I don't think you really understand Malaysian Chinese. How long have you been in Malaysia? What you said is very superficial. I hope you will gain a deeper understanding of this topic one day.
说白了,就是兜了个圈来说大马女生比较土,不够温柔。作为在中国和大马两地居住过的人,我觉得中国女生确实比较注重外表,大马女生则比较注重内涵。本人遇过很多外表十分漂亮的中国女生,但私底下不见得温柔,内涵也有所缺失。对比起来,大马女生的落差不会那么大。What you see is what you get。