Granny looks refreshing, pretty in dress! Brother in law is handsome. Esp when he smile or liven up. Indeed, a young child doesn't know what is danger. Thats why they need adults. There is no such thing as speak gently to a toddler at danger point. Granny was absolutely right to be firm. Parents, scold or cane if have to. "Those who spare the rod of discipline hate their children. Those who love their children care enough to discipline them."- Bible, Proverb 13:24