“ I grew up with a different kind of common sense “ might sound like an excuse for someone else but that makes me fall in love with him. He knows himself and he trying his best on his own way. I wish him nothing but genuine happiness in his life from now on.
I couldn't agree more with you. Although my life is nothing like his, I just get him. I get his insecurities, his desires, his tantrums, his authenticity, his little efforts to mend relationships because I can somewhat sense how hard that can be for someone like him!
what i love most about shun is that he’s honest with his feelings and there’s always a reason for his actions made towards dai. he’s actually a delicate person even though he puts up a tough front. i’m happy that he’s found love with dai and hopefully they’ll last long ❤
Omggg I'm crying bcz of this edits 😢 it really pictures that Shun want a serious relationship not just some flings and have fun, and he was trying and hoping Dai share that same thought, cz actually he already fallen for Dai, and he doesn't want to lose him too.
@@DanmeiJie Exactly😭And the greatest part is, even he’s still not that sure, he was able to make that move and say “I Love you, I want to see you every day”
@spaceyume , Ikr??? he doesn't want to lose him so he brave himself. People only see the moody him but not how serious he is with Dai, boy even said it himself to Dai he never jump into relationship for FUN and I think that's when Dai get more serious too. I'm so glad you able to picture it in this edit, honestly u doin him justice more than Netflix 😭🤌
@@DanmeiJieyup i also think the same. The moment shun said that he never be in relationship just for fun, is the moment that Dai really take serious about his and shun feeling
It's a beautiful edit. It perfectly captures Shun's side of their love story. Honestly, I'm so happy for them...❤ It makes me feel like I want to find my true love 😂
I hope this video will make people understand Shun's vision. We often paint people as black or white but forget that we are just human driven by our emotions. In the show Shun is a young boy trying to find a place for himself in the world, trying to find someone who he can come home to. Even if many may not agree with some of his actions in the show but I hope people will atleast try to understand where he is coming from.
OMG!!! This is the best DaiShun edited video that can be used in their wedding day. Thank you for your hard work. You guys can send this video to your friends and welcome them to DaiShun nation.
This was beautiful. As someone who had a very traumatic childhood also, I truly understood Shun. His confidence will grow as he ages, I believe. And his ability to allow himself to be loved, knowing he deserves it. We can only speculate at what he’s been through but it seems like a lot. I hope he can get healing from his past (therapy will be good) and his relationship with Dai continues to be a blessing for them both. Dai is a special guy also ❤
This was such a beautiful edit. Had me teared up the whole time. I love how Shun kept his priorities straight and how Dai managed to undertand amd handle it. After all that they went through they're so in love now and tht's what matters.
Whoever is calling Shun toxic is speaking from a place of privilege. First of all: 1) his moves are defensive mechanism : Imagine being a baby or a kid who knows that no one will be there for him, and the only one who is going to protect him in this scary world is himself. Being an orphan is way harder than growing in bad environment.. he was alone in this world.. 2) He must have been surprised that some people fall in love at first sight. That's why he wanted to know if Dai was serious or if it was just a temporary feeling. He wanted to understand why Dai liked him. That's obviously because he never experienced unconditional love. He never experienced being cared for; he was abandoned. That's why, when Dai love-bombed him, he was uncomfortable and wanted space and to be just friends. It’s not his common sense-his common sense is fight or flight. 3) Shun made an incredible effort because, at first, Dai wasn't his type. (I’m pretty sure most of us have a type, and it's hard to give someone who isn't our type a chance.) He didn't want to give Dai hope that he would be with him or interested in him just because Dai had a crush on him. 4) He grew and became better. He was afraid because he knew that when he falls in love, he will fall hard. That's why he was stopping himself from falling in love with Dai, trying to find reasons to prove himself wrong-that he doesn't deserve love and that it was just a phase. That’s why he was testing him. 5) You can tell he is neurodivergent. For example, he gets overwhelmed by noise, which is expected because of where he grew up. Any way let's be kind and an understanding people because we have no right to judge a person we know nothing about him or about the demons in his head especially if that person is aware of his problems and is working on himself to be better 🤍🌸
Shun has had le😊a😊rn about himself with no help or support from family. His self knowledge at that time was😊 impressive given the circumstances. His growth in his year with Dai is so gratifying. Clearly he has found his perfect person/soulmate.❤❤❤❤
It’s really hard to listen someone like Shun without having bad thought about him. He must be faced this kind of treatment by many people, especially from his ex. I really hope they can be together for really really longtime. Their happiness looks equal for me ❤
the best edit on the boyfriend and daishun story on the internet! thank you for this beautiful edit. you made it with love and understanding of Shun as a person who has had a very different life than most of us. im absolutely in love with this edit. P.S. I am staring at the to be continued though :D Waiting for edits on their vlogs.
@@BonBon-g4d Thank you very much！Actually I have already made two edits on their vlogs, but since I used Chinese songs for bgm, I need a little bit time to translate then upload to RU-vid. :)
Shun's personality and outlook on life are so negative sometimes, I just really hope they work out and he doesn't throw away such a genuine person like Dai just because of his insecurities. No matter how patient or understanding a person is, they too can get tired or worn out if a negative person tests them over and over again. I hope Shun truly wakes up and sees what he has instead of constantly comparing Dai to his precious relationship. Hope they stay happy, their relationship stay healthy and the both of them make it. ❤❤❤
Shun really was making demands on Dai telling him to show him? He was really saying Dai overreacts? That’s a part of Dai’s personality, he’s an extrovert! He says Dai was least of the ones he liked at first? Well, Mr Shun, who else was chasing you? When letters were written and put in mailboxes I only saw one for you, that was from Dai and it was anonymous. Dai had about three in his box so it’s not like he didn’t have choices. You wanted Dai to prove so much to you but what did you prove to him? He didn’t make demands on you, he just wanted you to like him because he already liked you. Dai was so patient and kind. I would have walked away from Shun, trying to give me orders! Dai, you have a good heart. I really thought you were better suited to Ikou. Please stop trying to be a pleaser and remember that it is not your job to solve Shun’s problems he brought into the relationship - only the ones the two of you make together.
Just because someone liked you does not mean that you automatically should like them also. Shun's had his priorities from day one. It just that Dai decided Shun would be his end game from the day one also. There are no right or wrong in their relationship. Dai just decided he does not want to give up on Shun no matter what. And that is what made Shun fall for him also. He was looking for someone who had only eyes for him. Shun was firm on what he wanted in a relationship from the start. Dai just took some time to grasp the meaning of his unsaid words and adjusted himself to make Shun secure in a relationship. Because Dai knew he WOULD HAVE to put more work in the relationship in the start. And looking at their recent interactions, I would say Dai took the biggest gamble in his life and won. That man is super loved by Shun. What more else would you want for Dai?
Shun was thinking about getting married, and 0 to 1 is difficult but 1 to 50 is fast . That’s why he so cautious. In a way, I think he participated in the most serious state of the cast. It’s just a process where different people meet and match each other perfectly. They‘re now in a perfect relationship.
