Read your 記事 on Japanese media. I'm going through what you said you went through a few years ago and it's HELL. It's so hard what with custody issues, mortgage issues etcetc that I've developed an asthma..でも頑張る!勝手に戦仲間だと思ってます!(失礼だし迷惑だと思いますがごめんなさい)best of luck to the both of us 🤞