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“Porn Addiction” - The Biggest Threat To YOUNG MEN 

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Patrick Bet-David explains the damage that porn addiction is inflicting on young men today.
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@smith-ol5cx
@smith-ol5cx 2 дня назад
2 things that turned my life 180 degrees. 1. I stopped watching pornography. 2. I read the book 'The Hidden Truths Of Wealth'
@TopDog-to8vt
@TopDog-to8vt 2 дня назад
How did it change you life in comparison to your past? Could you please go to a little bit of detail. I too (18 tears old) kicked that destructive and addictive habit out of my life.
@kofi2k11
@kofi2k11 2 дня назад
By Henry smith?
@ddubsr5886
@ddubsr5886 2 дня назад
Time for you to get born again by asking for the forgiveness of your sins and trusting in the only savior that can save you and died and rose again on the third day: Jesus and you can add that number 3 to your list but it will be at the top of your list
@noelmilimo5937
@noelmilimo5937 2 дня назад
Name the author of the book
@smith-ol5cx
@smith-ol5cx 2 дня назад
Author is Oliver Mercer
@MilitaryBase-wt8jr
@MilitaryBase-wt8jr 13 часов назад
I started doing drugs since my teenage. Got addicted to heroin for over 16 years. Heroin addiction actually destroyed my life. I suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Not until my mom recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 8 years totally clean. Never thought I would be saying this about mushrooms.
@AmadaBlack
@AmadaBlack 13 часов назад
Amen God bless people. Save your health save your mind. Life is better without heroin, cocaine, alcohol and cigarettes. And you have more money in your pocket. God bless everyone who has rejected the devils intentions to be addicted to alcohol and cigarettes etc which can cause so much damage to health.
@ThomasBurlson
@ThomasBurlson 13 часов назад
​@@AmadaBlackCan you help me with the reliable source A. I'm 56 and have suffered for years with addiction, anxiety and severe ptsd, I got my panic attacks under control myself years ago and they have come back with a vengeance, I'm constantly trying to take full breaths but can't get the full satisfying breath out, it's absolutely crippling me, i live in France. I don't know much about these mushrooms. Really need a reliable source!! Can't wait to get them.
@WooodTh
@WooodTh 13 часов назад
​@@ThomasBurlsonYes he's Dr.jeffshroom. Shrooms to me is a natrual healer. I know a guy who has used
@BrieflyCarmel-vw1zn
@BrieflyCarmel-vw1zn 13 часов назад
​@@AmadaBlackI'm really happy for you that your mom decided to help you...I hear about alot of family members or so called friends shutting an addict out of their life, which since most addicts do it to mask emotions to me is the worse thing someone can do to an addict.
@PrincewillNwaegbe
@PrincewillNwaegbe 13 часов назад
​@@BrieflyCarmel-vw1znmushrooms in the same way and they have really helped him. mah dudes have safe trips all.
@giodude92
@giodude92 2 дня назад
Porn is DEMONIC! I'm so glad I overcame my addiction years ago. I'm never turning back!
@yournewfarther
@yournewfarther День назад
Damn bro your youtube account is as old as mine
@HalimaKayPakwaan
@HalimaKayPakwaan День назад
​@@yournewfarther bruhhh you guys some old ass niggas ngl 😂😂
@RawDogTV
@RawDogTV День назад
@@yournewfartherwhat does that have to do with what he said???
@yournewfarther
@yournewfarther День назад
@@RawDogTV what has your comment to do with mine?
@RawDogTV
@RawDogTV День назад
@@yournewfarther you’re slow
@DiamondKing-o5t
@DiamondKing-o5t 3 дня назад
Been exposed to porn at age 7, have been watching on a regular basis since 12, I am now 29 and am 118 days free. The urge to watch porn no longer posses me, what made me stop is understanding that watching porn hinders my ability to live a meaningful and successful life. For these past 118 days, I no longer eat bad processed food, I am no longer overweight, I am no longer unmotivated to reach my goals. Porn hinders living a quality life, and if someone like me who was addicted to it since age 12 can break free from it, SO CAN YOU! Please do not be hard on yourself, quitting an addiction is always difficult, withdrawals come to play and sometimes relapses occur, and if it does, START OVER! Trust me, your whole life can change in a matter of months! To whoever reads this, I BELIEVE IN YOU! 💪
@AK-sm3kp
@AK-sm3kp 3 дня назад
Praying for you!!!🙏🏻🙏🏻 You treat porn like a person hunting you down with a gun. You flee from it! It wants to drag you to your death. I pray that if you haven't done so, that you'll surrender your heart to Jesus.🙏🏻
@clayface1526
@clayface1526 2 дня назад
Porn made you fat? Porn made you unmotivated? What type of porn were you watching brother. The levels of cope going on here is insane.
@Kushken
@Kushken 2 дня назад
@@clayface1526 You are the one coping here brother, porn takes your motivation for all the reasons said in the video
@clayface1526
@clayface1526 2 дня назад
​@@Kushken Yeah, prob shouldn't have said unmotivated lol. I can imagine how porn can make someone unmotivated to go out and look for a partner but if you take away that sentence, I still stand by what I said. The original poster basically blamed porn for him being fat and 'eating bad processed food'. Like are we being serious?
@colbalt95
@colbalt95 2 дня назад
Constant ejaculation lowers testosterone which is a key component of building a man's mindset. Keep in mind he said he has been doing this since a young age so there is a difference of someone who has built himself up and then get hindered by prawn. ​@clayface1526
@austinfairbanks9142
@austinfairbanks9142 3 дня назад
I was addicted to Heroin and alcohol and porn. Out of all 3 of these Porn was the hardest to quit. We need more of this Thank you PBD
@jcbbb
@jcbbb 3 дня назад
Then you definitely wasn't addicted to heroin but go on w ya bad self
@kevinlucas9905
@kevinlucas9905 3 дня назад
That speaks volumes!
@BrettW-py1ct
@BrettW-py1ct 3 дня назад
God bless you bro
@bradleyjohnson6107
@bradleyjohnson6107 3 дня назад
Pretending the porn consumption is equal to and is as detrimental and destructive as heroin and alcohol abuse is hilarious. I’ve never heard of anyone dying of a porn overdose, and I’ve never heard of anyone accidentally killing a family by running their car into them because they were under the influence of porn.
@Ryang1987
@Ryang1987 3 дня назад
I was having a conversation with an in-law. I was telling them how I'm going to teach my son to stay away from porn and teach him why. The Response I got was you need to let them experiment and figure out these things themselves. My response was would you let your son figure out for themselves and experiment with heroin. They looked at me like i was crazy. I had to take it back to chemistry. I said the dopamine Spike and crash are not dissimilar. Except with heroin you can isolate yourself from supply. With porn or masturbation it not only on us but it's in us 24/7/52
@garsto9718
@garsto9718 2 дня назад
I stopped using porn and alcohol when I left the Navy. My life's been on the up ever since. No struggles with delaying gratification, no struggles with discipline, no struggles with social relationships (mostly lol ).
@hoanglinhdao8924
@hoanglinhdao8924 3 дня назад
I pray to our father most high to help all the men young and old to have the strength to fight off this addiction 🙏
@stephenwilson1012
@stephenwilson1012 3 дня назад
At 35 years old I was sexually abused at age 7, got addicted to porn by 10, and just the last couple years I've realized how much it's changed and destroyed my life. There are ZERO positives to pornography.
@Superdimensional
@Superdimensional 3 дня назад
I could argue it saves millions of women from getting raped 🤷‍♂️
@kennywynn1513
@kennywynn1513 3 дня назад
Don’t let that trauma define you bud. Keep your chins up 👍🏼
@dareal5401
@dareal5401 3 дня назад
what does the abuse have to do with your addiction
@gymboy2119
@gymboy2119 3 дня назад
@@dareal5401are you serious…. Use your head. He was sexually abused, which caused him to be hyper sexual. Thus seeking out that dopamine online
@DocMC86
@DocMC86 3 дня назад
Way more common than people would imagine.
@apatheticexistence
@apatheticexistence 2 дня назад
im day 25 of nofap. last streak was 183 days. im feeling great.
@divinius_infinitum
@divinius_infinitum 3 дня назад
It’s time men recognize Semen Retention world wide.
@patriciogarza3598
@patriciogarza3598 3 дня назад
I was addicted for 20 years.. introduced at a young age. No matter what I did on my own terms I couldn't stop. Plus I believed in the common lies I see in the comment section: "its normal, everyone does it, historically its been around, its good practice, if you dont use it, you lose it", now I just laugh and dismiss the nonsense for what it is, just lies. God is good, he saved me from a cycle of despair, broken relationships and all the nastiness associated with this garbage. With one (JUST ONE vs 20 years on my own!) confession, Jesus set me free and have been clean since and he can do the same with you out of His sheer goodness and HIS LOVE FOR YOU!! PRAISE AND GLORY TO HIS NAME! :)
@Deanna974
@Deanna974 3 дня назад
AMEN!!!! I love this. This makes me so happy. 🙂🙂❤️❤️❤️ Even the secular world is waking up to the evil that is pornography. I think this is why I lot of people are lonely and depressed; they cannot emotionally connect.
@bradleyjohnson6107
@bradleyjohnson6107 3 дня назад
And yet, even as you write all this, I have no doubt that you have looked at porn within the last seven days.
@krninja22
@krninja22 3 дня назад
Amen. Proud of you.
@patriciogarza3598
@patriciogarza3598 3 дня назад
@@Deanna974 I spent 20 plus years in the secular world and had a rough go at it, I was what Christians call "lost to the world". I had nothing to offer Jesus, then. He didnt have to do anything, but He did just out of Love (its very real!). But I can testify, He can single handedly take away depression, loneliness, even pains of emotion neglect. If people only knew how much He cares, and how perfect His LOVE is! I would encourage people to please give Him a chance!
@carlfreiermuth5424
@carlfreiermuth5424 3 дня назад
I literally met Jesus behind the gas station and he was a drunk migrant worker. he influenced me to start drinking but nowadays I don't drink alcohol at all. I can't say the same for Jesus. 🤷
@NetSunJin
@NetSunJin День назад
P*** addiction affects marriages. I’m a witness of that. It’s definitely weakening our men. Glad this is a conversation. It’s not to shame but to bring an issue to light
@MarkHicks-qh5gt
@MarkHicks-qh5gt 2 дня назад
I think porn addiction is as bad now then it was ever due to how prevalent it is. Our phones are in our pockets and hands everyday. Sometimes porn is a urge due to boredom. It's terrible, that's why I work out and read more. I hated that and alcohol.
@digitalstoic1
@digitalstoic1 3 дня назад
Either someone says it's good or bad, it doesn't make a difference because it's bad and you are witness to the negative effects it had/has on your life.
@wilbertbrown8527
@wilbertbrown8527 3 дня назад
The answer to this addiction is to FAST and PRAY against the spirit of lust.
@Masterthyselfandconquer
@Masterthyselfandconquer 3 дня назад
100%!
@Makai77
@Makai77 3 дня назад
Yes. FAST and PRAY consistently and often.
@coreywilliscraft2462
@coreywilliscraft2462 3 дня назад
How is lust a bad thing? Isn't that what makes us want to find a partner or spouse in the first place? Ive never understood this.
@jamesdot87
@jamesdot87 3 дня назад
I disagreee guys….by far the best counter to oorn addiction is to eiminate idle time and block xxx websites from your browser….get out of the house and work and stay busy….learn a new skill and excerise. For the first 2 weeks make yourself so tired out aide that as soon as you het home and hit the bed you zzz and set an alarm to wale up early and tAke COLD SHOWERS
@Shogunpandapolis
@Shogunpandapolis 3 дня назад
Jealous bro?
@meals24u
@meals24u День назад
*I am so thankful that I was able to kick this bad habit some time ago! My relationship is now more intimate and I am living guilt free being able to focus on my 4 girls!*
@kristaking1
@kristaking1 3 дня назад
When my daughter was 12 years old a random porn website took her face and placed it on a porn model on their porn website...it was found by herself and her classmates in school. She was humiliated, bullied and suicidal. We called the police, they came to my house, we showed them the site and picture, and they said there "was nothing they could do about it". They refused to contact the site to pull it down or even create a police report. There will always be at least one porn site with my CHILD'S face on another older person's body with people assuming its her. 🤬 There needs to be stronger laws and financial penalties against this type of action and behavior!
@chrisprysok7634
@chrisprysok7634 3 дня назад
Dmca takedown
@kristaking1
@kristaking1 3 дня назад
@@chrisprysok7634 I wish I had known about that at the time..had been given some resource like that but the police did not tell me about anything I could do and dismissed me and the problem, leaving me feeling helpless to help her.
@kristaking1
@kristaking1 3 дня назад
@@chrisprysok7634 I wish I had known about then. The police did not give me any information or resources to help me, had they, I would have used it. They literally said there was nothing I could do, there were no laws about the use of pictures on the internet (at the time) and wouldn't even take a police report and left. I felt helpless to help her.
@kristaking1
@kristaking1 3 дня назад
I wish I had known about then. The police did not give me any information or resources to help me, had they, I would have used it. They literally said there was nothing I could do, there were no laws about the use of pictures on the internet (at the time) and wouldn't even take a police report and left. I felt helpless to help her.
@SpaceForce635
@SpaceForce635 3 дня назад
What country do you live in? It doesn't sound plausible considering how the Traci Lords situation went down.
@yeah377777
@yeah377777 3 дня назад
Porn has severely impacted my social and dating life. I am still unable to overcome it.
@unc1221
@unc1221 3 дня назад
You have to replace an addiction with another addiction.
@angelofamillionyears4599
@angelofamillionyears4599 3 дня назад
Volunteer for Habitat oof Humanity and stop being lazy,
@DerealAzz
@DerealAzz 3 дня назад
This is how it works. Lust is the desire to indulge in anything that is outside of the will and boundaries of God. See, the devil perverted it by introducing the unhealthy desire and so people now under the constrains of the devil. The best way to over this behavior is through the opposite. God wants to free you the devil wants to enslave you. Think about it.
@pierrebaker8207
@pierrebaker8207 3 дня назад
My heart feels for you. I was there, but I'm so much better now, you have hope.
@juansantana7041
@juansantana7041 3 дня назад
Get you a job in hard construction and work 12 hours a day for 6 days a week. When you get home you won't want do shit but shower and sleep
@deepsear20
@deepsear20 3 дня назад
I am so very happy that someone of your profile is addressing this sad reality. Thanks so much! Your kids are lucky to have you as a father ❤👋
@TheNatewl777
@TheNatewl777 3 дня назад
44 and am just now walking away from it. Wish I would have earlier.
@EmoDKTsuchiya
@EmoDKTsuchiya 3 дня назад
God bless you
@Joker-11B-SYLV
@Joker-11B-SYLV 3 дня назад
Damn… how’s it feel to be such a weak individual?🤣
@Mat-threw
@Mat-threw 3 дня назад
@@Joker-11B-SYLVdudes making an effort to improve himself and your response is to be a smug snide ass. Compensating for something maybe?
@kenhu6001
@kenhu6001 3 дня назад
@@Joker-11B-SYLVYour name is definitely accurate. Couldn’t imagine any woman taking you seriously with such an immature mindset.
@carlosbaptista7183
@carlosbaptista7183 3 дня назад
I've been there. I was fortunate enough to get away from it in my early 30's. It felt like a prison to me. This is destroying men's mental health and relationships.
@andyjm7122
@andyjm7122 2 дня назад
Big respect to PBD, saying what needs to be said and digging into what the elites don’t want the public to know.
@StratManDan52
@StratManDan52 3 дня назад
Porn destroys us spiritually and ultimately our physical well being.
@CeeTee-12345
@CeeTee-12345 3 дня назад
Feminism and this woke nonsense hasn't helped.
@Dynasty19
@Dynasty19 2 дня назад
It’s all a byproduct of technology leading to a desire of excess deviance regardless if it was porn or anything else these desires would go unchecked and rear their head in some form. I don’t think guys like Epstein or any of these wealthy elites on Wall Street abusing people are watching that much porn but they’re definitely causing harm to society, so my point is it’s not as simple as one area of sedation to boost dopamine highs, there’s a multitude of factors that includes drugs, overeating, and addiction in general. I don’t think the gamer choking the chicken in the basement is any more or less spiritually corrupted than the rich guy who goes to the strip club with a briefcase full of drugs hoping to create his own live porn possibly filming it for the guy in the basement to watch. Tell me the difference please. I’m starting to think this campaign against something that’s been around for decades has more to do with major companies noticing marriage rates going down which hinders profits, less men spending money in nightclubs which hurts a variety of businesses, restaurants/hospitality dying because dating is waning, and men that have resources not feeling as rewarded for having their resources because they’re not competing with anybody but themselves now for women who they no longer want to marry that make their own money filming guess what with their phones? It’s not going anywhere so blame the technocratic society. 😏
@alexkane84
@alexkane84 2 дня назад
I was shown that demons feed off of porn . Watching porn opens up a demonic portal and creates food for evil spirits. Just remember when you're indulging in porn, demons are attaching themselves to you.
@Johnbrown-politics..
@Johnbrown-politics.. 2 дня назад
56 here and still loving it. When exactly will it destroy my life?
@negochristian1
@negochristian1 2 дня назад
If you re getting spiritually destroyed you might not be using the proper grip...
@maoisn
@maoisn 3 дня назад
Social media addiction is just as bad as pr0n addiction. Change my mind.
@dodikplus9815
@dodikplus9815 3 дня назад
Not at all.
@kevinday2237
@kevinday2237 3 дня назад
Def cant argue that.
@saintkevinofficial
@saintkevinofficial 3 дня назад
you're right
@user-ze4js2et9e
@user-ze4js2et9e 3 дня назад
Stupid point, not worth arguing lmao
@fonsengers6348
@fonsengers6348 3 дня назад
Ask your'e lady or boyfriend
@BigmobyD
@BigmobyD День назад
I read this once… “You don’t know you’re addicted until you try to quit”.
@humanOilslick
@humanOilslick 3 дня назад
As a 31 year old American dude he’s completely right and I suffer from every single thing he said
@Jojo-pw8wp
@Jojo-pw8wp 3 дня назад
May I suggest a personal relationship with God.
@onyx9857
@onyx9857 3 дня назад
At 20 years old i was highly addicted to pornography. Seven years later I'm happy to say that after much hard work, I am now 27 years old.
@Wadiyatalkinabeet_
@Wadiyatalkinabeet_ 3 дня назад
I’m 20 years old now and this gave me a lot of hope. God Bless and peace be with you brother.
@ivankrushensky
@ivankrushensky 3 дня назад
World's most underrated comment lol
@awsambdaman
@awsambdaman 3 дня назад
Lol it is hard to quit that’s for sure
@zs8796
@zs8796 2 дня назад
Ffs
@PhDWILL-qi8rt
@PhDWILL-qi8rt 2 дня назад
😂😂😂
@krninja22
@krninja22 3 дня назад
I can say with certainty it's one of the hardest addictions to overcome. I was addicted for 16 years and still struggle with it. Praying there's a path forward for me to finally let go of this and live a life of freedom.
@jeffgo5742
@jeffgo5742 3 дня назад
Go get hooked on meth. Then try to quit. You’ll see over coming porn addiction is nothing
@user-lv3gz2mn2q
@user-lv3gz2mn2q 3 дня назад
It doesn't help when it's readily available for free everywhere. Heck Instagram is the worst violator. When you don't subscribe to it or hit like on any pornographic reels the algorithm still pushes it in for feed. There needs to be some kind revolutionary push back. Porn needs to be banned completely from society.
@williamtell3203
@williamtell3203 2 дня назад
Without certainty?
@jeffgo5742
@jeffgo5742 2 дня назад
@@krninja22 it’s not the hardest addiction to overcome. Go try meth and see what’s harder
@guantyngdotcom
@guantyngdotcom 2 дня назад
I can relate to where you're coming from, brother. There is definitely hope for you to end this addiction completely by rewiring your brain. Check out Porn Reboot by Elevated Recovery. They're the best when it comes to porn addiction recovery for men in the world.
@ThatCasualZach
@ThatCasualZach 3 дня назад
Men, if you are filled with sexual energy and are not in a relationship.....switch from watching porn, to watching pick up artists and dating advice channels. The dating community will get you from sloppy, overweight, and unsociable.....to becoming a confident man that can approach and speak to real women that you meet in your daily life. This will not only help with your dating life but will help you in your professional or business life. High anxiety moments meeting women will make business meetings with men low stress and allow you to keep a strong frame. Trust me, women will be surprised and flattered if you approach them in a positive way.
@smokingcrab2290
@smokingcrab2290 2 дня назад
Stupid advice. All that pickup crap is so cringe. The whole "muh strong frame" bs blah blah blah. Modern vvomen are worthless and so not worth it. All they bring to the table is sex, then they'll turn the sex off and ruin your life. There is no reliable sexual outlet. And living your life to max out your stats just for a woman's attention gets real old too.
@danielaudacious
@danielaudacious 2 дня назад
I haven't seen it in over 7-8 years and I'm thankful. I have to Thank God for that.
@oceanblue4750
@oceanblue4750 3 дня назад
So there was a time in America when America was just as strict as Iran when it came to immoral behavior
@bradleyjohnson6107
@bradleyjohnson6107 3 дня назад
Yep! What a miserable fucking time.
@nathanl2966
@nathanl2966 3 дня назад
No thank you. Freedom and by extension personal responsibility need to make a come back.
@oceanblue4750
@oceanblue4750 3 дня назад
@bradleyjohnson6107 women in America was fighting for their rights in the late 1960's ,they didnt make rape against the law until the late 1800's 😳 in America.
@anacc3257
@anacc3257 3 дня назад
No one wants to live in Iran
@vante9588
@vante9588 3 дня назад
We don't need Draconian laws but at least ID & Paywalls for access to said things.
@solha5751
@solha5751 3 дня назад
The fact that no generation has seen this kind of spiritual and mental weapon against it is crazy. Lord protect us.
@gifthorse3675
@gifthorse3675 3 дня назад
Cool now let’s talk about social media and how it has ruined young women!
@jackedgamer0036
@jackedgamer0036 3 дня назад
Please dont be antisemitic
@levilively8643
@levilively8643 3 дня назад
Social media is by far the biggest threat to society than porn. I'd say social media addiction is worse than drug addiction. It consumes EVERYONES life. Kids, teens AND adults. It destroys relationships and marriages and lives. There are people who actively look for something controversial said by an individual and then try and ruin their life over it.
@TheTaxiCast
@TheTaxiCast 3 дня назад
go make a video
@Mikamichae
@Mikamichae 3 дня назад
It's ruined men aswell lmao
@joebeta1837
@joebeta1837 3 дня назад
Excellent, excellent comment.
@MrCa2pac
@MrCa2pac 3 дня назад
Thank you so much Pat! We need to get that message out there more
@HershyWeiss16
@HershyWeiss16 3 дня назад
I completely stopped 3 weeks ago hopefully for at least a yr
@yeah377777
@yeah377777 3 дня назад
I keep relapsing 😢
@carloswharris
@carloswharris 2 дня назад
Haven't watched a Valuetainment video in years. And to see the transition from Sales & Marketing to Politics etc,. is...inspiring. Good work PBD and the team.
@sadhguru-clips
@sadhguru-clips 3 дня назад
21 yrs i am addict for 6yrs now and the worst part is no one knows about it am.alone😢
@Mr.Edwards233
@Mr.Edwards233 3 дня назад
No you're not, you're definitely not alone on this, a lot of men and women are struggling with this.
@rodrigokbza1
@rodrigokbza1 3 дня назад
God is with you. Rely on him.
@krninja22
@krninja22 3 дня назад
We're all struggling together my guy.
@nathanl2966
@nathanl2966 3 дня назад
21 is definitely not too late to turn it around.
@solaawodiya7360
@solaawodiya7360 3 дня назад
You're not alone man.
@David_Allan_Troll
@David_Allan_Troll 3 дня назад
I never understood how someone could be addicted to porn. I always thought it was funny, but as I matured I have empathy for addicts of any kind. Stay safe and I hope you find a way out of your addiction.
@E-utube
@E-utube 2 дня назад
That's interesting. So you don't get a sexual high from it? Do you have a lot of sexual outlets with real attractive partners? That could be the reason
@hopolang99
@hopolang99 3 дня назад
Thanks for sharing and speaking about this, Patrick. As someone who really looks up to you, and as a 25-year-old struggling with this personally, all alone with nobody to talk to, this really means a lot to me.
@silindokuhlemzanywa7670
@silindokuhlemzanywa7670 5 часов назад
Thank you so much for this video VT team!🔥🔥🔥💯🙏🏽❤️
@judah6152
@judah6152 3 дня назад
I overcame (no pun intended) a 32 year porn addiction. It can be done. It will consume you and destroy you.
@EmoDKTsuchiya
@EmoDKTsuchiya 3 дня назад
Yes indeed. I used to think it would be impossible to return to normal. It's a struggle, but now that I'm out, I'm never going back.
@judah6152
@judah6152 3 дня назад
@EmoDKTsuchiya Congrats. I felt the same way. Spread the word, this is destroying us.
@krninja22
@krninja22 3 дня назад
How did you do it? I've been addicted for over 16 years now.
@EmoDKTsuchiya
@EmoDKTsuchiya 3 дня назад
@@krninja22 figuring out why you do it do much is a good start.
@unc1221
@unc1221 3 дня назад
Bros left arm is more jacked then a bodybuilder on Tren
@kwdoug
@kwdoug 3 дня назад
I have been addicted most of my life, still am. Everything you said is true..everything. Amazing to see how Satan is using this to end society. It's working
@laxel01
@laxel01 2 дня назад
Jesus wants to set you free read Romans 8 and John 15
@derivative7117
@derivative7117 День назад
Sure, blame it on Satan.
@HaraldinChina
@HaraldinChina 2 дня назад
Porn is illegal in China. Although it exists and is available through VPN, it needs a lot of effort to get to it, you don't get it thrown at you everywhere like in the US.
@annachristoffels7266
@annachristoffels7266 3 дня назад
Thank you Patrick for having this conversation 🙏
@Masterthyselfandconquer
@Masterthyselfandconquer 3 дня назад
Pat you a real one! A real role model for young men to follow out here. You are really successful and don't need to be doing this but you do it because you want better for people. God bless you!
@omahamataj1
@omahamataj1 3 дня назад
Real relationships at the end of the day will save you. Friends are out there people who will care for you are out in the real world
@kevinh7597
@kevinh7597 2 дня назад
Real sex relationship will save you from porn *. You need to precise . But guess what most of men don't have acces to real relationship ( love or sex )....
@Mr.gomez233
@Mr.gomez233 3 дня назад
Patrick this video is very needed for this generation and the generation coming.
@ironmaidenfan7788
@ironmaidenfan7788 2 дня назад
Thanks for sharing the family photo. Very sweet.
@T.Green.
@T.Green. 3 дня назад
Thanks Patrick, this is so relevant. As a Millennial man myself, I see how this compulsion has wasted my time, energy and drive. Trying to improve daily to fight these urges embedded from a younger age and developing enough mental strength and will power to hopefully not fall into that cycle again. Thanks man.
@marcuswelby9601
@marcuswelby9601 2 дня назад
Social media like Facebook and Instagram are way worse than porn.
@Noah_527
@Noah_527 3 дня назад
If we are being honest, much of what is shown in Netflix and other streaming services is soft core porn. If you want to steer clear of porn, you have to cut it out entirely. This might mean not watching certain shows that all your friends are watching. Don’t let the enemy gain a foothold.
@ALTheFreeMan
@ALTheFreeMan 3 дня назад
Agreed, we’re living in a p0rnographic society, there’s no getting away from it.
@Deanna974
@Deanna974 3 дня назад
Amen. Most TV is ungodly and disgusting, and I used to be a big TV watcher. There are so many other things to do, so many relationships to invest in, so many people to serve.
@Theejerms
@Theejerms 3 дня назад
Thanks for being a great mentor from a distance, keep up the great content PBD.
@jimathens6354
@jimathens6354 2 дня назад
thank you Patrick for having the courage to shed light to a darkness. I commend you for putting this out there!
@Jut_tc
@Jut_tc 3 дня назад
Porn is not reality because real sex is completely different from want you see on the internet, that's a reason most women complain about the performance of their BF and Husbands who are addicted to Porn.
@EmoDKTsuchiya
@EmoDKTsuchiya 3 дня назад
They also complain because their perception of sex is being altered by porn an increasing amount as well
@SkoloV-du9yf
@SkoloV-du9yf 3 дня назад
That’s a lie. It’s only different when you’re smashing a girl that you’re not attracted to. I’m able to get girls that look like IG models and adult film stars. And that sex is always just like porn sometimes even better.
@angelofamillionyears4599
@angelofamillionyears4599 3 дня назад
and the point is????
@tomevers6670
@tomevers6670 3 дня назад
@@angelofamillionyears4599I’d use you as my boy toy - The Diddler
@DeutscherGospel
@DeutscherGospel 3 дня назад
​@@angelofamillionyears4599"STOP WATCHING PRN [MUSIC VIDEO]" by Bryson Gray x Tyson James
@inwe2102
@inwe2102 3 дня назад
Do a video on women reading "romance" novels. It's just written porn. Extremely graphic and instagram are filled with clips from the books. Not to mention women harp about toxic masculinity yet the books are filled with men degrading the main female characters.
@SWOTHDRA
@SWOTHDRA 3 дня назад
They dont wanna talk about that.....
@krisj827
@krisj827 3 дня назад
You're right to some degree but comparing romance books to actual porn where actual ppl are seen smashing is on another level. Most men go by looks and watching pien gives them a false sense of reality when it comes to relationships
@inwe2102
@inwe2102 3 дня назад
@@SWOTHDRA we need too. It's another piece to the stupid dating atmosphere.
@jowiens32
@jowiens32 3 дня назад
I’m a woman. None of the women I know read romance novels, including myself. I’m not sure what you are referring to. Also, if a woman has a real life man who is paying attention to her needs, especially emotional, she would put down a book in a second. A woman who is lifted up and supported, will also in turn have a husband who is lifted up and supported.
@darktitan8085
@darktitan8085 3 дня назад
No? Not all of them? Theres romantic po-- too if you want to get into that category Further, criticising one doesnt mean siding with the other? I dont get the point of this comment at all? Its like saying oh we're bad but you're also bad so now we're on same grounds and both of us are gonna do nothing about it. Thats the vibe im getting from this comment.
@DreyMoney123
@DreyMoney123 День назад
Excellent summary with many important points addressed
@niemrobiniemrobi8397
@niemrobiniemrobi8397 3 дня назад
Absolutely brilliant post, as per usual 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👌🏽
@bzo195
@bzo195 3 дня назад
Great video Pat!! Props to you for exposing this on your platform. This industry is killing youth as well hence the decline in marriages and families
@AlternativeHomesteading
@AlternativeHomesteading 3 дня назад
In interviewing serial rapists, the number one thing they commented on having done prior to committing the crime was to watch pornography. To the naysayers, I studied this topic for my undergraduate degree in abnormal deviant and violent psychology.
@SpaceForce635
@SpaceForce635 3 дня назад
The also breathed air.
@southlondon86
@southlondon86 3 дня назад
@@SpaceForce635lol
@sarcasticcat4982
@sarcasticcat4982 3 дня назад
​@@SpaceForce635Ted bundy
@spankthemonkey3201
@spankthemonkey3201 3 дня назад
​@@SpaceForce635exactly. It's amazing how people want to blame everything for their actions except themselves...
@antoniobabb4569
@antoniobabb4569 3 дня назад
That's not all true anyone can be serial wether it is or isn't
@AaronBarbosa
@AaronBarbosa 17 часов назад
Great Job PBD!! This is very true and so helpful
@HHH-ye1ro
@HHH-ye1ro 3 дня назад
This is certainly true. When you hit puberty, it can be EXTREMELY harmful. Young men can have access 24-7. Stay home. Wack all day. Not focused on life. Fail at school. Not able to be in public. Need fathers in their lives. Guidance.
@DeutscherGospel
@DeutscherGospel 3 дня назад
TheFatherEffect movie tells this!
@ChrisDurnez
@ChrisDurnez 3 дня назад
I was homeless, got into drugs, went into prisons, then i got to know Jesus, He changed my life.. Now i make 22k weekly. have a home, a wife, a lovely daughter... A child of God. HALLELUJAH
@marinaaryantifelisitasgulo1445
My dear, please for the love of God can you shed light on how it happened??
@ChrisDurnez
@ChrisDurnez 3 дня назад
All thanks to Christine Evelyn Mackie
@ChrisDurnez
@ChrisDurnez 3 дня назад
After I raised up to 325k trading with her I bought a new House and a car here in the states 🇺🇸🇺🇸 also paid for my daughter's surgery (Joey). Glory to God.shalom.
@WesWeems
@WesWeems 3 дня назад
I do know Christine E. Mackie, I also have even become successful....
@DavidStone-yw1ns
@DavidStone-yw1ns 3 дня назад
Absolutely! I've heard stories of people who started with little to no knowledge but made it out victoriously thanks to Christine Evelyn Mackie.
@timjacobsen3141
@timjacobsen3141 3 дня назад
THANK YOU! THANK YOU! There needs to be more people with as big of a social media platform like you Patrick to speak out against pornography.
@d_shuffles
@d_shuffles 3 дня назад
I got hooked before I was in highschool and still struggle with it now ~15 years later. For along time it was a routine thing of my monkey mind days, but even now I get the impulsive urge. The worst part is that its effected my marriage now. Sending prayers for all the young men exposed early in life and still hooked on it.
@ilparle
@ilparle 3 дня назад
The worst part about this is the rabbit hole and sensitization you go down. You start watch weirder stuff. It makes you weak
@SkoloV-du9yf
@SkoloV-du9yf 3 дня назад
@@ilparle that’s a lie. If you balance it out with pro workers you’ll be fine
@ReeVoque
@ReeVoque 2 дня назад
Man, that rabit hole sure is a weird one. Lemme tell you...
@JC-cv3up
@JC-cv3up 2 дня назад
@@SkoloV-du9yfno
@SkoloV-du9yf
@SkoloV-du9yf 2 дня назад
@@JC-cv3up the only way you’re gonna go extreme is if you’re actually not having SEX in real life.
@Cbiz505
@Cbiz505 День назад
@@SkoloV-du9yfstop coping please
@just_a_turtle_chad
@just_a_turtle_chad 3 дня назад
Nofap + cold showers + intermittent fasting + meditation = Super Saiyan Jesus 2.0
@johnfisher8401
@johnfisher8401 3 дня назад
trendy little things, what tramples all of that by far is having a relationship with Christ.
@ghosha9166
@ghosha9166 3 дня назад
Christ is a title not a person
@ghosha9166
@ghosha9166 3 дня назад
@@johnfisher8401delusion
@Shenjika
@Shenjika 3 дня назад
Jesus is a fantasy joke for adults and nerds whom people rarely use this as a chad method joke Just simply cut off the Internet wire and stop buying internet services then No more pawn = Life good
@mjjumps
@mjjumps 3 дня назад
If you need JC to overcome things then good for you. But that’s not for everyone
@user-ho3rk9vg6f
@user-ho3rk9vg6f 3 дня назад
using porn for sexual education its the same that learning how to drive watching fast and furious
@EmoDKTsuchiya
@EmoDKTsuchiya 2 дня назад
Facts
@seanm996
@seanm996 2 дня назад
as a car enthusiast and recovering porn addict, you're spot on haha!
@kevinh7597
@kevinh7597 2 дня назад
Nobody watch porn as sexual education.... Ppl watch bc they're horny that's it
@fachiti4062
@fachiti4062 2 дня назад
Thanks PBD, you are a good man. Keep on going & share the good stuff. God bless you
@Hazel007
@Hazel007 3 дня назад
Thank you for making this video....ALL FACTS! ❤
@ellishaindobo1794
@ellishaindobo1794 2 дня назад
SR is the antidote... fellow Men.
@jameskent836
@jameskent836 2 дня назад
You got to do it
@MarkIrmina
@MarkIrmina 3 дня назад
Great video. Anything you consume where you need a little more each time to achieve the same results is an addiction. Be very disciplined and know it’s addictive.
@masondavirro808
@masondavirro808 День назад
Thank you for shedding light on this under discussed issue and threat to our civilization
@alexsegovia2657
@alexsegovia2657 2 дня назад
this was amazing pat 👍👍
@jeetpatel6087
@jeetpatel6087 3 дня назад
2 virgins being intimate is more authentic then a couple trying follow a ikea style instruction video on being intimate
@edie4321
@edie4321 3 дня назад
That's authentic? AI has had its way with you.
@teefrankenstein4340
@teefrankenstein4340 3 дня назад
I see Porn as “bread and circus” to keep men distracted and unproductive. I’ve had my own problems watching porn, and spend too much time watching thirst traps on RU-vid doing sexy try-on hauls. I know it’s a vice, it’s not good for me but as of right now haven’t completely kicked the habit. Thank you PBD for bringing up this subject.
@888hereandnow
@888hereandnow 5 часов назад
I really value your content and have much respect for you!God Bless you & your family Patrick & those in your company ⭐️🌟💫💥!
@sammk8771
@sammk8771 2 дня назад
Thanks for sharing please create more content for this topic you will save millions of people!
@hamster_ann
@hamster_ann 3 дня назад
When Russia banned some dating apps I thought it was weird Now I don't think so anymore...
@eahtx5137
@eahtx5137 2 дня назад
It is a real thing, I had been addicted to this mess and it is destroying and making us men weaker. I'm still working on this addiction and haven't watched any of it for about three months but is very hard and not to masturbate. Our brains do get desensitized and the p**is does too because it gets used to the hand too much and when it comes to a real woman it's not able to perform this is what happened to me and made me think I need to change and quit watching porn. And is true, watching porn does make you feel lazier, antisocial and not making me talk to women and now I see the difference in myself when I meet a woman now that I'm not watching that.
@guantyngdotcom
@guantyngdotcom 2 дня назад
Glad that you're still committed to ending this behavior, brother. You are NOT alone! Check out Porn Reboot System by JK Emezi if you still need more help.
@courtnorton9002
@courtnorton9002 3 дня назад
Most definitely the hardest thing I have ever tried to quit. I pray God continues to give me the strength to rebuke it when weak.
@user-bk9fk2tq2z
@user-bk9fk2tq2z 3 дня назад
I am a 31 year old man who is kind of struggling with pornography addiction. Pornography might be my number 1 addiction. I have never smoked in my life, I have never drunk alcohol in my life, and I have never taken drugs in my life. I think RU-vid videos and videogames can be addictive too, lol. But those addictions are arguably not as harmful to the mind as pornography addiction.
@jerry-ze8wr
@jerry-ze8wr 3 дня назад
You're actually very dangerously mistakenly. I once thought the same thing, how bad can pornography really be? It's just as bad, look up scanne brains of drug and pornography addicts. As a long life severe pornography addict, it completely consumed me and ruined my life. From my experience, it lowers your testosterone eventually. Look up low t symptoms, it's all pornography addiction symptoms, stop for good while you can!
@dippyfish
@dippyfish 3 дня назад
Of all the addictions, this is the most violent.😐
@antoniobabb4569
@antoniobabb4569 3 дня назад
Most dangerous
@thedoomaster14
@thedoomaster14 3 дня назад
Actually one of the earliest surviving porn films is from the start of the 19th century and is called ''The Devil''.. This is no joke, that is it's actual name. Name rings bells
@tomevers6670
@tomevers6670 3 дня назад
PBD doesn’t know that he’s my adult content 🍆💦 - The Diddler
@curseddeity6379
@curseddeity6379 3 дня назад
made by saturn films, a jewish company. right?
@EmoDKTsuchiya
@EmoDKTsuchiya 2 дня назад
@@curseddeity6379 not a coincidence at all
@curseddeity6379
@curseddeity6379 2 дня назад
@@EmoDKTsuchiya a Cohencidense one might even say!
@laxel01
@laxel01 2 дня назад
Woah creepy, but I believe it!
@rootstv7989
@rootstv7989 3 дня назад
PBD ..."dude was trying to spit game"... hilarious
@Tranquilflame
@Tranquilflame 3 дня назад
Didn't work out 😂😂😂
@teefrankenstein4340
@teefrankenstein4340 3 дня назад
I caught that too
@KOGmissions
@KOGmissions 3 дня назад
Thank you sir, excellent video!
@Vasilyevich05
@Vasilyevich05 3 дня назад
I know someone that quit corn recently. God helped him. His words are, "you have to be addicted to living righteously"
@Deanna974
@Deanna974 3 дня назад
Amen!!! ❤ I love hearing stuff like this. Not being promiscuous and living pure really makes life easier. I'm a virgin (at 32 years old), but i used to read romance novels and things like that. And I've had women--and men with high body counts tell me that they wished they would have waited.
@stevengayler8447
@stevengayler8447 3 дня назад
One thing all mass shooters and serial killers usually have in common is extreme porn addiction .
@stargamer7576
@stargamer7576 3 дня назад
Where is the stats at
@egjream
@egjream 3 дня назад
Stop making up false statistics
@MikeG82
@MikeG82 2 дня назад
but most guys watch it and don't shoot anybody
@stargamer7576
@stargamer7576 2 дня назад
@@MikeG82 ik right these people make this sound like the end of the world or something and the funny part they repeat what they hear without any knowledge and just blind trust mean while the same people who say these things watch it as well.
@smokingcrab2290
@smokingcrab2290 2 дня назад
Bullshit. What they really have in common is they were coaxed, armed, and groomed by feds to do it and then after the feds conveniently "find porn" on the perps computer after the fact, even though they knew the shooter was planning everything and could have stopped it all.
@laxel01
@laxel01 2 дня назад
Love this topic and video eas so well made!! My only concern/ critique is maybe the thumbnail 😭😭 can be triggering for some men who are trying to quit
@blackmancer
@blackmancer 3 дня назад
Good job Pat!
@ean3345
@ean3345 3 дня назад
God bless your efforts sir. You're spreading knowledge and that may save humanity.
@Nobodyyoucarabout
@Nobodyyoucarabout 3 дня назад
I suggest everyone get really into working out and dieting for bodybuilding if you want to escape porn addiction. I'm 6 weeks out from a show, the amount of effort I'm putting in has distracted me from that addiction. Obviously my sex drive is lower due to being low bodyfat and hormones being disrupted, and just overall fatigue. But coming out of this show I'll have a boost in sex drive and energy, and my wife will always be there. I've been about a year clean from porn, and it isnt easy. But if you swap an unhealthy addiction with a healthy one, you'll be far better off.
@RyanPatrickFlanagan
@RyanPatrickFlanagan 3 дня назад
I'm very much looking forward to the next video from PBD highlighting the dangers of the iPhone and social media impact on women.
@user-im2cy9jm9h
@user-im2cy9jm9h День назад
Got me Thinkin.... Thank you
@cheeseman417
@cheeseman417 3 дня назад
Even without a religious motivation behind it, PMO is completely detrimental to ones mental and physical health. it should be looked at the same as cigarettes or drugs. Chat gpt is as woke as their programers with the responses it gives. It has absolutely no benefits to it, on any level.
@michellelee5538
@michellelee5538 3 дня назад
Speak on it Pat 👏🏾
@WhatDemocracy
@WhatDemocracy 3 дня назад
Give it up, brothers..... it's no good! In my own experience, it messed up so much in my life that i didn't even realise at the time... just give it up and stay strong 💪 🙏🏿
@Mmlnk05
@Mmlnk05 3 дня назад
I would love to have those same morals in society back from the early 1900s
@Niki_P_
@Niki_P_ 3 дня назад
American society is in the gutter and going deeper and deeper.
@EdwardOtis-bb3eq
@EdwardOtis-bb3eq 3 дня назад
I was actually talking to a pastor the other day, and I said God told Noah that he would never flood t🎉 earth again. But he didn't say anything about asteroids. And if I was God and I turned on the Saturday morning cartoons and saw a show with biracial Dad's dressing up their son as a girl, , , I might throw a couple of asteroids our way.😂
@user-bk9fk2tq2z
@user-bk9fk2tq2z 3 дня назад
Satan is getting more and more of a grip on American society. The end times are coming.
@DrewLove777
@DrewLove777 2 дня назад
I found it at 4 years old. I’ve rarely been with a woman. Being raised by a single Christian mother who shamed me and a healthy dose of ADHD, I have been obsessed with beautiful unattainable women and at 50 I’m still single alone and debilitatingly shy. I know what I want , now I’m too old.
@user-wx2lg8wj4b
@user-wx2lg8wj4b 2 дня назад
I love Bet starts the conversation. I mean he takes us back to history and highlights where we are now and also make a reasonable prediction about the future. This is amazing i like this Guy
@MrHeavy466
@MrHeavy466 3 дня назад
6:15-6:24 Let me use a different analogy: Imagine if your dog was feeling depressed. To try and cheer it up, you give your dog its favorite special treat: high quality steak. If you put that in front of your dog and the dog doesn't eat it, there is something seriously wrong.
@willrose5424
@willrose5424 День назад
What about rape cases? Studies show rapes decreased in societies with more porn usage. 🥸
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