就三招儿，主导婆媳关系！没人敢惹你 

講得很實用

愈討好奶奶，她愈看不起你，愈會捉你的錯處！ 應與她保持距離！保護好自己家庭，有禮貌的表明立場，不讓她直接干涉這個家庭。

I no need them helping and no need do like that,if yourself don't do like for your own mother,why happen need do like that,call her own daugter do for her,not enough love ,just belong her children.