same, one day i saw a tab open with some lewd girl on the phone of my bro that never really expresses interest in the opposite sex and i just thought to myself “well, at least i know you like girls” haha
i think when youve got parents that will take care of things for you even without you asking, or even with you asking them not to it makes it so easy to be lazy. i'd probably have the same experience as beni moving out if i did
For me it's the mentality of "I bought this with my own money so i better take care of it". Ever since I started buying things with my own money I make damn sure it's in good condition