As I grow older, the heads of the JW keep changing the rules. I grew up believing and I realized now my grandparents shielded us from the dangers. They passed away from illnesses but when they were alive they were very devoted both being traveling overseers and my grandfather being an elder. Now a days, they're teaching people to not talk to non believers including family unless it's in ministry and they do a weekly address to advise followers to "stay vigilant". It's gotten to become more and more like a cult. I fear loosing a good portion of family because of their newer practices.