I decided to randomly write this as I miss this guy I met. I fell in love with a Chinese guy, and as time went by I realized I liked him a lot more than I thought. He was an exchange student in Indiana university and I was barely getting into college at the time. I really liked his personality and thought he was cute, we eventually built an online relationship and at that time I was really happy to enjoy his company. Unfortunately I grew a bit fearful of the future, and decided that it would be best if he broke up with me as I honestly thought he was out of my league. However I grew impatient of the distance between us and the fact that we could possibly never meet. There was so many times where I wish I could of met him, and where I could of touched him. I wished to hug him so badly, that I almost bought a plane ticket. I decided to break up with him, and unfortunately talking to him at that time made me so sad so I avoided talking to him. I hope he doesn't hate me for it :c I know that in my heart he deserves someone who he could date him in person, I didn't want to waste his time as I'm too poor to even meet him. I miss him a lot, and I wish I could bring myself to tell him but honestly I'm afraid he doesn't even think of me anymore.I hope he's smiling a lot and finds a good girlfriend as that's all I can ask. We made a lot of fun memories playing games like overwatch and I'll forever cherish that in my heart. Maybe some day we will reconnect and he will be doing well with a new girlfriend :,( anyways I just wanted to write a small confession under this video. Maybe I'll update some day
Hey, I’m in a long distance relationship with a Chinese guy, similar situation with the expectations of his family, but no matter what as long as you fight for it together. You can overcome anything. You did what his parents wanted when all he wanted was you, even as he now goes to marry a Chinese girl, have some courage and tell him you love him and you made a mistake. If you truly truly love him try and get him back it’s never to late. 💪🏻😎girl power! My BF, has also had many problems with his parents but it’s up to you to help change their minds. All of this has been hard on me too, I know how you feel. Butttttt understand that the relationship is between you both so he should also be able to decide whether or not the relationship should continue, rather then deciding alone like you did. Let him know. 🙏🏻
@@WhiteAngelPearl 😔 I cannot ruin his happiness and suddenly come back into his life, specially when he is married. For many months after breakup he contact me however i do not respond to him in the fear i will break his family.
@@iSkidayo How do you know hes even happy... if hes doing what his parents wanted. Either way if you cant get him back you at least owe him an explanation so he can make peace with what happened and you can aswell. Feel some closure.
@@WhiteAngelPearl he blocked me on social media😣😔, the last time i feel so guilty he keep texting every single day , and i feel i cause him so much pain and misery. He is even drinking daily and calling me. One day i just told him I moved on so that he could forget me i remember that day i cry so much , when of course i didn't move on!. Then he said he wish me best and happiness and that he is sorry if he ever did anything wrong. I told him the reason to breakup is because i don't like him anymore. 😔
sad song..i heard this song when my girlfriend sang this SONG before she broke up with me.....but i try hard to get her back ..thanks God now we together..and she already be my wife for 9 years now..
i'm learning mandarin and this is the first song i can almost completely sing along to. i like that the verse repeats itself, that made it much easier to learn it.
@@zeidmansour7019 well i take mandarin lessons and watch lots of dramas so i already can hear words very clearly and i can also recognize them, so that was probably a very useful foundation to learn the song. I listened to it very often, and especially watched this video often, while reading the lyrics. At a time i was able to sing along more or less, there were lines i could sing very easily and others i had lots of trouble remembering, so i printed the (pinyin) lyrics out and looked up the chords. I sat down at the piano and played it very slowly, so i could keep up. then i learned all the lines i had trouble with individually. And now i don't even really need the text. so to sum it up: i listened to it a lot, i sang it a lot and i read it a lot.
@@zeidmansour7019 yes of course! so here are some i've seen, i can recommend: Meteor Garden accidentally in love well intended love legend of the condor heroes i watched all of them on Netflix, but i think there are also some websites for chinese dramas. one i know is called 'Rakuten viki' but i remember there being lots of ads. I'm sure there are other ones that are also great, but on Netflix you got a pretty big selection. also i can recommend you the app 'hello chinese' it was really helpful for me, it is suited for beginners and you learn lots of vocabulary and also some grammar btw.
Oh gosh. This song brings back all those sad memories from my forlorn days. Jay Chou’s music accompanied me throughout all those difficult years- nearly 10 years. This song especially reminds me of someone who was once special to me. So many times we tried to make it work but distance and timing always got in the way. We dated different people but always had each other in the back of our minds as if we were secretly waiting for each other. Even when dating other people we were looking for each other through someone else. We thought ... should timing and placing ever converge amicably we’d have a chance. Alas, it just never worked that way. When I was far north for college, he was down south for college. When I went west to intern in engineering, he went east for medical school. Hence, the song he dedicated to me: East Wind Breaks. Finally, he made the harder decision to cut off ties to me. In a fit of frustration, I cut all ties he could have had to me if he regretted it and changed his mind. What he did seemed cruel but he didn’t want to string me along for a day that wasn’t going to happened. Years past and when I finally moved on and healed from it all, I learned he’s married and has a little family of his own. I had no feelings of guilt or regret but happiness for him. Because I too had my own little family and I’m happy. We never dated but it always felt like we did because we cared for each other deeply. Every time after we briefly met, we had to part like we were breaking up wondering if that is the last time. It is true that some people are fated to meet but not fated to be together.
I kept thinking where I've heard this before and it suddenly hit me- Mark and Jackson sang this once! It's a very great song and I STILL love it very much♥️
Zhi sheng xia gang qin pei wo tan le yi tian Shui jiao de da ti qin An Jing de jiu jiu de Wo xiang ni yi biao xian de fei chang ming bai Wo dong wo ye zhi dao Ni mei you she bu de Ni shuo ni ye hui nan guo wo bu xiang xin Qian zhe ni pei zhe wo ye zhi shi cheng jin Xi wang ta shi zhen de bi wo hai yao ai ni wo cai hui bi zi ji li kai Ni yao wo shuo duo nan kan Wo gen ben bu xiang fen kai Wei she me hai yao wo yong wei xiao lai dai guo Wo mei you zhe zhong tian fen bao rong ni ye jie shou ta Bu yong dan xin de tai duo Wo hui yi zhi hao hao guo Ni yi jin yuan yuan li kai Wo ye hui man man zou kai Wei she me wo lian fen kai dou qian jiu zhe ni Wo zhen de mei you tian fen An jing de mei zhe me kuai Wo hui xue zhe fang qi ni Shi ying wei wo tai ai ni
Akhirnya nemu juga lagu favorit jaman kuliah dan judulnya An Jing 😂, dulu dengerin ini sambil ngerjain tugas akhir, ga ngerti artinya tapi kayanya sediiihh bgt dan baru tahu ternyata lagunya sediiih bgt pas baca arti liriknya. Jay Chou emang de best deh kalo bikin lagu2 galau
When you're willing to sacrifice everything but at the end, you're not the person he wanted to be with. I didn't know this day will come that when I listen to this song, it breaks my heart into tiny pieces. I don't want to give up on him but he no longer wants me in his life, so I don't have a choice but to let him go altho I love him so much. :'(
i hope u can find someone who is better than me,....that one who dont make u feel boring...im sorry for messing u around..i love u so much..please be happy alot..u deserved it.
I always hear this song since childhood even though I don't know this title or understand that time, finally I found this song ❤ even though i'm supposed research about other thing but i'm not regret it :)
Yeah i used to play this.. on my computer, grandpa still here. My EX didnt even know I love Jay Chou.. its amazing how you love someone but never know how much they actually love you.. this actually scare me, what if i never know my kids.. my ex is my past, i should invest more to know my kids. Every nook. I hope they never hide any part of them from me. If you love someone, let them know everything
Zhi sheng xia gang qin pei wo tan le yi tian Shui jiao de da ti qin An Jing de jiu jiu de Wo xiang ni yi biao xian de fei chang ming bai Wo dong wo ye zhi dao Ni mei you she bu de Ni shuo ni ye hui nan guo wo bu xiang xin Qian zhe ni pei zhe Wo ye zhi shi cheng jin Xi wang ta shi zhen de bi wo hai yao ai ni Wo cai hui bi zi ji li kai Chorus: Ni yao wo shuo duo nan kan Wo gen ben bu xiang fen kai Wei she me hai yao wo yong wei xiao lai dai guo Wo mei you zhe zhong tian fen Bao rong ni ye jie shou ta Bu yao dan xin de tai duo Wo hui yi zhi hao hao guo Ni yi jin yuan yuan li kai Wo ye hui man man zou kai Wei shen me wo lian fen kai dou qian jiu zhe ni Wo zhen de mei you tian fen An jing de mei zhe me kuai Wo hui xue zhe fang qi ni Shi ying wei wo tai ai ni
I miss you i miss your smille your kind word your kiss i cant stop my thinking i dont know how are you now every time i heard this song i feel the pain inside my broken heart my tear wont stop no matter what happen or what i had you will be always my love
this reminds me of my crush it hurts....but I live by the words ' Love is so painful yeah... Goodbyes are even more painful....I can't go on with out you ....Love me Love me back into my arms ' those are Lyrics from BTS ' Love Is Not Over ' .
i'm trying to learn how to speak in Mandarin and this is the first song that I came across few years ago. I gotta say that it's hard to learn Mandarin. Especially the pronunciations.
I'm in quarantine & I miss my life being quarantine with my ex bf. We can spend months just the two of us in our old rental apartment. He bought me Jay chau Dvds concert before.. As a gift. Sad.
