder • ~5,000 accounts of second degree murder • ~250 accounts of third degree murder • ~48,000 accounts of manslaughter •genocide (total 105 million, both military and civilian deaths) • ~350,000 charges of theft (around $85 billion worth in goods) • ~1,500 accounts of battery • ~4,500 accounts of assault • ~11,500 of killing a wounded soldiers • ~3,500 of directing attacks at medics and other medical areas • ~2,000 of directing attacks at civilians • ~4,500 of directing attacks at civilian infrastructure • ~850 of directing towards high profile persons in war • ~115 accounts of corruption of leadership • ~95,000 accounts of animal cruelty • ~55 accounts of arson • ~350 of engaging in police chase • ~100 accounts of fraud • ~15 accounts of Identity theft • ~150 accounts of Grand theft • ~400 accounts of vandalism • ~50 accounts of impersonation • ~1,500 accounts of treason • ~250 accounts of Perjury • ~15 accounts of forgery • ~10 accounts of extortion And you’re a man?
Since my mum died I’ve found it extremely hard to meet people and talk to women. I’ve been very lonely as a result. But thankfully I now know it’s actually because I’m a terrible person and I deserve it. Thank you Twitter for always having the answer 🙏
Truth I made a bench for mine, put it in the park. When I miss her, I go there and talk to her. And I'm on speaking terms with most of the homeless population now, so technically I suppose it helped me meet people :D
As someone who has issue with trusting people in general(more with women then men) I have to say that I appreciate people like you, who see and issue and are willing to talk about it even though it will probably get you flamed, Thank you for being yourself
Don't delude yourself, these comments are merely a very loud minority of single, bitter, bitches that think life revolves around them and their desires. Most people, men and women, are inherently good. Maybe not exceptionally so, but enough to ensure the cogs of the great work called society keep turning. Look for help, you can find it.
No, those are the people you wouldnt want to be friends with anyway. Cheer up brother, if you feel ready there will be other guys who would be glad to be friends with you🫂
“As a lesbian woman, why should I care about men’s issues.” Well, as queer male, why should I care about women’s issues. Oh, right, BECAUSE NO ONE SHOULD HAVE TO SUFFER!
EX AC TLY, LIKE WTF DID WE DO TO YOU??? HOW ARE WE THE BAD ONES WHEN WERE SO LONELY MOST OF US HAVE NEVER EVEN HAD GIRLFRIENDS, Another thing, In the last video they only excluded trans-men, WTF DID THE GAYS DO??? WE JUST LIKE D***, IF YOU DONT WANT IT, LET US HAVE IT 😭
Also: blaming lonely men for abusing women. Reality: How can lonely man abuse girlfriend if you don't have girlfriend. Also Also: still lonely mans fault for abusing women.
The irony when the same women who claim that "Men deserve to be lonely because they sexualize and objectify women" are the same women who dismiss Shoe's entire video (which they haven't even seen) because of her make-up and/or haircut. The hypocrisy on Twitter is so damn tangy and tart.
Bro the irony is that women who objectify themselves, act like sadomasochists and support the liberal capitalist exploitation of women are the ones waving their fucking finger at you about "feminism".
That's what we call projection. They know on some level the criticisms they make are projections, but denial is more comfortable than the journey of self improvement, especially when the world wants to hold you back.
also ironic that some woman sexualize themselves these day, " huh my body my choice u just think like a rapist not me dressed like a slut " then rather drop out of school and choice open OF ( sexualize themselves on internet to earn money ) as full time job
Hol up! Hol up! They appear under the same banner. But they ain't the same people. We can't really prove they are one and the same. Though many will be. Hypocrisy be that way
The overall response is super narcissistic. They act like their issues triumph men’s loneliness so everyone should just ignore the problem altogether. Who knew that there’s more than one problem in society.
I mean, that saying is kinda dumb, it would be better to say that she is pissing off all the crazies, so she's going in the right direction. After all, a child r*p*st would also piss off both sides, but they are DEFINITELY not going in the right direction...
the reason I dont just end my life because of this, is because of people like you, seeing other genders defend men even if the majority doesnt is so heartwarming and makes me cry, thank you.
Also because her opinions have actually changed over time and her content reflects that. Too many commentators drown in their own kayfabe, end up doing the same thing for years, never changing and then wondering why they have no audience anymore (Hint if this has happened to you: It's because your audience grew up and you didn't).
Amen. These extremists are just scary and mentally unhinged. I don’t care wether it’s the extreme left, the extreme right, women hating men, men hating women… they are all crazy and dangerous imho. Is it so hard to feel empathy for another human being and their suffering? Best advice I can give people is to avoid extremists of all kind. Nothing good has ever come from extremist viewpoints.
unfortunately most people don't use their real names online when they post their personal opinions. we need a government issued ID mandatory-requirement to access and use the internet. not biometric but still a photo ID that cannot be duplicated. it gets complicated because I'm not for mandatory biometric databases of citizens but using the internet isn't a right, it's a privilege.
@@ian.swift.31614 it’s much easier than that, all the major sites used to spread this vitriol are run by very big companies, we could just put the burden on them to change their rules: 1. No pseudonyms, 2. For posting you have to register with your ID card. 3. Accounts that don’t comply get set to read(view) only. Don’t agree with that? Don’t use Google/Microsoft/Facebook/TikTok services.
I think the biggest take away from this video is both Men and Women aren't mentally doing well these days. Empathy and forgiveness is something we could all use more of.
@@ArantyrDarkhand do you have a mother? Does your mother not feel empathy? And btw i know alot of good woman and many bad and abusive ones. My cousin was abused by her husband who she was forced to marry and he divorced her and took the kids and ran off and she still hasn’t seen them. On the other hand my uncle had an abusive wife. Both genders can do bad things. Your just being on of those tweeter users but instead your hating woman. They aren’t aliens bro and please fix your spelling, its not “oter” its other.
“Reaping the consequences of my terrible upbringing.” Yes, exactly. By my single mother who removed my father from my life and kept me away from him to hurt him.
yes! You must suffer for the actions of others you had absolutely no control over! That just makes sense! I don't know how, but it does! (this is extreme sarcasm, if it wasn't clear)
@@DNova87 Right, lets talk about how THIS contributes to men's poor mental health & the lonliness issue over the last 50+ years. But if we do, we'd have to jump down the rabbit hole of how women's irresponsible selfish decision making over those years (not only men make bad choices, who knew?) has not only been a blight on society, but would get into why women had less rights up until the 60s.
I was a host at a restaurant for a few years, I was the only male alongside other hostesses. I have never pursued anything with any of them since I saw them all as friends and even like little sisters. The argument that you can’t develop a friendship without being sexualized by men is outright incorrect. However, at that same restaurant there was a creep bartender who would say only talk about the girls in disgusting ways, you experience what you surround yourself with. (Ended up getting in a fight with that guy after work since he followed a girl out to the parking lot harassing her)
As a random guy living in Australia, I had no idea I had maliciously weaved the world to cater to my every need at the expense of all women. I'm honestly surprised at how I have been able to achieve this while working my 9-5 job as a crane operator. Clearly, I am deserving of loneliness, suicidal ideation and vitriolic hatred from the opposite sex.
Exactly, as a fellow random guy living in Australia. The oppression we impose is almost palpable. Not a crane operator, just a random guy who builds shit, but I hope this shit doesn't get to you too much, keep er goin👍
As an eternal brain-hopping parasite that's been around since the founding of society, I can safely take blame for the founding of the patriarchy. My bad, folks.
It's usually women who have been burned or hurt by a man, that sucks, but you can't just hate the whole male race and pretend we are not emotional beings deserving of love, yes shitty men exist, but not all of us, and shitty women exist too....
I just appreciate the irony of this being the high point in their lives. A series of economic and demographic factors will result in a significantly reduced standard of living.
"Misery loves company". That's all it really boils down to as why everyone on Twitter was so unfathomably callous. This is the word we live in now sadly...
@spinetingler-op6st I'm sorry is there some kind of issue? Because yeah when something disgusting is being expressed over something that should be basic human decency I think anyone would be at the very least irritable. Please do tell me what I should be feeling 🙏.
I find it disgusting that mental health is considered a partisan issue, it’s a human issue, we have to all support each other so nobody gets left behind, regardless of who we are. So I think you helping bring these types of issues to light is a great thing. Keep it up.
Its ironic because a lot of people that are making those terrible comments are terrible people themselves, but I guess it makes them feel better by blaming someone else for being terrible. Or I guess they think that the men are more terrible than them, so its okay to make terrible comments. Its quite hypocritical too. They can make terrible comments, but if men do it, thats not okay. In this case, as it often is, there are men and women both blaming lonely men.
@@jackmemphis777 It's easy to call them terrible, but understand that they're every bit as nuanced as you are. They said a terrible thing and that terrible thing probably came from a terrible place in their mind that arose from a terrible experience. The people expressing a lack of empathy are pitiable. Be better than them.
"male suicide rate needa be higher actually" As someone who has dealt with suicide in my family (and personally) from a young age, that is a horrific thing to say. (Edit: Thank you all for the kind words. I did not expect this comment to get that much support. I hope you are all doing good.)
@@24shineon Thanks, and I'm all good now. Comments like this really bug me because several men on on my mum's side of the family committed suicide while I was a kid, and my dad made a few attempts when I was a teen. It is traumatizing for everyone involved, and to even suggest its a good thing is just plain evil.
As a kid my mom would talk about how disgusting men were and I always thought would my mom love me more if I was a women it’s kinda heartbreaking and I’d never put my future children through that.
So many men raised by single parents and this is what they have to deal with, not to mention they can't choose to live with their dad most of the times. And of course their dad can be at fault for many things, but it's just insane that you take what your partner did to you and pass it onto your child. I don't understand how immature/stupid you have to be not to understand the consequences of that. And sorry for saying that but it's my opinion.
I love how they think of lonely men as ràpists, oppresors to women and the creators of the system and patriarchy or whatever. Like bro, we are average joes working normal jobs and lives and are just that miserable. And yet these people condemn us for it. Thats how sick these people are.
And condemn us for issues that have been built to this point for decades even before some of us were born. Yet it's just every man's and son's fault if they feel lonely at some point. I guess we should not have just been born as men to not have this issue. It's crazy how they don't see how they are just perpetuating the problem. Or they know and just don't care. It sucks either way and is wild..
Poor little you, wahhh wahhh, you dgaf about misogyny and what we go through but you expect usbto coddle you. You're MEN. just go ahead and delete alone because women will not treat you like princesses lol
"Maybe you're just lonely because you're an awful human being" This is funny because you first need to actually interact with other humans in order to treat them awfully.
Apparently you don't need. Someone saying awful things about you and them being right about it or not are two separate things. This is why majority of hatred online can exist. For some people one single person doing harm to them is enough for them to be prejudiced against a whole ethnicity or gender. For some some people merely hearing on social media about something can make them prejudiced against a whole ethnicity or gender.
We need to focus more on womens wrongs. Like being a parrot for the state in most cases. I bet a bajillion dollars the women attacking shoe voted for biden
I love that the same people who say "boo hoo You're lonely, deal with it" are the same ones that flip out when they find out guys are going overseas to find partners
Yeah there's a lot of videos on mail order Brides or passport bros. I did it before it was cool lol. I was with Hungarian for 7 years. I'd say it's worth it. But be prepared, it's not easy!
There is one angle where this makes sense though. Sure she always tells the truth, but she only tells the truth that suit her desires. Think like, how whats on the news is bias no matter what because there is a story they aren't covering even if its just due to time. This dude is saying (maybe) that even when it's the truth their is an alternative motive behind it. Your right, it's fucked, but it makes sense how he got there anyway.
Every relationship they have been in has to be toxic in some way for them to say that. There’s no way that’s something a sane person would say. But aren’t we all a little bit mad at this point, Alice?
i like how most of the hate on tiktok and twitter are people who had one bad experience with men. one bad experience was enough to convince people(majority of the hate was from women) that men are terrible humans beings and we shouldn't care about them. that just sounds crazy to me because not all men are the same, and most men (including me) are just lonely and want that companionship. and i just hate the fact people are telling men to become gay, that isn't gonna help 😃
Funny that you liked your own comment but anyway, thoughts of misandry born from bad experiences are then amplified by echo chambers like twitter and such. It should sound crazy to you BECAUSE IT IS CRAZY. No, one, human being would come up with such terrible ideas. The system is fucked
As a single father of three girls, hearing some of these tweets and responses really hurt my heart man. I'm struggling at the moment but keep it to myself because there is nowhere to express myself without hearing "power through it". Surviving an abusive relationship is apparently no excuse to feel down. Buck up boys, you can handle it!😢
Raise those girls right. Be the man you want them to look for as friends or companions. Don't tell them, show them. I imagine you are already doing that.
Man I know it can be really fkg hard, sometimes you feel like you just can't shrug things off and keep going but you can do it, it might suck now but it'll get better one day Never loose hope, for your 3 baby girls
dont worry about them man, theyre self entitled narcissists, every emotion you feel is valid, im sure youre an amazing father to your girls and you deserve all the happiness in life
I almost lost my boyfriend to suicide and I have seen many of the men in my life, ie family members/coworkers/classmates/teachers/fellow internet friends, feel hopeless with how male loneliness is played off as a joke. thank you Shoe and everyone that is bringing this vital conversation to everyones attention
You have to reverse the brainwashing done to your man... the societal roles he is conditioned to adhere to make him miserable. This is what Patriarchy does... men see each other as enemies or competition... not friends. That is the issue. Patriarchy is like kryptonite to normal men... only the patriarchal elders benefit.
I can see the pattern of women seeing only men that they are interested with, the same men that uses them, ignor them and rest below top 20% are just invisible.
I've carried two coffins of my friends. Knew many more. Been in army, guy have put two 7.62 mm bullets in his brain, all because of women. Some men can't handle solitude, they are broken. They feel lonely. It's unnatural. Men are built for hardship, not for comfort. Worked for me, I've been a troublemaker, now- through solitude, I'm whole. I'm finding myself quite comfortable in those troublesome times. There is no easy way to say it: for men- hard way is the easy way. The right way.
@@GabrielleTollerson They're jaded. You'll never see anyone talk about women's issues like this in a genuine way. One of my recommended videos on the right side of this video is literally someone saying "feminism made women lonely"
A woman complaining about how men treat them as if young women in particular don't gaslight, manipulate and put down other women on a far more malevolent scale
I hate that some people don’t like groups because of their ancestry, it’s not my fault what my ancestors did and I already feel bad enough because of what they did when it’s not my fault
@@ShielaM-p1w Men have trouble giving empathy to women? Women never taught their children how to be empathetic to other people? Its womens fault. They kicked our Fathers out of the house then blamed men for not knowing how to be good men.
We not only have a loneliness crisis, we have a hate crisis. Online toxicity is reaching a real boiling point. It's horrible. Everyone needs some kindness lately. Sigh.
The mentally ill people with personality disorders are gradually bullying away all the mentally healthy people. Give it another ten years and online comments will be just like a window into an asylum.
@@aa-uz5gvpoint flew over your head, keyword here is "prove" you can be the fastest human being on earth however you wouldn't be able to prove that if everyone ignores you.
I know one man that told me he was drugged and assaulted by women like it was a joke, and he immediately burst into tears when I didn’t laugh. Apparently I was the first person that didn’t think it was remotely funny. That was one of the saddest things I’ve ever seen.
I’ve been raped, but as a woman, I know I can find support services anywhere in the country and that my assault will be taken seriously. Men don’t have that. I’m so sorry that happened to him. I hope he was able to get help and heal.
I don't understand why people have to be hateful all the time. Loneliness on a massive scale is an issue, but the way these people reacted with such bitterness boils my blood. It's not hard to be nice.
Some of the hateful people are lashing out because of harms they've recieved and some of them are actually psychos who enjoy causing harm, and a lot of them are just normal every day nieve people going along with the crowd. If you read about how cycles of abuse are handed down in families generationally, you can see these same patterns playing out in society as a whole. Some people fall in line and become victims, some fall in line and become abusers, but the thing thats needed is for people to keep learning and growing as a person, refuse to play the toxic games, and actively choose to play more emotionally healthy, life affirming games.
what annoys me is a lot of the people saying that terrible stuff think they're really good people, and never consider how cruel it is to claim you enjoy the depression and sadness of complete strangers based on arbitrary characteristics
By their own standards, they're sexist and prejudiced people. If you look at an opinion and try to decipher which ideology it belongs to, you're part of the problem.
These kinds of people don't truly consider what a "good person" is. They jump on the wave that gets them the most recognition and attention and just ride that. You want upvotes/retweets/likes/subscribers on the internet? Hate men. There you go, ez.
I'm not sure if that's true, that these people think they _are_ good people. They may claim that's what they think, but the inner toxicity and the OF accounts seem to imply they don't really believe it in their conscience. This is what motivates them to attack others: to attempt to prove to their inner judgement that "see, I'm not as bad as _those_ people, am I?"
this almost made me cry. I know it shows the worst sides, but those sides are shown to a ton of people, only making it a bigger opinion. I wont voice my opinion, but I do agree with ya
true that. If sex was the thing, I could get it by throwing money at some escorts. This isn't that... I need companionship with sex [I would be lying if I said I dont care about sex at all]
As a guy that was raped as a boy, seeing women pull the "we are sexualized and raped" card makes me doubt whether they've actually had that experience or not...
Those types of women like to victimize themselves when it isn't about them at all. They want to spread an agenda when there isn't any to go against. I'm also sorry you were raped. You didn't deserve to go through that ❤ I hope you heal and do good in life
@@idkwhatnonamemyself1951 Thanks to over a decade of practice and true love finding me, I'm doing just fine nowadays, but it always pisses me off to see that kind of nonsense.
"Did they consider that they're lonely because they're awful human beings?" Ah yes! Why haven't I thought of that? Now it all makes sense! The real reason I'm lonely is because I'm a complete and utter disgrace of a human male! And all this time I thought it was because I have social anxiety, lack of social skills or an aversion to social communication because I think the society is the problem and that the people in society suck!
@@Thompson200Z It turns out that having a good appearance, confidence, or income... none of these things are needed to avoid being lonely. Just don't be evil incarnate, or a man, because those are the same thing, and you'll be all set. Good luck you awful human being
All those people who disagree and complain about it. They are probably the same people who get pissed when a *male* friend doesn't have a crush on them
I'm a woman... yet some of these really hurt. Many of these responses are straight up disturbing. The great lack of empathy, the jumping to conclusions, the borderline allergic reactions to men to a point that they don't wanna hear "men deserve better"... it's all weird. These people are really, REALLY miserable.
Honestly, I heavily agree with that. Easy test to show how bad the double standards and hurtful language of those statements were is simply to reverse who’s being attacked. Replace man with women or another marginalized group, And replace women with men or white Person. Shoe did it a couple of times in the video but I did that to each one and easily spotted what sounded like racism or misogyny as soon as the words were reversed. So it hurts to see that there are people who believe the statements as they are in earnest without realizing how hateful it all is. That smile more montage especially hurt. As someone in the service industry rn, it’s easy to see myself resonating with anyone who’s insulted or hurt by hearing that so frequently. hearing those words from a boss is a burden for everyone! It annoys me greatly that some of these people can’t simply empathize with the other side and think “maybe smile more isn’t just an insult to women, but an insult to anyone you say it to”
Us guys just have to turn the phone off, chances are they want people to get outraged because they get off on the negative attention. These chicks are totally fried, it's emotional diarrhea. It's totally pointless to try and attack it with reason. You should see these chicks the same way you see a crazy guy jumping up and down screaming in the street.
Shes is only making money off of this, she doesnt care about you nor is she you hero. If she truely cared about men, she would march and protest laws that heavily affect men in a bad way. Become your own hero, learn female nature and get red pill about the world, that is what will free you.
@@SneakyPirate54I've been a fairly progressive liberal all my life, but honestly the more I look at gender relations today, the more I think traditionalists might have a point.
@@SneakyPirate54the solution is to have a care for your fellow human being. These hateful women have essentially "othered" men so completely, they're not seeing us as fellow humans any more
My mom used to tell me that I was going to grow up to be a wife beater when I was young I guess thats not really an uncommon thing anymore. She tried so hard to get me to hit her too, terrible person
I'm what you would call "far right, ultra MAGA, pale epidermis raisist, capitalist, toxic masculine, patriarchal, anti grooming, conspiracy theo resist, TRUblood " and all the other things you would label ONE side; an I absolutely have and want nothing to do with the whole mgtow/manosphere psy op. I actually have gone "my own way", but those dudes are just male femanits; F em..
I did NOT expect a video on loneliness to be this controversial. Also, I’m not even a man, but the amount of misandry was upsetting. People have literally died from loneliness and these Tweeters and Tiktokers are saying that *men deserve it*. Think about that.
you are the only one that could make you happy. true happiness comes from within, and when you can't be happy with yourself, it follows that you wouldn't be truly happy with the presence of others so cope.
@@TheEnclave419so why are you playing videogames, watching RU-vid or doing anything other than sit cross legged on the floor meditating? your brain is wired from birth to seek external validation, getting scolded has been shown to fire the same neurons as physical pain. you can't just say "just be happy", any therapist will tell you that. the internet has been the most destructive system to human psyche
@@ricardo8640To know and not to know, to be conscious of complete truthfulness while telling carefully constructed lies, to hold simultaneously two opinions which cancelled out, knowing them to be contradictory and believing in both of them, to use logic against logic, to repudiate morality while laying claim to it, to believe that democracy was impossible and that the Party was the guardian of democracy, to forget whatever it was necessary to forget, then to draw it back into memory again at the moment when it was needed, and then promptly to forget it again, and above all, to apply the same process to the process itself...
women have only one tool they are thinking is worth something is sex deprivation, but the simple thing if they g hate men and shit on men like this and this aren't going to change, some day shit going to hit the fan. Men are the stronger human kinds part and less predictive on emotions, In before WW3 F/M going to be slater house. And no one going to cry about rape and shit. - Just crazy " thots " .
It’s so funny since they get extremely defensive about it and try to push the blame onto someone else when someone’s issue is called into question. It’s giving “hE DID IT MOMMY! NOT ME!” Behaviour. If these women expect empathy from men when they’re facing an issue that society - not men, not women - perpetuates, then why do they lack that when men talk about the stuff they’re facing? Even if we do live in a patriarchy, many women still do uphold sexist values. Women absolutely *do* have power in society since many of them are raising the next generations who will rule the world. And we’ve got angry “feminists” absolving them from any blame when they tell their sons to “man up”, to not wear pink, and to like it when a girl is harassing them.
@@xxxmaysilssss690 Patriarchy doesn't = men. Patriarchy is a system that 9/10 unfairly and unreasonably puts men in positions of power and separates qualities of character into masculine and feminine. 1/10 times the women do benefit from the multitude of double standards this system presents. That's at least what the feminists argue but I think it's a p good description of the situation we're in
This is exactly the comment I put on the first video. When she's talking about loneliness, It does not mean that men are just getting laid less. It means that they are lonely in every aspect, including platonic relationships which are super important (not having friends can actually shorten your lifespan considerably).
I have been told everything from being too nice, to mean, to quite, to loud, nothing was ever enough. What changed? Me giving a shit. the moment I stopped caring, and lived for myself. Even the people who tried to berate or harsh my vibe. They just stopped existing. Do I have an S/O now, yes. Am I perfect, oh god no. I can be picky, stubborn, AND an asshole when I need to be. Do I have friends? Nope. Dont want any. Tried, they either leave, or the last dozen or so I had, lied or just were asshats, so I just decided, why need friends? Anyway, hope you all have a wonderful day, I know I will. why? Because I am still alive and kickin.
I’m a lesbian and this is why I don’t feel accepted or “belonging” within my own community. I have several men (family members and friends) in my life that I love and appreciate and would go to great lengths in order to defend. Then I see posts and hear people talking about how they’re all monsters, laughing at their pain and treating them as subhuman, and when I try to be a voice of reason they go after me. The LGBTQ community is supposed to be about accepting everyone and a lot of them can’t even do that.
bro these men will just tell you to try some dick or something equally offensive. the'yre not worth it. they will never be your friend unless they have something to gain from it.
The key fundamental that you have to remember is that the LGBTQ Community is still human. Very much human. That's why a lot of them are a-holes and can't even practice what they preach.
The loneliness isn't our inability to make friends, men typically have smaller friend circles. Where the loneliness comes from is those responses, the complete lack of empathy shown towards men who are struggling and to top it all off, told we deserve it. It's being told we need to open up more then mocked when we do.
it comes from OTHER MEN you realize all of those problems are caused by and perpetuated by OTHER MEN. Not women. Im a dude, iv never been told im a pussy, or im gay, or im too sensitive by women. its always other men. so again the problem is MEN
The whole "just dial up the gay homie" thing blows my mind. we've come full circle from "we're born this way" to "you can choose to become gay if you can't find a woman".
It's a reaction to men telling unattractive women to go lesbian, which they do a lot, when they're not telling to fuck dogs or die alone with their cats.
This really shows how disgusting and how mentally ill people can be .... even outside of Twitter. “The Men’s suicide rate should be higher” how disgusting can a “human” being be ...
When I heard that one, I could hardly even believe that. I know it’s Twitter and all that, but I guess I still had a little too much faith in humanity.
If you spend time only in a mental asylum, you'd think everyone has gone insane. Similarly, if you spend time on TikTok and Twitter, you'll think that the society consists of nothing but brainless drones.
All generations are susceptible to the propaganda of the time. it's more sad that most people don't grow beyond it because they saturate themselves with people that reflect themselves.
Sounds like you missed the joke, the whole point was to make fun of people who say "smile more" as advice to women. It was not serious advice, it was making fun of the people who do give that as advice. (Not saying it's a *good* joke, just that you missed it)
@@blackeyefly yeah thats what i was thinking, they say it to be petty because doctors etc. dont take women seriously and tell them to "just smile" or not be "dramatic" and so on.
me who has asthma: im i wish i could breathe better some random kid in my grade: ya know you can control it and breathe better? me: how the FUCK do you control asthma?
I'm sincerely grateful for these twitter comments, because they help me understand who are the women I need to avoid, and who are the women I know I am safe with, and are actually just good people 😭 Thank you for being a good person and fighting for ACTUAL equality, not the bullshit these same twitter people are feeding themselves to feel like what they're doing is a good thing! :)
You have just described leftist ideology at its very core. It's filled with hypocrisies and double standards... to such a blatant degree, I would have a hard time believing even the most ideologically brainwashed leftist on the planet wouldn't be able to admit that truth on some level. This is quite literally a direct example of that. These types of people are what the leftist ideology are creating in masses. Unfortunately, the other end of the spectrum... well that is filled with a lot stupidity and corruption, stubbornness, and unwillingness to change. And a splash of ignorance. Even MORE unfortunately, finding bipartisan content that is actually founded on objectivity and truths is nearly impossible to come by. It's not as clickbaity or controversial. People are so deeply ingrained in their ideologies, they believe whatever the flying f**k their side says. I don't agree with most things this chick speaks about, I am fundamentally conservative at the core, albeit sick of the stupidity of my side... but it is incredibly refreshing to see not only a woman, but a LEFTIST woman in particular, speak on male issues in today's society... and not just disregard them.
