皆さんのこういうところが好きです!悪い言い方をせずに、丁寧に皆さんの意見を伝えて頂いています。You guys are the most awesome people EVA!!! Thanks again for your support! I'll try not to overreact so much next time😂
タカさんはママ友とアイシャさんがうまくいくようにしてくれたんだと思います⭐ 私も主人がアメリカ人で日本とアメリカ両方住みましたが、アメリカにいる時と日本にいる時で言い方を変えないと回りの人が、え!?みたいな反応になるのでお互い気を付けるようにしてます(私だけかな😂) アメリカでお会計時にトイレ行きたくて、支払いは済ませてほしいからCan I go to bathroom?って何気なく言ったつもりが、家に帰ってから主人にあれはトイレ行きたいのに聞かないと行けないみたいな風に周りの人に取られるから、トイレ行くから支払いしてって言う方が良いって帰ってから言われました🎉 私は生粋の日本人なんで彼も私の意図することも分かってるんでお互い教えあいですね🎵 私も日本ではその言い方は失礼になるなど教えます。毎回こういう喧嘩1つずつクリアしていく毎に絆が深くなると思って日々頑張ってます❤ アイシャさんもきちんと謝ってるのが素敵です😉 偉そうな文章になってたらすいません。 アイシャさん大好きです😊
I have no idea why you felt unwanted. I can tell how you guys really cherish each other from a lot of your videos. He must have not been thinking that deep. there might have been some single moms and dads and in that case they would have felt lonely if you had had to sit down with your wife and husband. this is my personal openion though. anyway Congratulations Olivia❤ she is growing up beautiful🥰
It is irresponsible that he just left kids just because you guys had an argument. As a Japanese grown up in Japan, I’ve never seen my father did something like that. That is not normal at all, I wonder if his family or friends also consider it as a problem.
He left the house for 2 days right before the little one’s birthday? I wouldn’t forgive him if my partner does that. He can go for a walk just for a couple hours to calm him down but for 2 days without any contact? NOOO. That could be a reason for me to divorce. Sorry for Aisha
I think in the States, there would be separate groups for moms and dads in this situation (in my opinion), but it's totally your decision to work on the event. I would help with this event. The problem was that dads wouldn't help. I think in the States, people would help regardless of gender. I used to live in Canada as a foreigner, so I understand how you feel about wanting to sit with Taka-san. My friend always did that, even when moms and dads were separated, because she didn't have confidence in her English (I think your Japanese is totally fine, though). But I can imagine it's still challenging for you to join a Japanese moms group. Anyway, I'm happy you guys made up. And oh my, I almost forgot to say: Happy birthday, Olivia!
I was at the same party😊 and I felt the same way too. (I wanted to sit by my son, not by my husband though 😂) It was my first time to attend a big party like that, so I can’t tell if it’s the Japanese common style or not, but showed clearly the difference of gender roles in Japanese culture. Which I hate so much😅but it was kinda interesting for sociological observation.
Firstly, Happy Birthday Olivia! I understand Aisha-san's feeling as we are also international couple. My husband is non-japanese and we often fight (or just I get mad😅) due to cultural differences, but most of the time my husband doesn't understand why I get so angry. By watching this video, I noticed we have to explain the reason of anger calmly and talk each other. (Though it's so difficult to do that when I'm getting mad🤣)
I’m not very confident in telling my ideas in English nicely but I really understand how hard to adjust to people who don’t have the same background. I(Japanese) even struggle with my Chinese partner which I thought more smooth because we at least have Asian backgrounds. I didn’t like Japanese culture with following rules and being hesitated to do what I want to do or what I believe with reading people’s feelings whereas that’s totally my decision in Australia. ( where I live now) In my opinion it’s important to follow culture where you stay wherever you’re from because you chose you stay in Japan. However some cultures are just too different and unexpected which make me confused. Taka san’s behaviour is a good example. We sometimes don’t know that’s person’s problem or a culture difference. I face to those issues in Australia A LOT. Sometimes it’s my misunderstanding. I am happy that I can experience this while I’m here and hope it leads to more understanding of multi cultural environments. All in all, communication is always important to share your thoughts and respect each other. I can understand both of your feelings as a Japanese who lives in a western country. Your relationship must be stronger through this experience 👍 Hope my comment is not mean if it is, sorry in advance and I really did not mean to do. お互い怒ることは人間から自然に湧き起こる感情なので大切だと思います。でも怒ってからどう行動するかは自分の選択です。連絡をせずに2日間消えるのは少し無責任な気がするので2日間くらいどこか行くよっていう連絡と、家の最低限の業務連絡は必要だと思います。いつも楽しんで拝見してます。応援しています。