Both at 17 or 28 she fell in love with a guy so hard that she's willing to give everything but the most important thing is she regain herself, the youth in her that made her live again this absolutely made me cry T^T
Yes I agree. If a person don't love you anymore, let go. Don't try so hard to win him back and made a fool of yourself. Don't be a pathetic loser. Move on, accept it. Cry hard as much as you want but chin up.
That is a unique and beautiful concept. We need to be happy on our own first before we can bring happiness to others, otherwise, we would just hang onto them like a life jacket and they would see us as a useless dead weight/baggage until we rediscover our purpose once again. So many women do this, once we find a man, we loose our luster and self in the process.
I always come back to watch this movie whenever I want to remind myself that self-love is important.This movie saved me from depression and self-loathing.
The metaphor of how when her mind is 17, the colors are sunnier and more saturated. And when she's 28 the shades are back to duller, more realistic portrayal of the world. I think the sunnier shade shows how bright and unlimited her world can be on her perspective
I love this movie! Never get tired of rewatching it. It helped me realize how I also let my dream of painting go over someone. I dedicated my time to him and acted as the world revolved around him. I’m still in the process of finding myself and making more time for important matters. Remember that you come first before anyone!!
I hope you keep fighting to find yourself and although times may get rough keep going and good luck. I am also on the journey of finding myself. (Ditto, I never get tired of rewatching this movie either)
Just here to say same as pine cone and magical wish.. I cry every time And i only rewatch when sthg reminds me of this film... Prob seen about 10 times now and i still haven't found my younger self or middle ground yet. I so miss the young me. I treck on n forget, until i have to rewatch this again...
Same here, I let go my dream of becoming a doctor for him, I lost my health too, and he left too. I am still in a process of finding myself. I hope u life fill with happiness and u find urself, ur meaning in this life Ameen
I love how the movie being open ended. Everyone of us can choose who'll she'll choose, either yan or mao, but most importantly she can always choose NOT TO CHOOSE either of the two man. A woman needs to love herself first, no need for a man to complete her. Love this movie so much!
This movie has been with me since I was 17 years old. I’m 21 now and I still turn to it when I’m feeling lost. I believe this movie will remain my favorite even when I’m 28. I love you, my big self. Stay true to yourself no matter what. Don’t let anyone crush your dream.
Lesson in my opinion: *No one can make someone whole again rather than themselves only. Life is a matter of choices. We make our own plot and stories. Even life has a limit, we should know how to cherish every single of it and live our life to the fullest!* ♥
That scene at the beginning when teenage Liang ask about her studies, prices and travels with just that bright eyed teenager stare just to be shown a picture of "her prize" by her friend is so well acted, gets you in the feelings tbh.
I am crying because this movie made me realized how i have lost myself along the way. I thought my pursuit of happiness will actually make me happy but i was so preoccupied of chasing after them that it made me forget to enjoy and see beauty of each moments. I made a bold decision 14 years ago which i think was the best decision i made in my life and until now i think it still is. But what happens after that are choices made out of fear. As years goes by the stake become higher and made me fear most of losing then suddenly i found myself clinching and holding unto what was little left. I wish i can get a reset but all i can do is to move forward but more confused as ever on how to make another step forward again. But all i can think of are the things i have not done and felt that i might not get that another chance again.
@@untilthen6429 almost always we do not know what the future can bring us. But what we know is the thing we do now will affect the things will happen next and the next after that. The sad part is sometimes its too late to go back and you just find yourself to just continue in pushing forward. But the tragic part of that are the regrets brought upon by our what if's from the supposed choices we should have taken but never did.
@@aphrodyboi that is why i feel you. I cant express my feeling through comment just dont know the other words going to use semi illiterate in constructing the grammar. Btw ty for your comment its really got me and my eyes really wanna cry 😢. I just realised that its not the end of the world and I keep praying 🙏. Ty to you..
everyone who is struggling with self-love would appreciate this movie. because more often than not, we’re also the same people who look everywhere for happiness except the one we can give ourselves.
I'm crying my eyeballs right now, I mean,, i need to live my life. Living my life doesn't mean making myself a bad person but a better one so I'll never blame myself in the future. So if u're reading this and u're still able to live ur life, pls, live it and make yourself happy.
I understand you i have always lived my live how other people wanted :sit pretty don't eat to much : always get good grades :be obedient :don't talk back even if the person is wrong : don't get close to boy's : don't watch kdrama you don't understand :don't listen to BTS there music is shit .use skin whitening products your to black .. but no not anymore I wanna do what I want I want to be me not mis I'm perfect I wanna eat what I want life a little I'm only 17 never had a boyfriend never got in trouble always trying to get A+ trying to be the best but that's not me ....thank you for listening to what I had to say even if you didn't ask I just had to get it out ..for people that are going thru the same I'ma Tel you one thing Fuck them it's your life you only live once do what you want you wanna make bad choices do it wanna become a star do it.want to be a gamer do it , do what you think is best for you darling ,don't always listen to people ,if you don't agree to what they are saying don't think about what's best for them think about what's best for you M out
I loved how this movie promotes empowerment to women.. The actress was really good, i felt the emotions she was conveying in the character she was portraying. Kudos to all especially the scriptwriter and the director. Thumbs up to the actors and actress..
Such a beautiful story of finding the inner you through the old you to become the real you... how I wish many of us can watch this... this generation badly needs this...
I'm 17 when i first watch it. Now I'm 21 rewatching it. Maybe, when I'm 28 i will watch it again. It's such a masterpiece. I'll just leave a mark here.
This movie had some good moral points in it we as women sometimes put too much into a relationship that's destined to be doomed but we still hope for it too turn around sometimes letting go is the best solution ever. Freeing yourself and replenishing your soul energy can be so satisfying.
I have never liked a movie that has an open ending. but I like this movie so much. no one deserves her better, either yan yan or mao liang. she doesn't need both of them.
@Ananda Syrafina Agree. Both men cares only about what they want, not what she wants. Glad she found herself in the end. She doesn't need a man to be whole.
It’s so relatable because I’m 28 now and sometimes I miss the free spirited me from 17. I almost feel like the younger me would say “What are you doing?! “
Wow, this is an incredible drama. This needs to be a series with the same cast pls. Granted it isn’t about romance, but loving yourself and self discovery. C’mon, but most of us was hoping she went for Yan(Darren Wang).😅. She felt most alive with him...
this movie made me cry I really wanted her to end up with the other guy. however I can't forget about the fact that she truly found herself and finally started to enjoy painting again but sadly my heart truly aches for some romance as well HAHA
This reminds me that no matter how old you are this is not a reason to stop dreaming. We must remember that never stop believing in yourself be confident and you must do your best to achieve your dreams or goals in life. Never let other people down you in whatever negative comments thrown to you instead take this as an constructive criticism to help you get back on track and to continue pursue your dreams or goals in life.😊😉
Aida Nadhirah Thank you, Maybe this movie had impact to us because there is a great lesson that we can relate to as a women of empowerment...This is an eye opener to all women in the world no matter what appearance, height,weight or color as long as you believe in yourself worth everything will be possible...Cheers to all the women in the world🍸😘
@@MrWmJosephSmithIII you got a point, the word you're looking for is morals, not downgrade, look at the CEO running naked at the end of the film, what happened to his composure, the epiphany is next level, he's meant to be professional lol
It really reminded me of myself when I was 17. I was so brave and excited for everything but at that age I started facing life and it's difficulties. I wanted to explore and achieve my dreams. Now I'm 22, I don't know if my 17 year old me will think I'm a disappointment or not. I guess my 17 year old me would never want to grow up ever again or be excited for the future. Being heartbroken, seeing the world for what it really is, working two jobs just two make a living after getting a university degree, having health issues and not achieving my dreams in karate and judo..... To be honest, I don't know how my 17 year old will act but what I do know is that we have to be thankful for every blessing and encourage ourselves to keep going and be brave. ❤️
Just finished watching this amazing movie, I just like the plot and her character (both the characters actually ) , I love how in the end , no matter what , she chooses herself. This movie has a beautiful massage:loving ourselves, chasing our dreams , make ourselves happy and proud. This gave me a lot of energy and motivation in keep going in my path , and love myself. 💜 remember, no metter what , make your future self proud 💜
Appreciate the best version of someone, sometimes we tend to forgot what we were fighting for, at the first place. We thought we work hard for one love. But we over greed it for extra paycheck. Long short story ended up to prioritizing money compare to the main goal which to cheerish our love one. Take what you need only , enough portion, then go back.
This is such an inspiring story. Some people,who forgot their own identity when they have a family,the real dream that they have is like turn into a somewhat dream of no return. The end of this story was remarkably done with class.
I feel like I’m not watching movie because her acting skills of switching two different personality make me feel as standing there and see her life , as it’s not drama it’s real .Omg I really can’t find a word to describe my feelings for her acting skills it’s really amazes me 💖
I still remember on a random day around 2016,17, or 18 I found this movie and fell in love with it and now it’s one of my all time favorite movies. I hope Big me would do a lot of things that I always wanted to do and have a fun and happy life cause as of right now I don’t do anything besides watch dramas, movies,anime, and listen to music. 🤣
For the second time watching it but still it reaches my heart and soul. I've watched it years ago, by the second time the message gives me more 10000× impact than before.
This movie has saved me big time. I was chasing my career goal so bad that I started to lose myself just like the fl. I cried a lot when watching it as I finally realised that my biggest life mission it not about achieving great career success or anything’s but it’s about respecting and loving my own soul. Everything else will come to place at the right time but always protect and treasure who you are.
It's kinda sad that he was only able to appreciate her after she stepped out of his shadow. imo. You should be able to appreciate her for the devotion she's had for you. Self-actualization should be something you strive for. But it shouldn't be a pre-requisite for self-worth and whether or not someone can love you.
I LOVE THIS MOVIE. I cried because I always want to go back to my old self. This reminds me that my old self is still always there for me. I just need to take time to listen to the voice within me.. Such a great movie.. Inspires me a lot... :) :)
Thanks for sharing this movie!!! It reminds us all on what we've been missing in our life. The young and old souls must go along together caz they give you the courage and charm to overcome so-called "LIFE". I find this movie 1,000% relatable.
We are sometimes overshadowed by the love we have for someone that lead us to lose our interest in pursuing the things we are really fond to do. Worst, we chose to leave our dreams behind. This movie reminds me that we should love without losing our identity
I like that I did not know whether she accepted Mao in the end. Moral lesson of this movie, loving is okay. It makes us grow, but don't love to the point of loving someone more than yourself. You cannot share what you don't have afterall.
Ni Ni looks like Nana, Shu Qi and Chungha. She's so beautiful. And I loved it when Mao conducted that oblation run. 🤣🤣🤣 Anyway, this movie made me cry a river. Hit me right in the feels.
I don't think so, if she does that it's obvuis that the same story is going to repeat, she following a man because she deeply loves him, taking aside herself in the process, also her 17 self need to love herself first
This is amazing! It made me realize a lot of things. We often go for the things that consumes us that we often forget the cheerful and innocent us. This movie reminds us the pure and fresh youth that always with us but we often doesn't notice. Kudos! Thank you Little and Big Liang. You will be always in my ❤️
Yes, same here!!! Actually, I like to see a movie or a drama or some sort that Wallace Huo and Darren Wang play father and son...I think they both share certain coolness that other actors do not have! More Darren Wang movies, please!
I am happy to know I have a company. We are doing the same thing, trying to find Wolfie Bo wherever we can. I watched 4 or 5 movies with Dalu by now. His smile and gaze makes me happy.
@@hannawalinska9812 Yes! After watching The Wolf, I don't know if there is any other Chinese drama is worthy of my time investment to watch!?! I watched The Wolf at least twice of the entirety and three times for some eps just to catch up the English subs. Darren Wang definitely raised the bar for acting!
Kudos to this actress. Her acting is so good she really had me believing for a second that there are two different people living in her body. Exhibit A: 46:34
Love this movie, came bc Wallace Huo, everything he does is magic and good. I really liked the open ending, I prefer that she didn´t choose any of them (Yan or Mao), she deservers better then this two.
love the acting, want nini with Yan, . yes she is beautiful, one of my favourite chinese actoress and Wallace Huo, so good , go back to youth and complete your dreams. ausum drama
once my dressing table was so simple and after watching k and c dramas for 4 years its s full of branded stuff . and my way of eating and what i eat has changed . these dramas has changed my mind and physical
This made me cry😢😢 but I've learned something from it. 10 yrs its hard then her bf broke up with her. He broke his promised to her and it's good that the young her helped her alot. I can relate with my bf now. We been 5 years nextmonth and I dont have any idea when his going to marry me. I just hope it's not happen like this. 😣😣
Im sure it must be hard but in a relationship at least a healthy one you shouldnt be afraid to talk about it, if you dont feel comfortable enough to bring it up then theres another issue you shoud be addressing. Give it a shot it, this way everything gets cleared up and youre not having to feel this anxiety. At least if it doesnt work the way your hoping you wont let time slip.
Too good story.. when we have confidence and know ourselves from inside out then who ever comes or goes in our life, we remain stable. One should enjoy ones own self..
I just love the ending although its very sad cause little liang disappeared, atleast its an open ending, but I think i just like yan for her if she already love herself enough but she can live without men