Pile 3 and that's very possible. I've had to set him straight a couple times and we went silent now he's opened communication again but I had to remind him about our last conversation. We'll see because I'm not into repeating cycles.
Interesting that you view the "key" as being locked, locking up... usually the lock without a key present represents or gives the vibes of locking down. whereas a key allures to freedom. the key usually represents unlocking and or freedom. Or an idea one has the key too unlock
Interesting, I agree with you that the key represents freedom to me. I think being "locked down" sounds like you're locked in and can't escape-- but believe entering a healthy commitment can actually free you in a lot of ways. In the reading, too, I channeled many messages with just the 'key' card including leveling up the connection through commitment or buying a home/moving in together. Also, that you were the key & inspiration for them to live a more free life to pursue what they wanted in life. I have another card with a key on it (the deck the first card came from) that has "fantasy suite" written on it, and I did quickly reference that too, making love. In so many ways I referred to the key in this pile's reading as freedom, so I'm not sure how you picked up the opposite. Maybe just hearing "lock her down" as I mentioned before.