This is what happens when you try to control others. Charlie lied to get control over Jane and it completely back-fired. He obviously didn't know or listen to his wife, she had a job and career of her own and didn't want to move with her husband. It is not clear that his new position is a promotion or a demotion, to me it seems to be a demotion.
That was going to be my question. Jane keeps saying SHE bought a new house (not that THEY bought one); so how could Charlie just "give" it to someone...and why would Ruby and her husband live in it without Jane?? This makes no sense.
@@Gerilyn2003they bought it, she probably picked it out. He wasn't thinking too much in advance anyway. He gave the house to his sister free, but the mortgage was in his name only and expected his wife to help pay for it. If he was transferred and she had gone with him, that doesn't mean she could find another job or one that pays as much as she was earning now. He's such a dumb ass.😂
@@Gerilyn2003 husband talked her into putting his name on the deed, which is why he ended up having to pay on the mortgage when she moved out and they divorced. Now, what I don't understand, after all that why does he think she is going to continue paying her half of the mortgage payments after the divorce. I had something a little similar to that. Not exactly but it reminded me of something I had happen. More than 30 years ago my husband and me picked out a house to buy. After we picked it out we signed the paper work. We both signed. So my name was on the papers as well as his. More than 20 years later my husband's parents died and he received some money. Apparently he used some of the money to pay off the house. I knew it was closed to being paid off since we had had that mortgage for a long time, but don't know how much was owing. His parent were not rich so it couldn't have been much in the inheritance that was shared by 6 grown children and who knows who else got something. Then my husband wanted a divorce after he got back from being with his girlfriend. I quickly did some research into divorce and the advice from one book was never move out of the house during the divorce or you can lose the right to it. He had already cleaned out all the bank accounts, sold all the cars, sold the airstream camper, bought a couple of trailers, bought a piece of land in another part of the state, and now he wanted the last thing that was left. The house. When he paid it off with some of the inheritance money he had the deed changed so that it was solely in his name. In the divorce papers he stated that the house was his inheritance (he thought since he paid it off with his inheritance, it made it his inheritance). He didn't know that while your inheritance is not part of the property that gets divided in divorce, anything you use that money for is not considered your inheritance. He was going to leave me homeless on the street. There was no mention of alimony or child support. His lawyer was very surprised I did not agree. I told the judge I did not accept my husband's divorce plan and told the judge he did not inherit the house , merely paid it off with some of his inheritance. Since I did not agree the judge threw the case out, cancelled the divorce and told him when I agreed , to come back when we wanted a divorce. My husband was too cheap to pay the lawyer for more of his work and we have never gotten divorced since then. Oh boy, was his lawyer so angry! Outside of the courtroom he yelled and browbeat me to try and get me to agree to the original paperwork, but I just said "No." My husband has always treated me like I'm stupid but he doesn't know me very well. We have been together since I was 19. I'm close to 70 now. Too old to be homeless on the street. But lying in court about the house being his inheritance was a dumb move on his part. It really annoyed the judge. Sorry I went on so long. Sometimes these stories remind me of unpleasant things I have gone through with him.
I'm sorry you didn't manage to get away from him! My ex was up to all sorts of shady stuff, I was 18 when we got together, and I'm nearly 70 too! It took me a while to get away with the kids and all, but I did lose the house! I'm with someone else now for over thirty years. I do hope things get better for you.
It doesn't make sense. Why would he tell his wife to quit her job when he needs her income to help pay for the mortgage? Talk about shooting yourself in the foot.
What makes HIS career more important than hers?.. a selfish spouse is the worst spouse to have.. your feelings & happiness will never be counted or be more important than theirs. .. the first time your husband threatens you with divorce papers. SIGN THEM quickly!.. this is emotional abuse/blackmail.. that's not a marriage. Why would she still pay the mortgage if she's not living there fool?. Is he ok?😕
@jordanvictoria5 I think what he meant was. How did the husband expect jane to pay the mortgage if she quit and went to live with him. Considering he had problems paying it when she left anyway.
How did Charlie “give” away a house that Jane bought? Nope. Pack your bags Ruby. Adios. So Jane’s just supposed to give up HER career? Yikes! Language Charlie! Charlie can take a hike too. Wow! That was a quickie divorce! Wow again! Language Ruby! I’m annoyed at all the trouble this has caused me too! So Jane left the house? Why? So Charlie DID buy the house! So how was Jane supposed to help pay the mortgage if she quit her job? Like any of this makes sense!
"There's not new places..." And it's my problem, how? Hold on, first you said that they made arrangements for one person then turn around and saying that you have to move with him in an apartment. Sister isn't in "trouble" because she's pregnant WITH her husband. And just WHY are you being transferred? "You can't file for divorce without permisdion..." And you cant transfer property that doesn't belong to you without permission either. "Could afford it because we're both working..." seem to firgot in the earlier breathe that you wanted me to QUIT my job. So, unless you could have assured that i could get another job at the same pay rate as before in the new location?
A judge has to grant your divorce. The spouse doesn’t have to sign either. It’s called a contested divorce. It just takes longer, but the end results are the same.
His name is on the house and his sister is living there rent free but she wants nothing to do with him? Even though the husband was stupid he can kick his sister out of the house anytime he wants and sell it also. It might not help their relationship but they're not on good terms anyway. Yes, he said she could live there rent free but if she intends on punishing him by going no contact then out she goes. If he can't sell it, he can rent it out.
@@jyvben1520 Sue for what sounds like a verbal agreement? No, the Brother/husband is the one that designed his own demise. Thomas is right, the Brother can sell or rent the house that is in his name. He will most likely have to do something like that in the end.
That is what I thought, but later in the story it is reported that the Hubby insisted on having the house in his name only. Were I the Wife, that would have been grounds for divorce in its self. Hubby is a controlling IDIOT!
So if Charlie Knew he couldn’t cover the mortgage alone, why would he insist on his wife resigning and coming to take care of him? Was she expected to get there and immediately find a comparable paying job? Guess Charlie didn’t think everything through, all because of what his employers thought. Funny just found out a real marriage ended cause the husband by his own choices, couldn’t put match his wife. Best part is both started at the same level in their jobs when they got married. She continued to make decisions that advanced her career, he settled for what was given, always worried what people thought of him. Finally his nagging about her success, drove them apart. But it wasn’t just his wife, he did it with everyone in his life. I just didn’t get it. The revelation shocked the shit out of me, cause I never SAW or SENSED any of it. Neither did their 2 sons. Their marriage ending shocked a lot of people, and she never spoke on it until now. Almost 10 years later, and his remarriage..
What kind of foul language is that? F'n wife? Really? I realize that these videos are trying to sound 'westernize' but not everyone uses foul language like that. If my husband talked to me like that, he'd be able to see only by the next week, after the swelling went down. Really?
Also, by your own generalization, not everyone refrains from using 4 letter words. I work with my hands in industrial settings, and 95% of the people that I work with use this kind of language every day. To me at least, it is not a big deal. It is surely not a big enough deal to make a post about it! It must bo sooooooo hard for you to get by every day.
