our mentor hath wittily quirked : der luv lives art, aktually unwittingly unknown to many multitudes auf common peuple, une rather somewhat controversial et sensitive subjekt that wenn one pays special favor to one's beloved, it may incur jealousies et fighting fur favors from amongst der one's circle auf friends ( france), sometimes, one may hath to pay special favors to kiss everybody's arses en der lover's extended families that may hath stirred up greater et big controversies amongst those who can nicht receive der special favors et get neglekted to feel unimportant et unappreciated,!