“my wife is overweight 🆘” 

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I CANNOT BELIEVE THERE ARE ACTUAL PEOPLE LIKE THIS IN THE WORLD! he actually thinks she is the probrem?😅 the poor woman 😱🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

How is she overweight at 160lb and 5’8”

I like the advice you give 🌺

The real issue here is pornography. Watching porn creates unrealistic expectations and can lead to dissatisfaction with real-life relationships. Most performers have undergone surgery, and this comparison can make genuine attraction difficult. Over time, porn can desensitize you, leading to the pursuit of more extreme content, some that even involve children. which is harmful and damaging. Pornography is forbidden for a reason. Encourage each other in your health and fitness goals and work together on weight loss. Support and motivation strengthen bonds. marital relationships require effort and respect. REMEMBER also to make dua for it to be successful “And those who say: Our Lord! Bestow on us from our wives and our offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and make us leaders for the Muttaqun.’” (Al-Furqan 25:74)

He needs a personal trainer to raise his own self esteem, this will also encourage his wife to exercise

I think this is very common nowadays! The brother needs to reevaluate 🤦‍♂️

Husband is deluded

Love your response 👏👏👏👏 wise words

I just though that u will advice to gift her a trainings courses and blablabla but Mashallah u looked at this situation from a smart and deep point of view. Thank u for your useful videos

You ate him up😭😭😭😭

deff one of the best channels cl

She’s not overweight, he just doesn’t like her proportions. A lot of men looking for a wife these days with match making services are being very specific about their preferred body types. Waist to hip ratios etc Imagine feeling safe, secure and loved by your husband only to find out you are not enough to make him feel like a man because your body fat is not distributed in the “right” places 😢

He definitely needs rehab. This will not go away. Because of his habits his mind has created an unrealistic and unhealthy expectations that will be damaging to him and his family. May Allah help our youth and safeguard them from these types of harms. Ameen Great video MashaAllah

Didn’t watch whole video yet but I feel like that high and the weight much really well. That guy need to lower his gaze and pray to Allah SWT that He bless his marriage

He needs rehab asap

hes very shallow...but he should have an open conversation with and he tries to build with her a healthy lifestyle together setting weight gaol together ....and pretty much sure hes overweight too

I can't believe he is complaining about 5'8" 160 lbs. Even if she was 400-500lbs, he should still love her. You should only want her to get her weight down so that she can live long. The problem is definitely him and corn.

she should glow up and divorce him!

He needs to lower his gaze

2:16 I’m crying😭😂

Wait, I’m 5’8 and 170 and considered slim lol. How is that overweight?? 😅 maybe the guy has the numbers wrong 😩

Its not just pornography but all the forbidden things also girls in general or movies they should not watch There is a certain standard created and sometimes even through the mother that likes to be vocal around her sons about what a woman should look like Ditch all the fairytales. It seems they are ok or even atttracted sometimes to women of that height but after a little while they become too much for them to see Terrible is a man that makes a woman feel bad about herself

Can we see what the guy looks like just to be fair???

If you're a woman, you should be giving your husband the best possible version of you. Alot of women have this attitude of 'i am who i am', yet all this means is a lathargic lifestyle and bad eatinf habits. Just a side-point away from the video because the guy has his own issues.

This ent right

She is not overweight. Her body is overweight.

Subhaallah that's kinda weird....he just comparing her with those nagoos he which on the site....may Allah protect us from a man like him.and he need to get rid of it

Hey chubby girls are cuddly though.