WHY ARE THEY TOGETHER?! Everyone's suffering! Not one person is happy omg. The wife should just leave! She is completely disrespectful, she can't compromise without giving such attitude, doesn't even look straight at any of the elders when speaking. Human nature: when you hate someone, that's when you start hating everything about them. Every little thing would irk you, irritate you. Such as the slurping noodles. She HATES the in-laws to that point; there's no reversing this deep of animosity. Why torture yourself, torture husband, torture everyone?! There's no compromise when it gets to this point; there are only 2 ways to go. Either divorce, or: the young couple move out. If the husband wants to stay married to her, he'd have to cut ties with his parents.
all the couple need to do is move out. solves ALL the problem. there is no way a mum going to disown you if you move out. the son is definitely mummy's boy. cant sleep without mum's breast milk smell nearby. the MIL is gonna wreck the relationship. leave, divorce, find a better MIL.