Guys please read the description or my responses to comments...I'm not a horrible person I swear It’s been more than 5 days now and she still hasn’t said anything besides play the victim card 💃
@♡ 𝒯𝒶𝒾 ♡ She did that to me as well. One time I was sitting next to one of her other friends and I could see she was active on Instagram through her friends phone (I have my activity turned off and me and her friend are close ish-) and I texted her before she did and she didn't even open my message until over a week later 💃
She shouldn't have ignored you for FIVE days.. That's such a long time.. You guys are best friends, and best friends are friends who comfort the other when one needs them..
she shouldve responded, yes, but pls dont downplay someone else's mental health:( idk what her situation is but personally with I said I have a bad day, I mean I've been, crying, sobbing, on the floor trying to gather myself up to even breath I'm probably reading too much into it
My mom was in the ICU. That's what I was pissed about. Mental health is important but it's no excuse. We all have bad days, but she was downplaying MY feelings for hers. That's not fair. More happened than what I showed in the video. She had a week to talk to me but she never said a word to me until I confronted her and she blamed 1 bad day for 5 days of not talking to me at all. It's different then just "downplaying her mental health." I mean this in the nicest way possible, no disrespect. I'm just not going to downplay my mental health for someone who won't even talk to me one on one
@@allxii.17 oh im so sorry! :( that's terrible of her, and honestly you deserve all the comfort and support in the world friends are meant to support each other and her not supporting you at your lowest really shows her character and the fact that she only responded when confronted means that she saw you messaged her, and chose not to respond
The people here even the creator are acting like the friend is the bad person Everyone has bad days and would want to take a break from social media but the creator is acting like she's the only one the world only revolves around herself.
Are you serious? Everyone here is acting like people can take a five day break from social media The title should be changed the world doesn't revolve around me Since the creator is acting like the friend is horrible I had days off from social media and just doing art whenever I had panic attacks No one called me a bad friend
@@Love_Bug21but not social media, a direct text. I understand things happen, but come on. Not responding for 5 days to one of your friends is a bit rude and can make it seem like they don't care enough to respond to you.
Now I would respond if your mom's in the Icu or if somethings wrong but you can be my best friend in the whole wide world and I still won't respond to anything thats not threat based But don't play the victim card if you are aware that your friend is going through something like what is wrong with you especially if there trying to reach out to you that's just cruelty.
I can't tell if this is target towards me or not. If you're saying IM playing the victim, I'm not. She never came to me for anything, I had to find out through other friends of hers. My mom was in there because she was at risk of death or permanent injury. I told her this and she ignored me. SHE played the victim card after I confronted her. I may seem like a heartless bitch, but I'm not. I understand she's going through things, but one bad day doesn't justify over 5 days of not speaking a single word to me. I gave her a chance many times before this event. I'm not that cold of a human being to undermine her feelings, but I'm not going to let her actions make mine seem so small when they're not
Little vent here! (will delete if requested) My best friend has been avoiding and ignoring me for abt a month now and if I try to ask her why in school she just walks away from and talks to someone else, apparently she also told one of my other friends that I said bad thing abt her behind her back which I did not. I’m just so fed up with everyone rn.
Read the description to understand why I was pissed. I'm not that horrible of a person. People can have bad days, but what I needed her for was bigger than just a bad day. Plus it's been over 5 days now and still nothing about the event. Idc if it was a bad day, I needed my "best friend" and she wasn't there 🤷♀️
@@allxii.17 you can't just force someone to hang out with you, everyone has a life Yk you can't control Ur bsf situation, if u want to vent to Ur bsf abt your mom going to the ICU consider thinking if she's comfortable
@@Iniraiqah I never said once I wanted to hang out with her. I didn't want to hang out with anyone. I wanted my best friend to be there for me and act like she cared at all. She NEVER came to me about her situation, if she did I would've been there for her. Do you understand how serious the ICU is?? Clearly not bc it's not something to just brush off like dogs shit. You don't have to like this video, but at least have common decency to at least understand the situation fully.
@@allxii.17 that's what I meant you can force people to like you nor spend time with you i don't know what problems your in but hopefully it gets better but really you can force someone you care or not be with you all the time, idk people change
@@Iniraiqah I don't care if she doesn't like me. I wasn't forcing her to do anything. I honestly couldn't care less if she doesn't want to be there for me. It's just the fact she wasn't when I needed a friend, or someone in general, that pissed me off. Especially when she was there for other friends at the same time I needed her. She also tried to guilt trip me into taking her side by playing the victim. THATS what I was upset about. I'm not arguing it anymore, if you take her side, idc. Do whatever. I'm just saying I had a right to be upset because it wasn't fair of her to do it. End of story
Y'all, it's a vent... Don't say "Love it!" or stuff like that. And please read the desc, the creator already explained. That aside, I hope it gets better. Your friend doesn't deserve you.
@@Xani.0 if you're really close to that person it could be, like if you originally texted everyday and they ignore you for 3 three days, it's a pretty long time
