本书讲述的是作者在得知母亲癌症晚期时,用一个个二人读书会陪母亲度过的最后时光。作者一开始其实也不懂怎么和即将离世的母亲自然相处,直到谈起母亲爱读的书,交流才自然了起来,母亲也不再像个病人,也不是母亲的身份,而是一个读书的朋友。这个属于他们二人的读书会,成了彼此交流的一个平台,很多难说的话语、无解的问题、不舍的情感都在读书会中传达给了对方。作者在读书会中尽了为人子女的本分,母亲在读书会中度过了幸福的最后时光。虽然最终母亲离开了,但这里没有悲伤,只有满足和释然。对于亲人来说,这可能是最好的离开方式。
This book tells the story of how the author spent the last days with his mother in two-person reading clubs after learning that she was in the late stage of cancer. In the beginning, the author actually didn't know how to get along naturally with his dying mother, until he talked about the books his mother loved to read, and the communication became natural. His mother no longer looked like a patient, nor a mother, but a friend who read books. This reading club for the two of them became a platform for communication with each other. Many difficult words, unsolvable problems, and reluctant emotions were conveyed to each other in the reading club. The author fulfilled his duty as a child in the reading club, and his mother spent the last days of happiness in the reading club. Although his mother left in the end, there was no sadness here, only satisfaction and relief. For relatives, this may be the best way to leave.
22 авг 2024